little

genuine encouragement many people need and how and how they have not like

maybe if you got hold them when they were young, you could teach them the value of

expressing themselves and competing or doing something where you get like positive feedback from your effort, and I think that

some people they just

They don't they don't ever get that. No one ever said to the man meant it

It's not okay for you to be

Weak loser

It's not. Okay, and the reason it's not okay is because you could be way more than that

There's somebody sitting on right now

There's a young ten year old kid sitting on that don't that will follow them and he's ready that's on the game

He's ready to give up

I'm telling you don't give me

And don't ever give up. It's a crime

an ethical crime

For you to allow all that

Necessary potential to go to waste it hurts you it hurts your family. It hurts the world really

really it does and

So when someone gets that from someone like you when they they they get that that fuel

That intangible fuel that you get when you get inspired by somebody

They it's so emotional because it's a really is like you gave them a gift and that gift

We model ourselves after other successful people. We do it all the time

Hopefully if everything goes great

You model yourself off your parents or you model yourself after your uncle your brothers and sisters or whoever it is

that's around you that seems to be exceptional and

That fuels people it helps people. It means a lot to people

Sometimes people don't have that so they got to look inward. My dad beat this shit on me was growing up and

Beat the shit out of me this year. You know, I love my mom

There was an instant one time when my mom got knocked out on top of the stairs and they drug her down the stairs by

Her hair it at six years old. I'll never forget this in my mind. I was always afraid

My whole life I was afraid but I had this voice this this conscience that would always be battling me said hey

You got to get up and do something. I didn't want to do shit

You know, I was just afraid and I have a big time learning disability

Can my dad didn't believe in us going to school?

So when I went to school, I was all kind of, you know, my learning disability. I had social anxiety

I was just a jacked up kid from living in this tortured home

Sometimes

You don't find someone for a long time and then when you do it

changes your whole life

you find someone maybe it's just a YouTube video and it's you saying it's still your

Motherfucking set and it's you just pushing people and telling people to go get after it

And what changed I came home watch this Discovery Channel show

On class 2:24 I came home from Steak N Shake

I sprayed it down last get a big ol large 42 ounce shake walk across the street and get a box of mini doughnuts from

7-eleven

So while I'm driving home to the TV on him, but comes on just cover each other. So and

That's what everything changed for me. I

Lost the show and it made me reflect

Big-time on the piece of shit that I am and I'm exactly what people said. I was going to be

and I sat there and said this is my life this

Is it and I said this ain't gonna be it for me

so in that restaurant

I quit my job

And I started working out like somebody I was I became the most obsessed person on the planet Earth

So when I was a kid, I found an educator whose talents I liked as educated

I found people who are moral and I would follow them and and I found people great athletes and I only

honored the athletic part of their lives

It's so sad that so many of these men, you know

They've not had an encouraging bloody word a real encouraging word in their entire life. It just takes a little bit of

the encouragement and care so that they're willing to accept themselves straight to some degree and start trying it's just a

Catastrophe that that's that's so rare in their lives. What if you don't want to do anything? You don't have any

Goals or obsessing and all thing I can tell you is find something. Do you have anything that you love is?

Anything that you love anything that you like to do then, you know start there. Do I try my best but

Is it victory in that

God damn, right it is it's a beautiful thing when you go to bed at night

Getting ready to close your eyes

days over taking a breath

You realized even if you fucked it up really bad

Didn't stick to your plan

Didn't do the things you said you were going to do at the beginning of the day

It doesn't matter anymore because the time is gone

You can't get it back and you got to get some sleep man, because you've got all these grand visions in your head

But tomorrow it's gonna be different

You're gonna get up you're gonna get some exercise what steps next you need to take

to become successful in a way that you want to

then morning comes

It's very challenging

To act to do those things at times when you're looking at if you say I know I need to do this

But I don't feel like I don't want to do it. I know I need to do it yet. Leave me alone

No, you never say no you never say. Hey, you've done don't you ever sell your body?

It can't get done. Even if you feel in your heart. It can be done. You all say it out loud

Are you willing to do it knowing that you got so much work to do to get it better to get it more?

Perfect. But are you willing to do it inside your imperfection? Do you realize that in your imperfection?

You're perfect for the job. It is impossible

until

some crazy start of it has the audacity to believe that no matter what the

expert or the doctor says I

Can still do this

They're winners

they're losers and

There are people who have not discovered how to win and all they need is some coaching

All they need is some help that assistance just a little support

All they need is some insight or different strategy a plan of action to make some adjustments

That will open up the key to a whole new future for them that will give them access to the unlimited power

But they have within themselves. That's all that they need

Morning always comes

There it is, man

Morning night morning night

Where's counter morning comes you open your eyes

all of a sudden

You've got a different mindset and by the time you get from your bedroom kitchen

There's mr. Ugly-ass

mister resistance

Riding you poking at you making fun of you?

Telling you that all those things that you wanted to make important today

All those things that you wanted to do because they give your life a purpose and a meaning and a worthiness

But they don't mean shit

every day

Is an opportunity?

for you to start taking control of your life and

fulfilling your destiny

Paying attention to your inner voice not the voices that fucking dumb ask mr. Resistance

You think that successful people have some lucky charm well, let me tell you something I woke up this morning

I couldn't find my fucking lucky charm. I

and other successful people

Wake up every day doing the same thing fighting

Fighting back against the distractions the fears the doubts

And we learn over time we build into a habit to spend more time having control

instead of more time being out of control

It does matter

It mattered last night when you laid down and you put your head on a pillow

You were going to get up this morning and you were gonna make it matter

Everything you did. Today we're going to do today was going to have a purpose behind it. It was Boise matters

Don't

Yourself so what I want you to do is is think about

Something you want for you?

That's real for you that's important for you. That will give your life some special meaning and power

And I don't even want you to say I can do that

I don't want you to assume that

You got an idea you want to move on you might not have the money you might not have the education you

Might not have the support or the resources you need. What is that something that?

Can keep us going that will enable us to act on our dream. What's one of those keys

Say it's possible. It's all I want you to do. When you look at your dream. You say to yourself every day. It's possible

Let's say that every day Giselle is possible. It begins to change your belief system to the way in which we operate

It's a manifestation of what we believe what's copper before