That movie Jerry Maguire, you complete me, really messed a lot of people up.

There wasn't a dry eye in the movie theater and all the women with Oh, he completely completes him when in fact no one complete.

You know that instead of looking for the right person, work to make yourself the right person for you, and the right person will then be drawn to you based upon the work that you've done for yourself.

That's that's what I hear you say.

That's exactly everybody who's looking for somebody.

And believe me, there are lots of people who are like looking for Mr Right or Mr Right or whatever that is to complete them, that no one will love you until you love yourself.

No one can complete you until you yourself are complete.

You must get to the place where you don't need another, but you can enjoy another without attachment, where you can give love without the need of receiving it back.

Love without conditions, you are not you, plus the other person you existed before the other person and you will exist long after you will always be yourself and knowing that you can give more.

When it comes to love and relationships, you can think of it like a mirror.

If you love yourself, you will find more.

People have love for you.

If you respect yourself, you will find more People have respect for you.

If you value yourself, you will find more people value you.

If you are mostly happy, joyful and positive, you will find you attract mostly happy, joyful and positive people and relationships.

So don't focus on finding someone to complete you.

Focus on completing yourself first, then the right people will show up if you do the work on you.

If you become the person you want in your life, it will happen for you and you'll be thankful you didn't give up.

Believe that love is the most powerful force on Earth.

Some say that finding a genuine connection today is harder than ever, but that's no reason to give up trying.

That's no reason to give up, believing you deserve it.

Knowing you deserve it, really love will find you when you're ready for it.

Really.

Love will find you when you understand that you don't search for love and others, but you find it in yourself.

First way.

All deserve to be loved in the first step on the journey to real love is toe love yourself first.

Next, you will need to do the work rather than waiting for someone else to come along and fix you.

And finally, now is the time to let go of the habits that have kept you from getting hurt, but are also holding you back from a true partnership built on love and respect.

So if you're asking, will I ever find love?

You must stop doing these five things.

First number one.

You have to stop looking for others to love you and instead love yourself first in the search for riel love, the very first step must be loving one self first.

If you don't love the special being that you are, how can you expect anyone else to?

If you are looking for a true partner to share your life with someone who will walk with you and encourage you to live your best life, you have to treat yourself that way first.

When you find yourself frustrated in your search for a loving and respectful partner.

Take a step back to examine how you honestly feel and treat yourself.

Take a close look at yourself, talk and begin to shut down the negativity that we can often inflict on ourselves.

When you are at peace with who you are and you are constantly waiting for someone toe fix you, you will likely attract toxic people who are looking for someone to take advantage of.

Don't fall into this trap.

Take the time to do the difficult self work that makes you an attractive partner and will help you to attract loving and respectful people into your life.

When you want someone else to do the heavy lifting for you, you will likely be disappointed with the caliber of people who into your life.

When you know that you are a whole and complete person who was looking for a partner rather than a savior, you are opening yourself up to attracting like minded people who are also seeking someone toe walk the journey of life with number two stop wearing mask and trying to appear perfect.

Be yourself.

The most common mistake people make when looking for a real connection is inauthenticity true love will never find you If you aren't ready to reveal your true self If you want someone toe love you despite your faults you must be ready to do the same for them False advertising has never been higher Tender Facebook Snapchat instagram are all at times authenticity killers people Seymour obsessed with appearing perfect than ever before.

If you want love be yourself You're raw, true, authentic self flaws and all learn to love We do our and stop hiding it from the world One day someone will fall for who you are not how you wish to be perceived If you're always wearing a mask covering up your riel self How could anyone ever love you for who you are really love?

Can Onley come to those who are really themselves?

Remember, the right person is always waiting for you to reveal your riel self All the wrong people will always be available for the mask to you Most people don't learn this until much later in life.

So start expressing your true character today because you never know who's watching number three Stop expecting someone to be something you are not giving back.

This is the concept of the mirror.

Most people aren't actively looking for someone who is negative, pessimistic, lazy or uninspiring.

You set the standard for the type of person you want in your life.

If you want a particular type of person, you must mirror that quality.

If you want someone fit and healthy, you must be a mirror of that person.

You want someone who always sees the positive in every situation.

Mirror that mindset with your own outlook.

If you want someone with drive and ambition, ask yourself if you possess those characteristics like attracts, like mirror the person you want and that connection will happen much more naturally, Finding genuine happiness within yourself is one of the most important steps to making a genuine connection with someone else.

Number four.

Stop hiding.

Nothing will come to you in this life if you are hiding from it.

Nothing will come if you are running scared.

If you want something, you're going to have to be brave and put yourself out there.

If you don't put yourself out there, no one will ever be able to find you sure this won't work for every time, but it will never work if you never put yourself out there, become someone capable of loving and being loved self worth, the stories you tell yourself become your reality.

So do that work on yourself the rial deep self work that creates a better you because the better you feel about you, the better you're going to show up in the world.

Better you show up, the better your relationships.

World number five Stop holding onto comfortable habits that are holding you back.

There are a lot of habits that you know don't serve you well, but you've become comfortable with the perceived protection that they offer habits that you know aren't helpful in your quest to find true love.

But you may be reluctant to give them up.

If you want to find love, you have to make sacrifices.

If this is your situation, remember that life's greatest growth comes when you leave your comfort zone.

Don't let feeling comfortable and safe hold you back from a full and vibrant life that could lead to the love of your life.

Opening yourself up and allowing emotional vulnerability is an essential part of finding true love.

Let go of the defense mechanisms and withdraw strategies that have kept you from getting hurt and also holds you back from finding love.

Do you recognize yourself in some of these five things to stop doing if you want to find love?

If you do, it's time to get down to the hard work that is necessary to get you to a place where you can attract true love.

Yes, it may be scary to let go of these behaviors and mindsets that have protected you from emotional hurt.

But if you truly want to find love, you really have no choice.

Let your light shine brightly bravely be yourself in like moths to a flame.

You will attract the right people.

Make sure you mirror the characteristics you find important and you will find love and never forget.

No one will love you until you love yourself.