You know, you get questions like that.

Sometimes people come to the funeral dress like they're going to the club.

I love it where they look like liquid people walking down the hallway and I was like, oh my gosh, is that my unborn son?

I think our conversation is going to be really interesting today since we're making truffles, I'm a little bit more excited.

Make an assumption about me that you like dead people.

Um, yeah, well I like them better than living ones.

I don't know if they can hear me, but I try to talk to them anyway.

I was driving a woman to her funeral and I felt like she would like some country gospel.

So I put on dolly Parton and Alan Jackson.

Yeah, I remember thinking, I hope she likes this.

My assumption was that you are constantly hearing voices constantly depends on if I'm checking in or out.

There's always someone with me that's probably a dead person.

What's really hard is when you're on a date and then someone's family member shows up on the date.

That's not the funnest thing.

I could see that as a Buzzkill.

Weirdly satisfying what leads you to your current profession?

Both my parents died kind of young.

I was confronted with death and I thought how can I channel this in a healthy, positive way.

It was kind of my mission to help people.

My mom looked really bad.

Like her embalming was really bad And so I really wanted to be good at this and make sure other people's loved ones look good.

I started out as a mental health therapist.

My mentor was like you know you're really good at reading people but I didn't know that I was reading them.

I just thought I was a really good therapist.

I called a medium and she says well you know you're kind of a medium right?

I was like, yeah probably.

And within a few months I started seeing spirits like really intensely.

It's like she triggered me.

There's actually like a hog works and that we go to train believe or not way cooler than funerals, right, fillings goes on there and then we mix.

What do you believe happens after someone dies?

Oh well I guess I know physically what happens to them.

People ask me do spirits follow you around and I feel like they stay where they they are and I'm caring for their shell.

I see them obviously walking around casually.

Um they're right here with us actually all the time.

Um They're just in a different vibrational pattern.

So their frequency is different than ours when you release from the body, your frequency raises and then you are in your consciousness of love and some people are doing their hobbies and some people are hanging out and some people are still learning, you know with people that maybe he died with depression or you know, tragic means, I often see them in like a spiritual hospital and they're kind of like in recovery and they're getting supported, you know, by angels and loved ones who are helping them kind of in their process of evolving to be in another state.

I want to be a flashy ghost.

Yeah, I mean sometimes I've seen people who come kind of like the Matrix where they look like liquid people walking down the hallway and that kind of freaked me out when I was stage in my house and the little boy like started running down and I was like, oh my gosh, is that my unborn son?

And he was like a liquid person and I was like, this is freaky, oh, it's just put it in a ziploc bag.

This is cool.

In what ways is your career misunderstood?

That's a good one.

There's a lot of controversy that I'm of the devil or that I, you know, summons devils or a con artist.

Those are kind of things when really I'm just a servant of love.

I, I think what I do is a miracle to be right honest.

People think that we are really sad all the time or that our job is sad, but you know, we were celebrating lives and so it doesn't always have to be sad and we do have a bit of, you know, morbid humor at work that help you have to be, helps us get, it's difficult jobs.

So it helps us get through, get through the day.

Do you have like a playlist?

Like when you're doing the whole body work that you have, that gets you in the group to like do, what's your song?

Like the funeral and bombing song?

What is that song for you?

Beyonce's Lemonade.

Oh, you're playing lemonade when you're, you're literally working over my body empowered.

Wow.

Yeah, It's like cooking.

Everybody has a different recipe.

All right, This is definitely getting there.

I don't know how melted we need to make it.

But what is your take on reincarnation?

I'll let you take that one reincarnation?

Uh, Those to yours.

I don't, I don't know.

My family's from India.

You know, people in India believe in reincarnation, but I just don't know.

There's so much unknown.

Well, I'm team reincarnation.

Okay, so I absolutely believe really more in past lives.

I really believe like our spiritual energy just continues infinitely with no stoppin no beginning.

And so we just put on the new outfit of the new body and the new clothes.

That could be a different gender.

Could be a different race.

Could be a different socioeconomic group.

Can we come back as another species?

You know, that's debatable For me personally, I do believe our animals do come back and find us.

So I believe that we do find soul family soul members.

Animal, non animal and we kind of coming back and meet each other over and over again for purposes of growth and learning.

Yeah, I desperately want to come back as a cat.

You would be a cool capri for sure.

I actually had a 90 year old woman who was so beautiful.

I had a lot of fun making her look nice and then her family said she looked too sexy.

Oh wow.

Well I will tell you sometimes people are characters when they passed.

I mean I had this one guy confessed that he was porn star and um he confessed that and showed his, you know, you know what to confirm, you know, his talent?

He sat on my lap and almost gave me like a lap dance.

It was a complete thing and I'm talking to the girl who used to be his fiancee who said that's absolutely him.

It's totally true.

I was very embarrassed and kind of made out with me a little bit in spirit, but it was, it was entertaining.

I mean, he brought, he brought me so much fun.

So like, you know, it's like a spicy spirit.

He was, he was definitely spicy.

Sometimes people come to the funeral dressed like they're going to the club, love it.

Um people don't really come to me with the fear of dying.

Some people are nervous about me seeing them naked regardless of what they give me.

I always put a pair of socks because you feel like their feet are cold.

I had a beautiful woman that lost her hair and eyebrows because of chemotherapy and I actually used her own hair to cut and make eyebrows for her.

And yeah, and I was really proud of that.

We do have something of a tummy tuck when for everybody gets a little tummy tuck because we remove cavity fluid and so the tummy just goes right down and we do fillers to fillers, like you can get like your lips plumped or like your cheeks skills, what do that all the time?

In fact, that's one of my favorite things because that's a bit of a skill.

Are you like a Juvederm or like a radio?

Yeah, interesting people say to me, well, do spirits look at you and you're naked in the shower when I'm having sex, is my dead father seeing me having sex.

You know, you get questions like that, they just see us as light, so we're just light to them so they don't see us, like we don't see them in their form, they don't see us in our physical form either.

Was your assumption about me correct?

Yes.

Actually, yeah, I had, I felt my assumption was that we would have a really illuminating conversation and it has been, you know, my assumption about you is that you would be just open and down for anything because you obviously deal with the most vulnerable experience that someone could possibly experience in life.

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