have about love, lust and romance and everything in between. For more, visit me on twitter

at downtownShallon or be sure to check out my website Shallononline.com. Girls I know

that sometimes boys seem kind of mysterious. They don't really say what they mean. They

don't communicate very well. But if you know what to look for you can read a boy like a

book without him ever having to open his mouth. Here's a few tips when it comes to boys body

language. There are a few good signs you definitely want to look for that shows a guy is in to

you. Number 1, he's looking at you in the eye. Seems obvious right? Although you might

want to cut a guy some slack if he's not directly making sustained eye contact, it could be

he's just nervous. Another good sign is if he's mirroring your body language. If you

put your hand on your head and he does the same thing this is a good sign. People who

are truly in sync often match up their body language and when people are really connected

they will match up their breathing. Interesting right? Another good sign is he's got his hands

in his back pocket. A lot of guys get fidgety when it comes to their hands so cut them some

slack on this one too. If his hands are in his back pocket then he's opening up his chest

like a man, like a tarzan man, and pointing it towards you the chick he likes. Also, in

the same vein, you want his knees to be facing towards you. Basically his whole body should

be turned to face towards you. A lot of guys sit with their legs splayed wide open, I mean

come on ladies I think we all know what that means, so even though it's not the most well

mannered thing a man can do, it is a good sign when it comes to flirting. Some sign

not so good. If a guy is rubbing the back of his neck, going like that, that means he's

feeling pressure. He probably does not like the conversation your having he kind of wants

to get out of it. If your confronting a guy about something, maybe your asking him if

he's cheating and he touches his face when he's answering, that's also a bad sign. That

means he's lying. Like he's unconsciously trying to stop the words from coming out of

his mouth. Bad. And just like I said before if a guys posture is mostly turned away from

you that's not great either. I see so many girls out on dates who are turned like this

to their date and just hanging on them and the guy literally has his arms crossed and

is facing away. Not a good sign. So with a little practice you will be able to pick up

on these things quicker and quicker and get a very good idea of where your romance is

heading.