I don't knowifit's becausethatyou'relike a womanorlike a womanofcolor, butit's alwayslikeyou'reworkingthreetimeshardertoprovethatyou'rejust a goodastheguysthatonereallythrewme.
I didn't seethatcomingatall, Butonce I thoughtaboutit, I waslike, Okay, I cantotallyseethat.
I seehowthat's thething.
Uhhuh.
Andfinally, Friendthreesaid, Well, it's hardbecause I thinkit's a strength.
Butsometimesyougetreallyobsessedandthiscouldbegood, becauseifyougetobsessedwith a newideaorprojectthenexttime I seeyou, it's like, done.
Butthen I'veseenyougetobsessedwith a person, andthatseemsreallyemotionallyexhaustingforyou, anditdefinitelyisforme.
Oh, I know, Um, I'm wellawareofthatone, and I amworkingonit.
Butwhat I lovedaboutthisexercisewasthatitmademerealizeallofourflawsareprobablyourstrengths, justtheflipsideofthem.
Becausewhen I thinkaboutsomeofmyfriendsandtheirflaws, I thinktheexactsamething, likeoneofmyfriends, couldbesuperjudgmentalandcallousandnotverycompassionate.
Butthisexactqualityalsomakeshimimpervioustootherpeople's opinionsofhimandallowshimtocreateartwith a reallyuniquevoicewithouteverfeelingdiscouragedorinfluencedbywhatever's popular.