I'm goingtokindoftieinmyexperienceandwhat's gonnahappenwhenyoudogoto a gynecologistinJapan.
Itis a scarythingwhenyougoto a doctorinanothercountry.
Myfirstexperiencegoingto a gynecologistwaswhen I firstmovedtoJapaninthedebtprogramandthatwasnot a badexperience.
I had a offemalefriendtowentwithmeand I endupgetting a yeastinfectionandthatwaslikemyfirsteveryeastinfection.
So I endedupgoingto a doctor.
Hewassomeoldman, likehewassupernice.
Hewasveryknowledgeable.
Therewasn't anythingcrazy.
Thiswasanallmori.
So, liketherewaslikeonegynecologistgavememedicineandeverythingwasgoodagain.
Sothatwaslikethefirsttime I wentto a gynecologist.
I wassonervous.
I wasbreakingout.
Myheartwasbeating.
I waslike, Ohmygosh, I don't knowwhattoexpect.
I don't knowwhattheywantmetodobutitwasnicetohaveah, friendwhowasJapanesetogowithmeWhen I movedtoNagoya, however, I hadtolookforonEnglishmakinggynecologist I don't knowtoomanygynecologistsinNagoya.
I hadonebadexperiencethereWhen I wentthere.
Hewasjustsonasty.
Likehewasnotnice.
Thedoctorwasjustsopushy.
I don't knowhowtoexplainit.
AndhewastheonewhotoldmethatPMSisnotnormalwhenitcomestohaving a periodwhichconfusedthehelloutofmebecausedon't weallhavecrampsandlikemoodswingsandallthatstuffbefore a periodslike, I'm prettysurethat's commonandnormallikeand I waslike, That's reallystrained.
I haveneverheardofanywaythatdidn't havethosethings, butthatwasmystory.
Goingto a reallybaddoctor.
I waslividwhen I left.
I don't evenrememberthenameofthedoctor.
So I can't reallytellyouwhichoneitwas.
ButhedidspeakEnglish, butyeah, I neverwentbacktohimafterthat.
First, whenyoudogoto a gynecologist, they'regoingTeoh, askyou, Teoh, takeoff.
Youknoweverythingbelowthebeltsandputitin a basketsoyouwillbeescortedinto a privateroomandyoucantakeoffyourclothes, putitinthereandthenyouwillbeseatedon a chairbeforethedoctorcomesin.
Soit's kindoflikeanallprivatethinginthebeginning, andthentheyput a curtainoveryourface.
Sothiswastheoneoftheshocking, likecultureshocksthat I hadWhen I wenttothegynecologist, theyput a curtainoveryourface.
A lotofwomengetreallyshyaboutit, ornervousactuallylikeitlike I likenothavingtoseethedoctorandjustgettingtheprocedure.
Justgonnatellyouthat a lotofpeoplejustdon't doit, okay?
Iftheydoit, theyusecondoms.
Andcondomsherearenot a onesizefitsallishonestlylikeifyou'recomingfrom a Westerncountrywithyourhusbandoryourboyfriendorwhatever, bringcondomsbecausemostofthetimethey'renot.
I'm notsayingthateveryguyhas a smallyouknowwhat, butitisveryhardtofindlargersizeshere.
A lotofmymalefriendsfromAmericahavehadsuch a hardtimefindingcondomsthatwork.
I think a lotofmyfriendshavethisanditlastfor, like, 10 yearsorsomethingsoyoucangettheseonlyofoneclinicthat I found, which I willlinkdownbelow.
AndthedoctorgraduatedfromMichiganStateUniversity, whichiswhere I graduatedfrom, so I kindofwanttoseeherandseewhatshetalked.
Thinksthecostofgettingitissoexpensive.
It's likeliterally $1000 tolike 600 to $1000 togetthese, butit's worthitbecause I spent 9000 yeneverythreemonthsonthispill, youcanjustusecondomsthat's honestlylikethebestwayinsteadofharmingyourbody.
I thinkthat's likethebestwaytogoisjustcondoms.
Someclinics.
Beforeyougetbirthcontrol, youhavetoget a bloodtesteverytimeandget a newpack, whichreallysex, oreverytimeyougotothedoctor, youhavetoget a bloodtest, whichwassoannoyingthatwasoneoftheclinicsthat I hadtoendurewas a bloodtesteverysingletime.
I needednewpacksanditwassoannoying.
Butitis a goodthingbecausetheychecktoseeifeverything's working.