I thinkwhat I lovethemostaboutBruceishe's verykind.
She's a goodcook!
Serene—
That, thatdoesn't—
He's a verycompassionateperson.
Sheis, truly, theperson I alwayswantedtobe.
I loveit— Sheis—
Sheistheepitomeofserenity.
Oh, onesurprisetomeaboutmarriage, afteralltheseyears, hasbeenwhat a joyitisatthisstage.
I didn't knowthatitwouldbethatwonderfulagainasitwas, youknow, beforewehadalltheselittlescreamingmimis.
Well, it's noteasy.
Well, thebiggestproblem—
Andifanybodythinksthatyou'regonnabeonyourhoneymoonfor 51 years, it's ridiculous!
Sometimesthetunnel's prettylong.
Yeahanddark.
Well, ithasbeenanenjoyablechallengebecause I havebeenintroducedinto a culturethat I wasjusttotallyignorantof.
Itwasveryhardforher. I knowthat!
Whathurtsomuch?
You!
I think I hadtohavebeenlikeinmy 30s orearly 40s and I justthought, "Thisisit? Thisisn't— thisisn't fun!"
Itdidn't mattertomethatJimwasn't a memberofthechurchbecause I lovedhimverymuchand I thoughtif I onlylivewithhimforthistimeonly, thenthatwaswhat I wouldbehappywith.
But, a coupleofyearslaterwhenourchildrenstartedtocomealong, I realizedthatwasnottrue.