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  • Hello and welcome to The English we speak. I'm Feifei

  • And I'm Rob. Now Feifei, can you help me with

  • this social media post I'm trying to write?

  • I'll try. What do you want to say?

  • Well, I want to post something about how tired I am

  • because I've been working so hard and how I just can't go on.

  • Hmm, it looks like you're looking for sympathy.

  • Sympathy? No, I just want to tell 

  • people how exhausted I am because  

  • I'm so hard working. You just don't understand.

  • I completely understand - you are sadfishing.

  • Sadfishing? I don't even like fish.

  • No, Rob! You're fishing for sympathy.

  • When someone is sadfishing they're

  • exaggerating their emotional problems,

  • particularly via social media, so they

  • get sympathy or attention from others.

  • Hmm, that doesn't sound like me. Right, well

  • I'm going to send my post now. There, done.

  • Good luck. Let's hear some examples of sadfishing.

  • He got lots of likes for his post about

  • having no friends, but I think he was 

  • sadfishing - he's got loads of mates.

  • I don't know if Heidi really 

  • has a problem with her skin

  • I think she's just sadfishing and wants attention

  • Some people say there's a growing trend 

  • for sadfishing and people just share  

  • their worries online to get noticed

  • but I wonder if it's a cry for help

  • This is The English We Speak from BBC Learning

  • English and we're talking about the expression sadfishing, which describes

  • when someone exaggerates their emotional problems particularly on

  • social media to get sympathy or attention.

  • It's not a nice thing to do.

  • So Rob how's your sadfishing going?

  • It's not  sadfishing Feifei, I'm just telling people

  • about my terrible life so they understand.

  • Oh and look, I've received a comment already.

  • Oh, who it's from?

  • It's from Roy. He says 'stop moaning, I work even harder every

  • weekend and every evening - but it's OK

  • because I love my job.'

  • It looks like he's fishing too.

  • What sadfishing?

  • No, fishing for compliments - trying to get

  • someone to say something good about him.

  • No, he's just sad - working at the weekends!

  • Perhaps my life isn't so bad.

  • Hmm, I think I'll delete my post now.

  • Good idea, bye Rob.

  • Bye.

Hello and welcome to The English we speak. I'm Feifei

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