One.

When I was 11 or 12 I had a crush on a girl and I told my friend she was like Anna, you're just trying to be interesting.

So I have internalized that I'm just a straight girl trying to be interesting to buy.

Sexuality is a spectrum, and for the most part, I mean, my pie chart leans more towards being attracted to men.

So it felt weird to say I was bisexual if I mostly felt attracted to men.

And finally, I'd never been physical with the woman.

So how can you really affirm your bisexuality if you've never got down and dirty with a lady?

And then a few things happened?

For one?

I talked to some amazing queer women, like actually Perez and Gabby Done and Stevie Bobby, who basically said, If you're attracted to both sexes, you're bisexual.

Doesn't matter what your percentages are.

It doesn't matter if you've been with a girl.

If you like both you like both and then I was physically with the woman.

Two women at the same time, ways dirt on my shoulder.

Just kidding.

I love and respect those women very much.

And finally I got drunk and I won an award at Buffer Festival.

And when I was allowed to engrave this award, I did this.

And then I promptly sent it to my parents because I figured it's easier news to stomach for Asian parents if it's engraved on an award.

And I always thought I wasn't going to come out publicly because, for one, I don't wanna get to monetize on YouTube and two because I made this really embarrassing video years ago about how it was okay for me to kiss the same sex when I was in a relationship, because this is very grand and trying to be really fun.

But then I got drunk at the stream, is and won another award.

Please, please, please vote.

People need us more than ever.

Marginalized groups need us more than ever.

I'm not only ah, woman of color, but I'm also a queer woman.

So please get out to the polls and vote.

Thank you.

Thank you very much.

So there you have it.

I can on Lee come out with my sexuality when I'm inebriated and winning in some capacity.

It's very anti climactic.

Anyway.

Here's what my parents had to say about me being by.

How do you feel about homosexuality?

Well, I'm not a participant, but none of my business.

I'm open to it.

I don't care like you personally.

No, no, not me.

I got a lot of cousins that lesbians and gay.

So I grew up knowing about it.

So there's no big deal.

How do you feel about bisexuality?

No big deal either.

I wish it ran in the family.

You mean like you wish Mom was my first date with a girl?

She joked about us getting married.

Did you really go out with a girl?

Yes.

Oh, I didn't know that.

So those songs that I kissed a girl, I kissed a girl and I like it.

That's true.

Do you care if I end up with a man or a woman?

Not really along.

Is there nice?

As long as you're happy, I really don't care.

Do you believe in polyamory?

What is that?

I don't know what that means.

It's okay.

Mhm E would have to believe it from the fact that it exists in a lot of cultures.

Mormons, they believe in polygamy.

The Muslims believe in polygamy.

And I've met quite a few on both sides.

Uh, they're very happy with multiple partners.

Well, if it works for them, it's not my business.

I don't care.

But you are monogamous, monogamous?

Meaning just one person.

Yes, I've already I've already broached the question with your mother.

That is not a topic for discussion.

Ever.

Ever, ever.

Have you ever had a threesome?

No.

No.

Do you wanna have a threesome?

Never.

Things is.

For the record, I have to say.

Now, have you ever had crushes on girls?

No, but I did like my teacher before in high school.

She is really pretty like her, but not like it.

But I loved the way and face looks.

I have looked at men and thought I bet women would literally like him based on the way he looks.

But that's a far as it goes.

Do you ever question your own sexuality?

No.

The no.

I just want to do it with Daddy and nobody else.

Oh, he told us that you will not consider a threesome at any point ever.

He's yours.

No, I'm kind of kind of old fashioned, I think.

What do you think?

When I sent you that message, I thought it was Photoshopped Photo E.

Yes, because I didn't think that's something that they would present to you on stage in front of the cameras and a bunch of people.

No, I got it engraved afterwards.

Well, I didn't get it at first because I didn't know what the hell was like.

What is this, b b i What?

At what the heck or a buy?

And that's why I was like, It's on a goodbye that it goes like, I don't know.

We're surprised.

Not really.

I mean, not that I suspected or anything, but it wasn't shocking.

It's like you're telling me about a new dress e dress by by cool.

Like I said, as long as you're happy, I'm happy for you know, once you find a good partner, think the partner that would love you take care of you, not hurt you.

I think that's that's all parents want for their kids.

Just to be happy Way did mention it does not mean your mother didn't know what it meant.

I kind of explain a little bit Google.

Did I have to go?

You know I didn't have to go.

That's a person.

It doesn't matter if you're with a woman over the guy, You know?

Like I said, you just have to be in love.

You're happy with them.

And as long as the partner is good, good with you.

Good for you And respect this other.

I don't see any problem with it.

Don't say anything to the gay community.

Hi, Timmy.