ButisitisrainingsomethingfearsAndso a littlebitof a disclaimerfromthebeginning, Thisvideoisgonnabesupereasytodigestforeverybody.
Butif I canhelponeoreventwoofyouavoidthispitfallthan I think, thewholethingwillhavebeenworthit.
What I wanttotalkabouttodayis a bitof a seriousissuethat I'veseenimpactfriendsandacquaintancesalikeagainandagainandagainintheover 10 yearsthat I'vebeenhereinJapan.
I'veseen a lotofpeoplemakethesamemistakeindifferentwaysandreallyenduppayingforitinthelongrun.
A lotofpeoplewhowanttomovetoJapanaregoingtofaceverysimilarstrugglesthingslikework, visas, languageor, aswediscusspreviously, eventhingslikethestruggleofloneliness.
Andbelieveitornot, a lotoftheseissuescanactuallybetracedbacktothesameoratleastverysimilarreasons a reasonthatonthesurfaceseems a lotmoresimplethanitactuallyins.
Youseeonthesurface, itkindofjustlookslikeeverybody's in a rush.
Andwhilethismaypartiallyholdtrueforsome, there's somethingmuchdeeperthatthey'redoingbecausethey'rein a rush, whichisleadingto a lotofunnecessarylongtermtrouble.
Yousee, a lotofpeoplewilltradeoutthelongtermlifestyleorsuccessfor a shorttermwindorgain.
I seeitagainandagain, and I seepeoplesufferforiteverysingletime.
Nomatterwhatthereason.
Thevisaresearchistoocomplicatedor I don't wanttowaitthismanyyearsbefore I canliveinJapanorwannahavetogobacktouniversityandget a degreebefore I couldmovetoJapan.
Therearecountlessreasons a reallycommonexample I seeofthisispeoplewhowanttoliveinJapanlongterm, butforsomereasonaredeterminedtogetherewhilethey'rereallyyoungandtheyendupstuckin a jobthattheymaynotparticularlywanttodo, especiallylongterm, becausetheycametoJapanwithoutanywork, experienceortransferrableskills.
I havefriendsineveryindustry, fromdesignedto I t tothemedicalfield, everythinginbetweenwholovetheirjobandlovetheirlifebecausetheycametoJapanwithskills.
Butwhat I amsayingisthatifyourgoalistoliveinJapanlongterm, haverealisticexpectationsanddon't expectthatjustbecauseyou'rephysicallyinthecountrythatyou'regonnamagicallyfindsomeloopholetoe a visathatdidn't existbeforeyoulandedinthecountry, thatthechancesofthatareincrediblyslipped.
Youdotheresearch, No, youroptionsbuildyourskillsandsavemoney.
Andmoneyaloneis a big 11 thatscares a lotofpeople.
I oftengetasked, howmuchdoesitcosttomovetoJapan?
Andyoucandoitreallycheap.
But I'lltellyourightnow, you'regonnahave a muchbettertimeandbe a lotlessrestrictedineverythingfromjoboptionstojustyourdailylifeifyousavemuchmorethanjustwhatyouneedinordertomovehere, I havewatchedfartoomanypeoplesacrificewhatcouldhavebeen a longandverysuccessfullifeinJapanjustbecausetheywantedsomethingrightnow.
Andquitefrankly, I knowthattimeisn't a luxurythateveryonecanafford, butit's uptoyoutodeterminewhetherornotthatisthecaseforyou, orwhetherwaitingandbeing a littlemorepatientwillsetyouupformoresuccessandhappinessinthelongterm.
And I'm suretherearegonnabe a fewpeoplewhowatchthisvideohelicopterthat's me.