Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles Hello and welcome to The English we speak. I'm Feifei. And I'm Rob. Now Feifei, can you help me with this social media post I'm trying to write? I'll try. What do you want to say? Well, I want to post something about how tired I am because I've been working so hard and how I just can't go on. Hmm, it looks like you're looking for sympathy. Sympathy? No, I just want to tell people how exhausted I am because I'm so hard working. You just don't understand. I completely understand - you are sadfishing. Sadfishing? I don't even like fish. No, Rob! You're fishing for sympathy. When someone is sadfishing they're exaggerating their emotional problems, particularly via social media, so they get sympathy or attention from others. Hmm, that doesn't sound like me. Right, well I'm going to send my post now. There, done. Good luck. Let's hear some examples of sadfishing. He got lots of likes for his post about having no friends, but I think he was sadfishing - he's got loads of mates. I don't know if Heidi really has a problem with her skin. I think she's just sadfishing and wants attention. Some people say there's a growing trend for sadfishing and people just share their worries online to get noticed - but I wonder if it's a cry for help. This is The English We Speak from BBC Learning English and we're talking about the expression sadfishing, which describes when someone exaggerates their emotional problems particularly on social media to get sympathy or attention. It's not a nice thing to do. So Rob how's your sadfishing going? It's not sadfishing Feifei, I'm just telling people about my terrible life so they understand. Oh and look, I've received a comment already. Oh, who it's from? It's from Roy. He says 'stop moaning, I work even harder every weekend and every evening - but it's OK because I love my job.' It looks like he's fishing too. What sadfishing? No, fishing for compliments - trying to get someone to say something good about him. No, he's just sad - working at the weekends! Perhaps my life isn't so bad. Hmm, I think I'll delete my post now. Good idea, bye Rob. Bye.
A2 sympathy feifei rob post fishing attention Sadfishing: The English We Speak 14 1 林宜悉 posted on 2021/01/27 More Share Save Report Video vocabulary