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we all know what a gold digger looks like.
我們都知道淘金者是什麼樣子。
There's gold in these hills, and I'm gonna find E mean.
山上有金子,我要去找E的意思。
Yeah, those are definitely the O g.
是的,這些絕對是O型血。
Gold diggers.
淘金者。
But I think the more common image that comes to mind is.
但我想,我腦海中比較常見的形象是。
And in 2019, we now have a new evolved version, the emotional gold Digger.
而在2019年,我們現在有了新的進化版本,情感掘金者。
I am Amber.
我是琥珀。
Hi.
嗨,我的天
I'm gonna need you to be my substitute therapist by listening to talk nonstop for several hours and you're gonna provide me with extensive emotional support.
我需要你做我的替代治療師 聽我不停地說話幾個小時 你要給我提供廣泛的情感支持。
And I'm not gonna reciprocate that kind of stuff for you at all.
我也不會為你回報這種東西。
And the signs that you're dealing with an emotional gold digger are pretty similar to the signs of a regular gold digger.
而你面對的是一個情緒化的淘金者,其跡象和普通淘金者的跡象很相似。
Just swap out money with emotion.
用感情換取金錢就可以了。
So whereas a gold digger is curious about your economic caliber and emotional gold, Digger wants to know about your compassion caliber.
所以,掘金者好奇的是你的經濟口徑和感情金,而掘金者想知道的是你的同情心口徑。
So how many best friends have you had?
那麼,你有多少個好朋友呢?
Had a few in my life, I guess.
在我的生活中,我想有一些。
And are you like a good best friend?
那你是不是像個好閨蜜?
Well, I tried toe, appreciate them and be good to them.
好吧,我試過了,欣賞他們,對他們好。
Oh, okay.
哦,好吧。
Do you, like, remember their birthdays and plan outings and sacrifice your personal needs?
你,是否會記得他們的生日,並計劃外出旅行,犧牲個人需求?
to pacify them.
來安撫他們。
Thistle is a strange line of questioning.
薊是一條奇怪的問線。
Is it?
是嗎?
An emotional gold digger will try to force and fast track intimacy with you.
感情上的淘金者會試圖強迫和快速地與你建立親密關係。
They'll dump their entire life story despite barely knowing you.
儘管他們幾乎不認識你,但他們會把自己的整個人生故事都甩給你。
When I was six, I was pretending to be a reporter and reporting on what You shouldn't roll off of a bunk bed.
當我六歲的時候,我假裝是一個記者,報道什麼 你不應該從雙層床上滾下來。
But then I actually rolled off the bunk bed and hurt myself.
但後來我居然從雙層床上滾了下來,傷到了自己。
And I think that's why I became an actor.
我想這也是我成為演員的原因。
And then when I was seven, I fell off my bike on this hill and I ran to my mom.
然後在我七歲的時候,我在這個山坡上從自行車上摔了下來,我跑去找媽媽。
I was bleeding and I was crying and she didn't even care.
我流血了,我哭了,她都沒在意。
And I think that's why I became an actor and then when I was eight and much like how a gold digger wants expensive gifts.
我想這也是我成為演員的原因,然後當我八歲的時候,就像淘金者想要昂貴的禮物一樣。
Emotional gold diggers want expensive gifts.
情感淘金者要貴重的禮物。
Jeffs.
傑夫斯。
I know it's gifts, but I say gifts cause I'm honoring the person who created it.
我知道這是禮物,但我說禮物是因為我在向創造它的人致敬。
But whatever gifts you didn't send me any means today, Amber, what you're supposed to send me means every day.
但不管你今天沒有送我什麼禮物,琥珀,你應該送我的東西,就是每天都要送。
That's how I equate our friendship.
我就是這樣把我們的友誼等同於。
Best friends send each other instead.
好朋友之間的互送代替。
D M names.
D M名。
Sorry, had a busy day so busy you couldn't take two seconds to send me a post from the holistic psychologist or some witchy moon omens.
對不起,忙了一天,忙到不能抽出兩秒鐘的時間來給我發一個整體心理醫生的帖子,或者一些巫術月兆。
I'm sorry you should be tomorrow.
對不起,你應該是明天。
I better get double the names or this friendship is over.
我最好能得到雙倍的名字,否則這段友誼就結束了。
Okay, in all seriousness, memes are the currency of the modern digital age, and I wholly judge all of my friendships based on who is sending them to me.
好吧,說正經的,memes是現代數字時代的貨幣,我完全根據誰給我發的memes來判斷我所有的友誼。
I'm Anaconda and thank you to square space for sponsoring today's video from Web sites and online stores to marketing tools and analytics.
我是蟒蛇,感謝方圓空間贊助今天的視頻,從網站和網店到營銷工具和分析。
Squarespace is the all in one platform to build a beautiful online presence and run your business.
Squarespace是建立一個美麗的在線存在和經營業務的一體化平臺。
Squarespace allows for simultaneous posting so you can authenticate all of your social media profiles and auto post your website content to Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr or more.
Squarespace允許同時發佈,這樣你就可以認證你所有的社交媒體資料,並將你的網站內容自動發佈到Twitter、Facebook、Tumblr或更多。
And if that's not enough, you can even do email campaigns, which make it easy to unify your brand voice.
如果這還不夠,你甚至可以做電子郵件活動,這讓你很容易統一品牌聲音。
Whether that's on your homepage or in those in boxes I'm an analytics reeks.
不管是在你的主頁上,還是在那些盒子裡,我都是一個分析學的人。
Of course.
當然了
I love the built in tools that allow me to gain insight into my traffic sources.
我喜歡內置的工具,讓我能夠深入瞭解我的流量來源。
I love the data about what device types or browsers or operating systems are being used by visit.
我喜歡關於訪問使用什麼設備類型或瀏覽器或作業系統的數據。
You could go to squarespace dot com for a free trial, and when you're ready to launch, go to squarespace dot com slash anna to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain with the offer code.
你可以去squarespace點com進行免費試用,當你準備好啟動時,去squarespace點com斜槓anna用優惠代碼為你首次購買網站或域名節省10%的費用。
Anna Squarespace to space and it's square.
安娜廣場空間到空間,它的方。
Yeah, that's the official logo, for sure.
是的,那是官方標誌,肯定的。