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  • It all sounds so simple.

  • Sit down and do the work.

  • But it isn't, is it?

  • Ever since you merged your workspace with your living space,

  • ever since the days begin to bleed into one another

  • in an undifferentiated cycle of light and dark,

  • and ever since your social interactions moved

  • to small, fake islands, you haven't been able to focus.

  • Shia's impassioned calls to action fail to stir you.

  • And you're starting to wonder if you'll ever be able

  • to concentrate or get anything worthwhile done ever again.

  • This is really dramatic, isn't it?

  • Okay, so I've heard this a lot lately.

  • It is way harder to stay focused

  • when you're working at home versus your office

  • or a coffee shop or wherever it is that you normally work.

  • The lack of separation between your work

  • and your personal life,

  • not to mention lots of additional distractions

  • floating around, means that your home is kind of like

  • the final boss of difficult workspaces.

  • Well, no, that would probably be

  • a Chuck E. Cheese, actually.

  • But still, today, I want to talk about how

  • you can actually stay focused on your work,

  • not to mention get started on it in the first place,

  • when you're working from home.

  • And first, we need to talk about intentionality.

  • Intentionally, the most useful thing you can do

  • when you sit down to work

  • is to set a strong intention first.

  • If you're anything like me,

  • I'm sure you can think back to a time when you sat down,

  • and instead of working intentionally,

  • you found yourself bouncing between mostly useless

  • busywork tasks, things like answering your email

  • or checking your credit score.

  • How is this even possible?

  • These tasks are easy,

  • and they give you an immediate feeling of accomplishment.

  • So they're tempting to work on.

  • But they also cause you to procrastinate on the work

  • that you really should be doing,

  • work that's truly meaningful to you.

  • So really, they often end up being a net negative.

  • And setting a strong intention before you work

  • helps you to avoid them,

  • at least until the real work is done.

  • Now, one useful way of setting intentions

  • is to follow the Rule of Three.

  • This is a concept from Chris Bailey's book

  • "The Productivity Project," and it's really simple.

  • When you're writing out your daily plan,

  • choose no more than three meaningful tasks

  • that you intend to get done.

  • And if you write your daily list on a white board like I do,

  • then you might wanna tweak how you use it

  • by writing these three intentions at the top

  • and listing any smaller tasks below them

  • in a de-prioritized way.

  • Don't worry about those until you get the main intentions

  • taken care of.

  • Then when it's time to sit down for a session

  • of focused work, look at your list and choose

  • just one item to work on.

  • Really mentally commit to devoting this working session

  • only to that item.

  • And just like that, you now have a strong intention

  • that will help to guide you and keep you on task.

  • Or at least you would,

  • if you happen to be sitting in an empty room

  • in like a monastery with no phone or internet access

  • or anything else to distract you.

  • But since you're at home,

  • I would wager that your environment

  • is absolutely teeming with distractions.

  • And if your intentions are gonna be translated

  • into action, then these need to be dealt with.

  • There's just no getting around it.

  • And that has to deal with how your brain is wired.

  • The human brain has evolved

  • over millions of years to be a highly sensitive instrument,

  • ever attentive to the small changes

  • in a constantly shifting and often dangerous environment.

  • And while this has enabled the very survival

  • of our species, it has also made a lot of people very angry

  • and has been widely regarded as a bad move.

  • And that is, not least of which,

  • because it renders us easily distracted

  • when we're trying to do complex work,

  • even if we set a strong intention beforehand.

  • Because meaningful work is hard,

  • because it requires us to really tax

  • our higher brain functions,

  • we are naturally resistant to doing it.

  • And we'll take any excuse to fixate on something else.

  • Additionally, our brains also have what's called

  • a built-in novelty bias.

  • Even when we're not resisting difficult tasks,

  • we are drawn to new things,

  • kind of like flies to a light bulb.

  • An analogy can be found in an observation that I made

  • back when I was in middle school.

  • See, when I was a student,

  • I used to carry a pack of chewing gum in my pocket

  • for, you know, myself.

  • And any time that I would get a piece of gum out,

  • again, for myself, any one of my classmates

  • who saw the pack of gum come out of my pocket

  • would stop what they were doing

  • and instantly become a mooch.

  • - I will literally die if you do not give me

  • a piece of that right now.

  • - And saying the word no to any of these classmates

  • was like hitting them in the face with a brick.

  • The wounded looks in their eyes told me

  • that in denying them that stick of Big Red,

  • I had ripped apart their dreams,

  • torn their hopes to ribbons,

  • and extinguished every spark of happiness and joy

  • that had kept them pushing forward

  • in this cruel, cruel world thus far.

  • And yet, seconds before this exchange would happen,

  • not one of those classmates was thinking about chewing gum.

  • Hadn't even crossed their mind.

  • And this is how our brains work.

  • We have this novelty bias,

  • but of course a novel object

  • has to be brought to our attention for it to be engaged.

  • Out of sight, out of mind.

  • It's why marketers and advertisers talk so much

  • about the AIDA framework,

  • Attention, Interest, Desire, and Action.

  • It's the order of operations that governs

  • most of the actions we take,

  • including the ones that lead us

  • to indulging in distractions.

  • Also, if you don't chew Big Red, then.

  • Fortunately, you can use this knowledge

  • of human psychology to your advantage.

  • If you know that being merely exposed

  • to a potential distraction is gonna put you aboard

  • the AIDA Express on a one-way journey

  • to wasting the rest of the day

  • and looking at more cat pictures than you probably need to,

  • then all you need to do is ensure

  • that you are not exposed in the first place.

  • So, Anna was gonna help me film a skit

  • for this part of the video.

  • Then, she fell victim to the worst distraction

  • in the entire house.

  • In other words, remove any potential distractions

  • before you start working.

  • Dealing with them ahead of time

  • is infinitely easier than trying to fight them

  • in the moment.

  • I swear, I'm just getting footage

  • to make this point more visual.

  • Six ours later...

  • Now, you're not always going to be able to do this.

  • Chris Bailey's book, "Hyper Focus"

  • breaks distractions down into four different categories

  • based on whether or not you have control over them

  • and whether you find them fun or annoying.

  • And those that you have no control over,

  • like loud colleagues, construction noises,

  • or calls from your mom,

  • are hard to plan for ahead of time.

  • The best you can do is to deal with them

  • while keeping your original intention in mind,

  • and then get back on track as quickly as possible.

  • But the distractions that you can control

  • can also be dealt with in advance.

  • And let's start with your phone,

  • because it's probably the worst offender.

  • Now, in the past, I have been a bit soft on phones.

  • "Put it on Do Not Disturb," I said.

  • Use features like Focus mode on Android

  • or Screen Time on iOS to simply limit the time

  • when you can access distracting apps.

  • But you know what,

  • I think it's time to get a little bit tougher.

  • If you don't need your phone for your work,

  • and let's face it, you probably don't,

  • then keep it out of arm's reach.

  • Personally, I've been setting my phone

  • to Do Not Disturb mode for most of the day

  • and also putting it on the printer

  • on the other side of my office so, again,

  • it's out of arm's reach.

  • I also have it set so my favorite contacts

  • can get through Do Not Disturb

  • so my phone does actually work as a phone.

  • But everyone else gets silenced,

  • along with all app notifications.

  • Your computer is also a huge potential distraction,

  • and that is mostly due to the fact

  • that it's connected to the internet.

  • And if that's a particular;y big problem for you,

  • then you might want to actually disconnect it

  • when you don't need it,

  • either by disabling your WiFi

  • or by actually unplugging the ethernet cable.

  • Barring that, there is one rule

  • that I highly recommend you follow.

  • Don't keep email or any instant messsaging apps

  • like Slack or Telegram or whatever, Microsoft Teams,

  • whatever it is, don't keep any of these open while you work.

  • These are constant sources of novelty,

  • so they are distracting by nature.

  • But they also come with the additional social pressure

  • you feel to respond to a message when it comes in.

  • Personally, I'm part of several different Slack groups.

  • And over the past few months,

  • I've gotten into the bad habit of keeping them open

  • while I was working.

  • And I realized that I would sometimes spend

  • entire workdays just chatting with people.

  • So now, I only check Slack and email

  • at specific times of the day,

  • and I respond to everything in batches.

  • To remove other computer-based distractions,

  • you can look into getting a distraction blocker,

  • which would block any websites or apps

  • that you put onto a block list.

  • I use one called Freedom, which can be set up to block sites

  • during prescheduled windows of time

  • throughout the day or enabled for timed work sessions.

  • Now, I'm not gonna spend a ton of extra time

  • talking about apps here.

  • But if you're looking for other ones

  • that can help you focus,

  • I've recently published a page on my website

  • called The Focus Toolkit which recommends several more,

  • and I'll have that linked in the description down below.

  • Lastly, since you're at home,

  • ask yourself if there are any other potential sources

  • of distraction that are particular pain points for you

  • that you should address.

  • Like maybe your game consoles are a temptation.

  • Well, if that's the case,

  • put the power cord in another room

  • until you're done with your work.

  • Make it inconvenient to access them

  • so you don't do it impulsively.

  • I'd also recommend keeping a distraction journal nearby.

  • And whenever something pulls you away from your work,

  • make a note of what it was and why it pulls you away

  • so you can figure out how to eliminate it in advance

  • the next time you sit down.

  • Now, once you've taken care of all those distractions,

  • the last thing you need to figure out how to do

  • is to get rid of the resistance you feel towards starting.

  • And this is serious.

  • Mental resistance towards difficult tasks is a big issue.

  • For just one example, there was once a study done

  • on people who felt high levels of anxiety

  • towards doing math.

  • And the study found that the mere anticipation

  • of having to do math caused increased brain activity

  • in some specific regions of the brain,

  • namely those that deal with threat detection

  • and even physical pain.

  • And what this illustrates is that certain parts

  • of our brain view difficult, mentally taxing tasks

  • in the same way they would view

  • touching a hot stove burner.

  • Fortunately, this aversion you feel

  • towards difficult tasks really only affects you

  • at the beginning.

  • Once you get into it, you build up momentum

  • that overcomes that resistance.

  • So all you need to do is to reduce your resistance

  • enough to get started.

  • And you do this by making the task feel less daunting.

  • Now, the first method for doing that

  • is to break down your tasks.

  • In other words, narrow the scope of your intention.

  • Earlier on in the video,

  • we talked about setting an intention

  • by choosing one of the three meaningful tasks

  • on your daily plan.

  • But if those tasks feel too big,

  • then simply break one down into smaller chunks.

  • That way, you can pick one of those chunks

  • and set it as your intention instead.

  • For example, when I sit down to write,

  • I never set my intention as write a video script.

  • Instead, I create multiple subheadings based on an outline,

  • and then I sit down with the intention

  • of writing a draft of just a single section.

  • Now, if I put forward into more sections

  • during that writing session, great.

  • But that is not my intention when I'm starting out.

  • Secondly, commit to working

  • only for a specific period of time,

  • and make it low enough that you no longer feel resistance.

  • So if 30 minutes feels like too much, then go for 15.

  • Now, whatever time you decide to go with,

  • set it on a timer,

  • or at least put it on a timer app.

  • Using one of these tools creates a little bit

  • of external pressure so there's one less thing

  • you have to rely on your willpower,

  • your internal self-control to handle.

  • So now you have all the tools and and the concepts

  • that you should need to sit down

  • and do some focused work.

  • But if you'd like to see an example,

  • here's exactly how I do it.

  • First, I will look at my white board,

  • which now lists my top three intentions

  • separately from other smaller tasks.

  • And if each of these is too big for a single work session,

  • I will choose part of one

  • and set my intention based on that.

  • Next, I choose how long I'm going to work.

  • And lately, that has been about 35 minutes per session,

  • at least for starters,

  • which means the very next thing I do

  • is set a 35-minute block timer on Freedom

  • and choose a block list that supports the task.

  • For writing and video, or for doing research,

  • I use my Morning block list,

  • which blocks Slack, email, all social media,

  • YouTube, and any busywork sites like Google Analytics,

  • which are a pretty big distraction for me, personally.

  • Then I'll chose something to listen to,

  • which lately has been either the focus sessions

  • on brain.fm or my Sunday Study playlist on Spotify,

  • which I'll link to down below.

  • And finally, I set an actual timer

  • in a little Mac toolbar app called Be Focused.

  • This takes all of 30 seconds.

  • And in that time, I've done everything we've mentioned here.

  • I've set an intention,

  • I've removed all distractions ahead of time,

  • and I've eliminated my brain's aversion to starting

  • by choosing a manageable time for my timer.

  • And I've found that doing these few things

  • enables me to stay focused for much longer

  • and helps me be a lot more productive.

  • And it makes sense, right?

  • Once you've taken the big problem

  • that seems so difficult to solve,

  • the problem of not being able to focus,

  • and broken it down,

  • you're left with just a few smaller,

  • easier to solve problems.

  • And these quick actions neatly take care of each one.

  • And it's worth remembering that all problems are like this.

  • Once you've broken them down into smaller parts,

  • you start to see little angles of attack that you can take

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