And I thinkthat's inlargepartbecauseifyoudon't dispensewithyourlifeasyoumovethroughitthanthestressofallthatundonebusinessandallthoseunmadedecisionsturnsinto a kindofchaosaroundyou.
Andthatchaosputsyouin a stateofpsychophysiologicalemergencypreparedness, chronicallyandthatjustagesyou.
Andsoit's necessary, insomesense, tostaylightonyourfeetandalso, I think, torenewyourcommitment.
Twoyouraimupward.
And I believethatthat's whatthesacrificialroutinesintheAbrahamicstoriesdramatized.
I saidalreadythatthesethingsareoftenfirstportrayedverydramaticallyandconcretelybeforetheybecomepsychologist.
Nowthere's everybitofevidencethatothercultureswereutilizingcircumcisionbeforehand, soitwasn't necessarily a novelinventionoftheAbrahamicpeople, but I seeit's introductionas a stepontheroadtothepsychologyizationoftheideaofsacrifice, right?
Firstofall, it's givingupsomethingconcrete, andthensecond, itsignifiedbythesacrificeof a partofthebodyinsteadofforthesakeofthewhole.
It's somethinglikethat.
It's dramatizingtheideathatyouhavetogiveup a partofyourselfforthesakeoftheholeandeventually, well, bymoderntimes.
There's a limitissuethere, andthelimitissomethinglike, Well, howgoodcouldyourlifebeifyoureallygotyouracttogetherandyougaveupallthethingsthatwereimpedingyouinyourmovementforward?
Ifyoudidthatforthrightlyandandandwithwithintegrityandwithseriousnesswithwithdeadseriousnessandyoutriedtosetyourliferight, whatistheupperlimitswithregardstohowyourlifemightlayitselfout, and I wouldsay, Well, wedon't knowtheanswertothat, But I thinkthattheideaofsomethinglikethecityofGodortheKingdomofGodonEarthorthereestablishmentofparadisesomethinglikethatistheansweroftheimaginationtothequestion.
Howgoodcouldthefuturebeifsacrificewasoptimized?
Andthoseareourcriticalquestions, right?
And a narc?
A typicalquestionis a questionthateveryoneaskswhethertheyknowitornot, becausesometimesyoucanactout a question.
Anarchetypalquestionis a questionthateveryoneasks, andanarchetypalansweristheanswerthatcan't bemadeanybettertothatquestion, so I couldgiveyouanexampleofthat.
ThereasonthatChrist's passionisanarchetypalstoryisbecauseit's a kindoflimit, right?
I'm speakingaboutthispsychologically, isthatcertainstoriescanexhaustthemselvesin a perfectform, andthatwouldbethearchetypalform.
Sothat's theterritorythatwe'regoingtowanderaroundin a littlebittoday, andwe'llusethestoriesasanchorsbethinking a lotabouttheSodomandGomorrahstorybecauseithas.
I wouldsay, inparticular, bythemorefundamentalistendoftheChristianspectrum, and I'vethoughtaboutthat a lotbecauseit's prettydamnclearthatthestoryofSodomandGomorrahhassomethingtodowithsexualimpropriety.
Anyways, that's the I wouldsayThat's oneofthesecretsto a goodlife, and I cansaythatreally, withoutfearofcontradiction, I would, I wouldsay, becausetheclinicalliteratureonthisisvery, very, veryclear.
Asas I alreadymentioned, thereisn't necessarilyreasonwhy a priority.
Youshouldjustfeelgoodaboutyourself.
Butifyouconvertyouyourself, actingin a courageousandforthrightmannerandencounteringtheworldandtryingtoimproveyourlotandandtakingrisks, youknowin a nonnaiveway, well, thenyouhavesomethingthatyoucancomfortyourselfwith a nightwhenyou'rewonderingwhatthewholedamnpointofhisofyourfutileandmiserablelife.
Itcan't bejustrationalizationsabouthowyouknowyou're a valuableperson, amongothers.
Eventhoughthat's true, that's notgoodenough.
Youneedsomethingthat's morerealistic.
Tosetitagainstthat, andobservingcourageinyourselfisdefinitelyoneofthethingsthatthatthatcanhelpyousleepsoundlyatnightwhenthingsaredestabilized a littlebitaroundyou.
Sobacktothecovenant, GodtellsAbraham, youmakemycovenantbetweenmeandtheeandwillmultiplytheexceedingly a neighborandfellonhisface, andGodtalkedwithhim, saying, Asforme, beholdmycovenant, mycontractiswiththee, andthoushaltbe a fatherofmanynations.
NeithershalldienameanymorebecalledAbram.
ButmynameshallbecalledAbrahamfor a fatherofmanynations.
Have I madetheandHebermeansHifatherinAbraham, fatherof a multitudeand I willmaketheexceedinglyfruitful.
And I willmakenationsoftheandkingsshallcomeoutoftheAnd I willestablishmycovenantbetweenmeandtheeandthyseedaftertheintheirgenerations, foraneverlastingcovenanttobe a goduntotheeandtothyseed.
Aftertheand I willgiveuntotheeandthyseedafterthethelandwhereinthouart a strangerallthelandofCanaanforaneverlastingpossessionand I willbetheirgod.
I lovethatline.
ReallyThelineaboutthelandwhereyouare a stranger, Youknow, everythingthathappensintheBible.
Butit's perfectlyreasonabletothinkaboutthisfromtheperspective, from a moreabstractperspectivethat's muchmorerelevanttomodernpeoplewithourincrediblycomplexsocieties.
Youknow, it's definitelythecasethatifyougointothelandofthestrangerwhichisexactlywhatyoudowhenyoutryoutanynewendeavor, rightwhenyoustart a newjoborwhenyoustart a neweducationalenterprise.
OnLee, weliveinthetemporalspatialworld, andwhatthatmeansisthatthesameplacecouldbedifferentat a differenttimeandmeanitcouldbecompletelydifferent.
Andsoifyou'reinyourhouse, butyouhave a newpersoninyourhousewhileyourhostisnew.
Forallintentsandpurpose, becausetheterritorysurroundingthatnewpersonistheterritoryoftheforeigner, essentially, andthesamethinghappenstoyouwhenyoustart a newjob, andyou'llfindthatwhenyoustart a newjob, especiallyifyoustretchedyourself a littlebitbeyondyourzoneofcomfort, thatyouverymuchfeellikeanimpostor, right?
And I seeitaftertheEverymanchildamongyoushallbecircumcised.
That's a mystery.
They'relike, Whythatparticularright?
What's dramatic?
I mean, it's certainlyit's certainlyeffects a manwherehe's mostconcernedtobeaffected.
There's somethinglikethat, andsoit's It's a sacrificethathas a certain I wouldsay, a certaindegreeofunforgettableitythatwouldbethefirstthingin a certaindegreeofpainandthreatthatgoesalongwithit.
Soit's notnothing.
That's thething.
Nowyoucanargue, and I thinkthereis a NARGyemint, a casetobemadeaboutwhetherornotinthemodernworldcircumcisionis a reasonable, uh, issomethingreasonabletoinflictoninfants.
I don't wanttohavethatconversationatallandBut I don't thinkthat's relevanttothisparticularissuebecausewe'retalkingaboutsomethingdifferent.
We'retalkingabouthumanity's attempttoreconciledthemselvestothefactthatsomethinghastobegivenupinorderforsomethingelsetoehappenandtotrytoreallyworkthroughthatideaandtomakeitinto a psychologicalreality.
Andsofar, whatwe'veseeninthebiblicalstoriesisthatwhenyoumake a sacrifice, it's notreallysomethingpersonalorpsychologicalright.
It's somethingexternalanddramatic.
Yougiveupsomethingthatyouown.
Youdon't giveupsomethingthatyouareorthat's partofyou, andit's it's actuallymoreof a sacrificetogiveupsomethingthat's a partofyouorsomethingthatyouarethantogiveupsomethingthatyouowned.
I mean, it's a subtledistinctionbetweenbecauseinsomesense, thedistinctionbetweenwhatyouownandwhatyouareissubtle, right?
I mean, it's notoverwhelminglysubtle, butbutpeopleidentifywiththeirpossessionsandtheyneedto, becauseotherwisetheywouldn't careforthem, andtheyneedtheirpossessionsinordertolivesotheirpossessionsareinsomesenseintegraltothem.
Butthethistransformationhereofanactthatwasexternalandassociatedessentiallywithpossessionstosomethingthatwasactuallyatleastpartofthebody, bringsthatmuchclosertoitbringsitmuchclosertothetothetotheindividualas a psychologicalreality.
It's somethinglikethat, andyoushallcircumstancescircumcisedthefleshofyourforeskin, anditshallbe a tokenofthecovenantbetwixtmeandyou.
It's also a permanentmarker, youknow, and I'veread a fairbitaboutpracticesliketattooingandbodyscarification, youknow, whichisThosearevery, verycommonpracticesrightthere.
Humanuniversals.
Actually, nomatterwhereyougoaroundtheworld, youmeanyousee a coupleofthings, firstofall, almostwithoutexception, peoplewearclothing, andsometimesit's relativelyminimalclothing.
Andtheotherthingthatyouseeisthatpeopledoscarf I andtattoothemselves, andtheydothatinsomemannertocatalyzetheiridentityrightthere, tryingtotransformthemselvesfrom a genericperson.
Insomesense, to a personthat's beingdesignedbytheirownhand.
It's somethinglikethatthereit's a It's a markerofdevelopingidentity, andsomeofitseemstobecatalyzedwithpain.
Um, I'm alsonotsayingthatthere's anythingwrongwithit, butoneofthethingsyoudoseewhatthatpeoplewhohave a totattoodoreportis a coupleofthingsisthatthepainisactuallynecessaryandthatthepainisactuallysomethingthatseemstoestablishsomethinglike a memorysowell.
It's a memorybecauseofthepain, becauseyoubloodywellrememberthingsthathurt.
Butit's also a memorybecauseit's actuallyetchedonyou, right?
It's notsomethingthatyoucanjustabandonandforget.
Andso a circumcisionisexactlythesamething.
It's likeyoudon't forgetitbecauseit's partofyou, andsoitmakes a goodtokenfor a covenant, andsothatseemstobetherationalehere, fromfromspeakingfrom a psychologicalperspective, it's toindicateaswellthatthedamnthingthat's happeningisserious.
And I thinkalsothatwasthecasewiththeearliersacrificesofanimals.
It's likemodernpeopledon't dothislikeyoudon't knowhowseriousyouwouldtake a vowifyousacrificed a goatinyourbackyard.
Thefitnessofcircumcision, tobe a signofenteringinto a covenantandespeciallyintoonetowhichChildrenweretobeadmitted, consistedinitsbeing a representationof a newbirthbyputtingofftheoldmanandthededicationofthenewmanunderHoliness.
It's a sacrificialideainsomesense, thatifthere's tobe a newyou, thattheoldyouhastodissolvehastoreturntothesolutionfromwhichitemergedinitiallyandtoreconstituteitself.
Well, youcouldmake a caseandandanthropologicalobservershavemadethiscasetoo, thatwomenundergo a sufficiently a setofsufficientlyradicalpsychophysiologicaltransformationsmerelyas a consequenceofbeingpartofbeingfeminineinnature, suchthattheadditionalritualsoftransformationthatmightbenecessaryformenaren't necessary.
Andoneofthosemightbemenstruation, becausethat's a prettydramatictransformation.
Andtherehasbeensomeindicationthatcircumcisionislike a male.
Andthen, ofcourse, thesamethingisthecasewithwomenwhentheygivebirth, becausethat's a particularlydramaticthing, as I justwitnessed, becausemydaughterjusthad a babythisweek.
See, theotherthingthat I readaboutinrelationshiptothisideaofthemultigenerationalcovenanthadsomethingtodobecauseGodtoldAbrahamtoincludeallofthepeopleofhishouseholdintothiscovenant, andandthatthatthatreallymeantthathewasestablishingit.
Soitwas a spirituallyorpsychologicalorethicalterritorythateveryonewhowasofthathouseholdwasrequiredtooccupyorobligedorperhapsprivilegetooccupy.
AndtherewasalsoaninjunctiontoAbrahamwithregardstohisChildren, whichwasthatashehadestablished a covenantwithGod, whichwecouldsayissomethinglikehisdecisiontotoaimashighaspossibleandtoliveproperlyas a consequence, it's morethanthat.
Butit's somethinglikethatthathealsowasunderthesuprememoralobligationtosharethatwithhiswiththeothermeninhisfamily, especiallyhisChildrenandsoandso I thinkthere's also a callheretoadoptingah, sacred, thesacredresponsibilityinrelationshiptoChildrenthathastodowithensuringthattheyunderstandhowtotaketheirplaceintheworld.
And I thinkthatthat's definitelysomethingverymuchworthconsidering, especiallygiventheemphasisintheNoahstoryandthestoryofNoahthatNoahhadhis, thathisgenerationswereperfect.
Rightyou.
As I saidbefore, itwasn't nearlythathehadwalkedwithGodandthathehadperfectedhisownrelationshipwiththedivine.
Let's saywiththetranscendentand I wanttomakethatconcrete, whichis a strangethingtodowiththetranscendent.
I mean, peopleaskmeallthetimeaboutwhat I believe.
Andofcourse, that's what I'm tryingtoexplainwhile I'm talking.
Butbutandinmanypeople, ofcourse, areskepticalabouttheideaofanythingtranscendentandandandsaytranscendentandeternal, butthatitcanalsobeaddressedfrom a psychologicalperspective, because I wouldsay, Well, ifyouhaveanidealofanysort, howisthatnottranscendent?
Andthatfuturesetofpeopleisdefinitelygoingtoserveas a judge.
It's exactlywhatitdoes.
That's preciselywhatitdoes.
Andsoyoumightsay, Well, itwasthebrilliantimaginationofmankindthathypothesizedthatthebestwaytothinkaboutthesocialgroup, includingthefamilybuthealsoincludingyouasyourfutureselfwastoconsiderthatyouliveinrelationshipwith a futurefatherwho's a judge.
Andmyexperienceisbeingthat I don't meanjustpersonally.
I meanthattheworldis a remarkableandmysteriousplace, andtherelationshipbetweenthenatureandstructureoftheworldandyouractionsisindetermineit.
Theymaybemoretightlyrelatedthanyouthink, and I don't knowhowtosquarethatwiththefactthat, well, you'reobviouslyin a mortalbodyandconstrainedbyallsortsofseriousconstraintsandandnoneofthat, noneofthatcanbetriviallyovercome.
And I don't reallyunderstandhowtherecouldbethatseriousnessofmortalconstraintsandtheinfinitepotentialthatalsoseemstocharacterizehumanbeingsallatthesametime.
Butthen I don't reallyunderstandanythingaboutthenatureofreality.
Sothat's justonemoremysterytoaddtothepile.
Sobutmycovenant, I willestablishthisIsaacwhichshareSarahshallbearuntotheeatthesettimenextyear.
I rememberonce I wastryingtoteach a particularlystubbornstudentabouthowtowrite, andshehadwritten a numberofessaysandinuniversityandgotuniversallywallopedforthem, andthereasonforthatwasshecouldn't writereallyatall.
Shewasreally, reallybadatwriting.
Andso I wassittingdownwithher, tryingtoexplaintoherwhatshewasdoingwrong.
Andshewasbeingveryannoyingaboutit.
Veryrecalcitrant, very, veryunwillingtolisten.
Thatwas a pearlsbeforeswinething, youknow?
Andatonepointshesaidit.
I canwriteperfectlywellthisuniversityprofessorsjustdon't likemystyle.
And I couldfeelmyhandscreeptowardshernecks.
Well, thatwouldbefunnyifitwasn't true, Butitwasalsotrue, Youknow, when I thoughtWhatthehell's withyou?
Youcan't evenwrite.
Andyouthinkyouhave a style.
Andnotonlydoyouthinkyeah, no, notknowinghowtowriteisnot a style.
That's theotherpoint, right?
Andsoyouknow, shesheinsteadofhumblingherself, whichwasnecessaryandOK, becauseshewas a newuniversity.
It's likesoSoSocrateshad a chatwithhiscompatriotsandtheywerecontemplatingfairmeansandfoultosetup a defenseforhimsothathecouldortoleavesothathecouldnotbetriedandputtodeath.