He was so silly.

He was acting like a straight up Neanderthal.

Oh my God, he looks like a Neanderthal too.

Yeah, for sure.

I mean, he was holding his beer like a total Neanderthal.

What a Neanderthal move.

Am I right?

Are you guys working with me when I keep pronouncing this is Neanderthal.

Oh my God.

Okay, Okay, Okay.

We found out Neanderthal is actually pronounced Neanderthal.

That's not real.

No, it totally is.

Look it up.

Okay, I'll google it.

It's real.

What?

Oh my God, it says when keeping it casual.

You can write or say Neanderthal or Neanderthal.

If you opt for the latter.

Some people will think you're cool.

Yeah, I know you.

Oh my God, you, there's an article that says, what is sex with a Neanderthal?

Like why is that an article?

Why BBC Also, In what context are you referring to?

A Neanderthal non casually?

I mean, maybe if you invite him to a dinner party.

Yeah, like it's Neanderthal.

Good sir.

First Pluto's not a planet anymore.

Now it's Neanderthal.

Public education failed me.

I can't do math me three.

Yes, I hate it when core foundations of my knowledge turn out to be no longer true.

No one likes having their entire world turned upside down.

Whether it's a friendship revelation.

Yeah, we definitely talk about you behind your back, horrific family secret unearthed.

You know, there was a time when I was allergic to your father's semen.

Oh my God!

Mom, shut your face, Get out of here.

Or just plain old facts.

Please call me Neanderthal were not at the California science center.

Oh, when your world turns upside down threat, not there are some very important realizations.

You'll have thanks to this.

You'll realize who's really there for you, what wasn't working and what you need in order to move forward, your own inner resilience and strength, you'll realize that everything is temporary and not to be taken for granted.

And finally, after the dust settles, you'll realize that change leads to growth and that the opportunity to rebuild from the ground up is sometimes a wonderful gift.

Every time I've had a tectonic shift that rocks like my entire existence, it stripped away everything but the essentials, it provided such clarity and appreciation for my life.

It offered me the chance to change things that were no longer serving me.

It made space clearing out and decluttering so I could embrace what was next.

It was ultimately a very beautiful transition.

And that's what you're in right now, a fantastic, beautiful burning from which you will rise from the gashes.

I mean, I won't feel like that right now though, you're probably going through absolute hell and I don't envy you because you're probably in a lot of pain.

You're probably crying every day and as much as it will be a great experience after the fact I hope I never go through it again.

So, good luck with that.

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