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  • - On the surface, you look like someone

  • who just kind of plays by the rules.

  • You're kind of a nice girl from next door

  • who is silly and funny, but I don't think

  • everybody would probably know that you--

  • (dramatic music)

  • - Like so many people right now,

  • I've been living my life online,

  • been working from home, online meetings,

  • I talked to my friends through Google Hangouts,

  • and it got me thinking, how much can a private investigator

  • find out about you if they had 60 minutes?

  • If someone wanted to stalk me or I don't know,

  • bring me down in an expose,

  • how easy would it be for them to do that?

  • I really don't know what's out there.

  • There could be some pretty embarrassing stuff,

  • some stuff that I've definitely blacked out.

  • (dramatic music)

  • Now's the time to find out if I've got like way too much

  • information out there so I can hopefully fix it.

  • So I called Elizabeth South, private investigator

  • and put her on the case.

  • (phone rings)

  • - [Elizabeth] Hello?

  • - Hi Elizabeth. This is Sarah from Buzzfeed.

  • - [Elizabeth] Hi Sarah, how are you doing?

  • - How are you? Thank you for taking the call.

  • - [Elizabeth] I'm looking up background,

  • see what I could find on one of the staff members.

  • You give me the information.

  • - Right, and that that staff member

  • is actually going to be me. (laughs)

  • What do you need to start the search?

  • - [Elizabeth] Your first and last name.

  • - Have you ever found like a person that has a second family

  • or anything like that?

  • - [Elizabeth] Oh yeah.

  • - Oh, that, is that common, more common than I've been?

  • - [Elizabeth] Yeah, I've dated them

  • - Oh God.

  • - [Elizabeth] By accident, without knowing it.

  • Like three times, yeah, and I ended up dating

  • a lot of Wall Street guys with one or two other families,

  • I had no idea. Then I got into PI work, on accident.

  • - Oh, that was your inspiration.

  • - [Elizabeth] Yeah.

  • - [Sarah] So how much time do you need?

  • - [Elizabeth] Three to four hours.

  • We'll get quite a bit information on you.

  • - All right. Thank you. Take care.

  • - [Elizabeth] My pleasure, look forward to it.

  • - Bye. Bye.

  • (tense music)

  • Elizabeth says before you hire a private investigator,

  • you should always research them.

  • So I'm going to investigate her.

  • Okay Kay and Associates.

  • Okay, she's not in a flight company,

  • so I must have spelled it wrong.

  • All right, so this is where she works, Kay and Associates.

  • And you should see if, how long they're licensed.

  • Okay. So we're going to do a search here,

  • license type, lamp adjuster.

  • I didn't know that that was a thing.

  • Oh, will you look at that?

  • 1992, September 16, 1992, issuance date. Okay.

  • - When I'm going through my research

  • and I'm looking up Ms. Sarah Burton,

  • I mean, obviously, you know, we have databases where

  • we get a lot of our information from,

  • and we cross reference that.

  • However, I don't think people realize how much information

  • you can actually get off social media.

  • Really everything. I know almost everything about you now.

  • - Elizabeth South, Google.

  • Which one are you? No, that can't be her.

  • Is that her?

  • I had to stop looking up things about Elizabeth

  • because it felt weird, but she is legit.

  • So now I'm legitimately scared to find out

  • what she finds out about me.

  • I guess I'll just wait.

  • - What was most interesting was when I had a call

  • with a former roommate.

  • I wonder if her family knows about this.

  • I was informed that she--

  • (dramatic music)

  • Hello? - Hi. How are you?

  • - Good. How are you?

  • - So there probably wasn't that much on me, right?

  • - Well, I mean, I don't know what you consider very much.

  • I've got a lot of info on you.

  • - Oh no. Okay. All right. All right.

  • Well, I guess we should just dive in.

  • - Yeah, I did find out something

  • that probably is not on your social media profile.

  • I mean, here's the thing.

  • - Okay.

  • - Most people are like you, like,

  • you're going to have Facebook.

  • You really need to make it private,

  • especially if you have friends

  • or you're going to be posting any private information,

  • because that really tells people where they can find you.

  • Most people don't realize how much information they input

  • into the app, that you can still be located with.

  • Even for you, I recommend having private accounts

  • and then public accounts.

  • Like I have a number of celebrity friends,

  • but they have a separate account

  • under a name that's not connected to them.

  • They do not connect your phone number to it,

  • I can find you like that.

  • - Okay.

  • - Connect your regular email to it.

  • I mean, there's, I can't give away too many secrets,

  • but I have conversations with my friends.

  • Like if anyone ever calls you, you hit me up first.

  • You never trust anybody.

  • If I would've wanted to find loads of information on you,

  • very easy to do.

  • - When you say "loads of information," what do you mean?

  • - I mean, not only all of your friends back to high school

  • who is connected to you, what you were doing,

  • your interests, your job history, your hobbies.

  • - So the stuff that is out there now, in the past,

  • even if I go and change privacy settings, or I delete them,

  • that doesn't necessarily mean it's gone from the internet.

  • That's what you're saying?

  • - That's exactly what I'm saying.

  • - Did you find anything bad about me?

  • Is there anything that you would recommend

  • that I take offline?

  • - I mean, so if you're really like, if you're one of these,

  • I would say conservative, religious people, they might,

  • they may find it sinister.

  • I found it super entertaining

  • and I decided we could be friends.

  • - Oh, okay.

  • - I found out for your birthday

  • that you wanted to have a seance.

  • And there was an exorcism part to it.

  • - [Sarah] Yeah, to try to exorcize my demons.

  • - Did it work?

  • - Um, I guess so, because my record's pretty clean, right?

  • (laughs)

  • As you probably know,

  • I don't have like an arrest record or anything.

  • So I feel like I don't have that much.

  • Is there anything else that you found

  • most people maybe wouldn't realize you could find so easily?

  • - I know I have your phone numbers,

  • you know, linked to you.

  • I have all of your past addresses.

  • I have you listed from March 2011 to October 2012 at (bleep)

  • - That's completely accurate.

  • - I can give you five others. (laughs)

  • - No, I don't need to, I, move on.

  • - Your, your social security is. (bleep)

  • This is just on a flat across the board,

  • what we get from our databases.

  • - Okay, okay.

  • - I can tell how you vote, how you're registered to vote.

  • I see all your friends, family members, their age,

  • their dates of birth, all of your neighbors.

  • Now this is going to probably freak you out a little bit.

  • - Um, okay?

  • - So not only do I see all your possible neighbors,

  • I can see all of your possible neighbors,

  • their social security, their date of birth, their age,

  • and all addresses associated with them,

  • as well as getting their phone numbers.

  • So if I wanted to interview literally anyone

  • you've ever been near, I can do it.

  • - Wow. Yeah, please don't call my neighbor from 2012.

  • Thank you.

  • - Well, that's too late.

  • Yeah. I did talk to one of your neighbors.

  • (dramatic music)

  • I have conversations with my friends.

  • Like if anyone ever calls you, you hit me up first.

  • You never trust anybody.

  • Really nice, they seemed very sweet,

  • On the surface, you look like someone who just kind of

  • plays by the rules, you're comedic,

  • you're kind of a nice girl from next door

  • who is silly and funny, but I don't think everybody

  • would probably know that you donated eggs.

  • Wasn't that around 2012, something like that?

  • - That was, I did that right after college

  • to pay off some of my debt,

  • but like very few people know that.

  • - Well now I do everyone who watches this video

  • is probably gonna know.

  • - I mean, it's fine, it's okay.

  • I, I don't feel bad about it.

  • It's just one of those, like things that I did in the past.

  • - If I would have wanted to go deeper into that

  • and to find what happened, it's a very good possibility

  • we could have gotten information.

  • So I'm not saying that sometime in the future, you know,

  • 10, 15 years from now that I might not get a call

  • from somebody who you may end up being their birth mother.

  • And we can track that back.

  • - I selected a program where I did it anonymously.

  • So I thought--

  • - There's always a way to find that answer,

  • that's all I can tell you.

  • - I do realize with the internet,

  • and obviously with all these DNA testing--

  • - Gonna pop up.

  • - Yeah.

  • - Because you didn't think back in 2012,

  • that this would happen.

  • Like when me and my partner got together, I was like,

  • before we get married, we're doing an ancestry thing.

  • That's gonna make sure you don't have any love children

  • that I don't know about,

  • because I might not stay with you if I find that.

  • - What can I do now to try to make myself more secure?

  • - If it's a place you frequently go,

  • that people could just walk in there and see you

  • and you don't want to be found,

  • like this is our Sunday brunch place.

  • So I'm like, look, if you want to be found, fine,

  • but most girls I know are on dating apps,

  • and most dating apps, actually all dating apps

  • have a lot of creeps on them.

  • If you are on a dating profile,

  • do not use pictures that you put on your other

  • social media profiles, 'cause they'll find you.

  • - 'Cause they'll match them up.

  • - What I recommend to absolutely everybody,

  • you don't autofill credit cards.

  • Never put that computer on a public wifi.

  • - [Sarah] Okay.

  • - Even if you're at Starbucks, you open up your computer

  • and it's going to automatically connect,

  • and you do have professional hackers to where they will

  • hang out near coffee shops or places where there's free wifi

  • and it's real easy to get on your wifi

  • and go through all of your information.

  • - So do I need to have a discussion

  • with my friends about answering phone calls?

  • - Yes, absolutely.

  • - Okay. Alright. Thank you.

  • - Thank you, Sarah, goodbye.

  • Stay safe, see you later.

  • - Okay bye.

  • - Bye.

  • (dramatic music)

  • - So what did I learn? Pretty clean online record,

  • not too much out there.

  • She was able to contact my old roommates

  • and get them to talk.

  • She was able to find out I donated my eggs,

  • which is wild because that is something I did years ago.

  • Like, if I have kids, they're eight years old

  • and they could find me, either from like DNA tests

  • or obviously hiring a private investigator.

  • So I guess I just need to know that will happen

  • and be at peace with it,

  • because you can't really change what you did in the past.

  • Just try to protect your present and be smart now,

  • or I don't know, witness protection maybe.

  • All right. So stay safe out there.

  • I gotta get to work on making some private and public

  • social media accounts. You don't want a stalker.

  • So I'm cleaning my socials. Bye.

  • (relaxed music)

- On the surface, you look like someone

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