30.

Happy birthday.

40.

So tell me there's only one thing I want to know about the future.

Do we still have any pain?

You don't even know what knee pain is?

Oh God.

Okay.

Alright, I can handle this.

Okay, I'm mature.

Okay.

Hit me with me with the worst hangovers last a week.

Oh my God.

Really?

Even with sugar free, biodynamic, natural wine, all it takes is a single glass.

I was not prepared.

Okay.

Okay.

Are we at least married?

No, no, divorced.

Oh, I always knew I'd make a hot second wife.

Life is too short for shitty relationships, kid.

Do we have kids?

Hell no.

Did we at least get to where we wanted to be in our career?

We're just getting started the goalpost just keeps on until it's gone.

Okay.

So is everything just the same in 10 years and I still just a single, unmarried divorced, single divorced 40 year old.

Listen, you are so young.

I know that you think, oh, I'm middle aged, I've just scraped the surface of nihilism.

Look at me, I'm 33 but you are a baby.

You are an itty bitty, motherfucking baby.

I mean, just look at your face, look at your skin and so you Okay, well what does this itty bitty, motherfucking baby grow up into then?

What changes in the next decade?

Look, 30 I'm gonna make this quick because the youtube algorithm in the future has changed to favor three second videos, but we are all born with a finite amount of fox fox are a limited resource and right now you give away too many folks about, Call your friends, your family, your career, your love life.

What?

That's a bit aggressive.

You got like 60% of your lifetime.

Fox to give out over the next decade until you run out and become me.

Yeah.

Fuck free territory baby current available to be given are zero.

And if any fox try to come near me, I donate them to charity a lot response.

And as a result I do what I want when I want, how I I want and I don't give a Kentucky flying fried funk about what anyone thinks.

I cut toxic people out of my life.

I don't overthink I don't need external validation.

I am fully in my power.

I am solid in my self worth.

I embrace uncertainty and the unknown as my thriving ground and I have an ira wow!

Okay, listen every mistake, every failure.

Every big cry and big sad is a bridge towards becoming your best self.

Me so stop wondering if you're getting it right there is no right, relax, take a breath, take a bath like seriously, just chill the funk out.

Go travel solo, go to a restaurant alone, read a book instead of obsessing about whether or not they're texting you back.

Okay.

And finally, if I can teach you just one thing.

One thing that you need to do over the next decade.

Above all wear SPF every day.

Oh shit, I forgot to put it on today.

Oh my God, I can't get skin cancer or worse.

A wrinkle Hello!

40.

Hello!

50.

What is that like?

Yeah, sit down.

I am sitting down.

I'm anna Connor.

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