Fear closes you down.

Love enhances energy.

Fear shuts the energy down.

I'd like to talk to you about what is called the honeymoon effect.

But to understand at first we just have to simply say that only 5% of your life is coming from the conscious mind.

The one with the wishes and desires and aspirations.

The life that you would love to lead 95% of our life come from the subconscious habits that primarily were acquired by observing other people.

So 95% of the day, you are not necessarily moving toward that wish up heaven on Earth.

And I say, But what happens when we fall in love?

And the answer is all of a sudden, in 24 hours, your life can radically change your life.

Could be blah, blah, blah, blah.

Every day of your life into one day a change occurs.

And in this case, I'll use you meet someone that you fall in love with.

That I say, What is the consequence of falling in love?

Well, in a regular day 5% of our life is created by the conscious mind, and thinking sends the conscious mind back into the inside of the head, which then makes the subconscious mind the driver of our life 95% of the day with its negative behaviors.

But when you fall in love, guess what you stop thinking.

You stay mindful.

What does that mean?

That means look, you've been looking for this person your whole life, and now they're in front of you.

Why would you be thinking you would be present and taking it in and a living the moment that you can?

Well, guess what?

If you stop thinking, then the conscious mind is not working just 5% of the day.

It's working over 90% of the day and all of a sudden said, Well, now I'm creating my life from wishes and desires, not from limiting programs in the subconscious mind, So falling in love is an opportunity to get out of the program.

Well, first of all, let me just emphasize this.

Falling in love is not just romance.

Love.

Falling in love is something that just takes your heart and opens it up you could be a gardener and put your hands in the dirt that makes you feel so good and so healthy.

That's a form of love.

You could be a cook in the kitchen, creating wonderful recipes and in that process, enjoying it so much that you stay present while you're cooking.

Guess what?

You're not reverting to your subconscious program, so honeymoon effect does not actually mean just romance with a person.

It could be happiness with your pet.

It could be the guarding of the cooking artwork, anything that you do that enhances your being here now, rather than going back and operating from subconscious beliefs, the relevance of the honeymoon effect is love again, whether it's love for an individual or something that you're working on.

Why is that so vital for us?

And the answers profoundly important?

Because love represents harmony between you and the environment in which you're living and in harmony enhances your vitality because the energy of that is feeding you to be healthier and happier.

In contrast to an experience of love.

The opposite would be fear, I say.

What's the relevant difference between that?

The answer is, love enhances your vitality your energy.

Fear closes you down.

When your protection you wall yourself off from the world around you.

That's what protection is all about.

So love open to to the world, which allows you to bring in the joy, the energy and the happiness.

Fear closes you down while you think you're protecting yourself from any threats from the outside.

Coming in.

Love enhances energy.

Fear shuts the energy down, and therefore love enhances vitality.

Because life is energy, fear compromises vitality.

Because fear is just the opposite.

It shuts down your energy.

So the honeymoon effect is really a recognition of what getting out of the negative programs, operating from wishes and desires.

Filling your body's blood with the chemistry that enhances EPA genetics, which enhances your health on and makes life the joy that we love.

So when you're in love, life is wonderful and beautiful.

When you're in fear, your shut down and afraid so the difference is why I love this so important in our world.

Because life is driven by love, the energy off love and contrast fear will shorten your life.

The energy and chemistry of fear is actually the cost of almost all illness on this planet.

So you needed a simpler answer than the fact that love enhances your vitality, your energy and your health as compared to fear which shuts down your vitality, your energy and causes disease.

It's all a matter of interpretation, of the mind being translated into chemistry that makes a complement of the body, the body in love, vital body and fear threatened.

And all of a sudden you see why we seek love.

It's a built in mechanism to enhance our life experience on this planet.