Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles So, how do you guys know each other? Like do you mind sharing a bit like how your relationship started? So, basically I was walking down the street. And then most of the time lots of girls look at me. And then Georgia was one of the girls, I was like she looks quite nice. %#$%^# What's your version of it? My version of it which Torres always likes to blur the lines about what happened. But basically we were both university students, friends with lots of people. And then we were friends for like two years. Torres was secretly in love with me for two years. Two years. And then finally. Wow, that's long man. Yeah. I try my absolute best to make Georgia my girlfriend. But for the longest time, I got friend zone. Friend zone. Friend zone which is the saddest thing ever. We always had no, I didn't know, I didn't like him. We always had a flirty relationship, a little flirty banter. But he never did anything. He never like asked me out or tried to have a drink with me or anything. That's not really true. Because the first time I met you, I gave Georgia a call. And I was like, I have this special VIP ticket to see Batman, do you wanna come? And she replied, Maybe Not. You're trying to play hard to get? Rubbish, he asked me like 4 pm, if I wanted to watch a movie at 7 pm.? And I had schoolwork or something. It's like, oh no, I didn't realize it was a date. No, you should ask like do you like over the weekend or something? When do you free, let's catch up. Of course I would have said yes. Don't give someone three hours notice. Come on, that. Okay, my bad, sorry. Maybe that makes us two years Because I wasn't planning it properly. Two years is quite long. It's a very long time. Like for most people in Hong Kong, you know they're very impatient. Yeah. Like two months, they'll be like oh man I should move on. I mean he moved on. Don't worry. I moved on just to see how like average other girls I met, to finally realize how great you are. So, I move on for a very important purpose. Okay. No. This is very interesting. I'm sure the audience they want to hear more about this. Yeah, I mean both of us like dated other people in that timeline. And I think maybe that's also why we couldn't come together. Because it's always the wrong time. But there was always something, it's so weird. I kind of miss those memories like whenever we see each other, I always get like kind of nervous around you. And then I think I've always liked Georgia a little bit. I was trying to get Georgia out to come for a date. But then she rejected me obviously. So, I thought maybe she doesn't like me. Okay. Sometimes, it's now it's weird to think about it. I think I've seen your ex-boyfriends and you have seen my ex-girlfriends. And we'll come together in the same event. And now we think about it, it's actually quite bizarre. For me, it's like meaningless. Like I don't know if like for me, you are like now my person. Like everyone else in the past, it's like it's just irrelevant. Yeah. It's irrelevant to me as well. All irrelevant. Yeah. How do you get like together? How you officially like get you. Start. Yeah, how you officially start? I think people will probably want to know. So, which is really crazy. I will tell you three key words. Both single, boat party and alcohol. Okay. Yeah, one of them missing still won't happen this relationship. But I was we were. So, you were drinking, you guys Yeah, we were drinking maybe five drinks in. Five drinks in. Is that a lot for you? Quite tipsy and then we started to talk. Because actually in the past I was quite nervous to talk to Georgia. So when I'm. Alcohol makes people brave. Alcohol is a game changer. I don't drink. You don't drink? Not at all. Never? Like never pretty much. Wow oh my gosh, how did you get your wife then? I'll talk about that in another episode. Stay tuned. No, but I feel like either we were talking about law of attraction right? Yes. Sometimes, I feel like I have this. You know how when you program your brain to think differently or positive, sometimes alcohol I feel like it has this effect. It just why your brain differently, okay all of a sudden I'm such a brave guy. Yeah, yeah. And then you just walk up to Georgia. And be like, oh Georgia let's have a talk. So, you ever heard of a saying like your personality creates your personal reality. You ever heard of that? No. So, you know when you start sort of like change your own personality, you need to be more bold and brave. So, and then you just start to like talk to her right? Yeah. That changes everything. Yeah. So, most people you know when they drink alcohol, then they would say stuff they normally wouldn't. Yeah. But then it happened and then we were talking and then we're like ah. I don't know why we were actually attracted to me. Because I went to on exchange on island. And I got back and like she was like I can't even recognize your face. Like my neck was here. Because I was eating so badly for the longest time. I think I was at the worst shape possible. I was like. He was a lot chubby back then. Yeah. I think I was at my least confident, Really? point. You know when I looked at his videos, I thought he's like probably the same height as me. Yeah. I don't know why. But then like the first time I met him, he was so tall Yeah. He's like six feet or something. Speaking of law of attraction how much it was a little attraction. But it's like just to entertain some ideas because to be honest, when I first moved to mainland china I didn't date any Asian guys. Yeah. And then when I came back to Hong Kong. Actually when I go back to South Africa. I'm not sure if it's like controversial, maybe it's controversial. But I'd go back to South Africa and people would say to me. Oh, are you dating Chinese guys? As if it was like something like so scandalous. And I'm like, no I don't date Chinese guys. Because I just didn't even, it was just like didn't even entertain that idea. Yeah. And then when I came to Hong Kong I would like I dated like 1 or 2 mix guys. Mix guy. And then finally, Torres was my full Chinese boy that I dated. And like now, I honestly I find Asian people so good looking, so attractive. Yes. But it's like before that I don't know why. It's like my brain was just not open in that way. Is that because you want your brain to think, like I really want to date an Asian guy. Asian guys are really attractive which is very true. And then. it's all about perspective, yes. Right? Yeah. it's so good. Yeah, just like allowing yourself to entertain that. I think also what you see in the media. You always see like if anything you see an Asian girl with a white guy. But even now if I see a white girl and an Asian guy walking on the street, I'm like wow that's so weird, why are they doing that? Like you know even though that's us, it's weird. Yeah. I know a few couples like white girls and Asian guy. Yeah. Probably actually yeah they got married. Yeah, they accept like cultural differences. Yeah. But it is more common that is white girl. No, it's a white guy and Asian girl. Yeah, that happens a lot more often. Yeah. Yes. How is that because those people they. So, your English is always been that good? Or you actually train when you're with her? No, I think I improved my English the most when I was in university. When I was in (university), I really wanted. Because my secondary education it didn't teach me to have an international mind. I basically don't know what's happening outside the world. And the inability to speak English really limits my like my vision. Okay. Or my ability to know things that are happening around me. So, because his English is pretty good. Really really good. Yeah, pretty good. And then I thought you know he'd been studying like overseas or something. And then he said, no I've never went overseas. So, I'm pretty surprised. But you also always change your answer with that. Torres always has so many answers Really? There's so many answers. We filmed a video 2 years ago. And Torres said, oh yes thanks to Georgia so much for teaching me. No no no no no, Georgia actually really like helped me improve so much. Yeah, because you talk every day. Yeah, we talk every day in English. So, she really helped me improve so much. But I think my English when it actually got good or fluent, was because I really want to learn so I took every opportunity. Yeah, I think also you love foreign culture. Like Torres always immersed himself in like different cultures. He wants to always learn about what are you doing in Kazakhstan or Italy or whatever. Okay. So, I remember when I was in secondary school. Because my secondary school is actually not so famous. compared to like those DBS, La Salle, Queen's College So, we never get invited to those international schools. Like Christmas ball or anything. So, I can never meet anyone who's like international. So I would like make the greatest effort to find my connection. Please let me come, I want to meet more people from all over the world. Like I try to add like, it's really embarrassing. But I add like friends on Facebook just like international school people. I message him, can we hang out? It's so embarrassing. Just because I really want to, Be like them. see a different side than my local school, trying to improve my English. So, I guess quite like what you told me about law of attraction? Yes. How I really wire my brain, I want to be like that. Okay. What am I going to do to achieve that? Who should I surround myself with, so I can I have different perspective? I think the people you're with is very important. Like you know the the circle, friends. Okay, I think something the audience really want to know. How this YouTube business all started? I've always been a very, I like to talk, I like to be funny. Like we're talking, we chit chatting. And then one day when I was in first year of my university, I did an internship in Shanghai. Yeah. So I was walking in the street of Shanghai. And then when back in the days, Chinese social media was not so big and famous. But one guy who's. That was in 2014, right? 2015 14 or 15, I remember doing a prediction for him. Remember? Yeah. And you predicted that was my turning point. And then that thing and then I was like doing an internship in shanghai. I was just walking in the street. And some people were doing street interviews. So, he just handed me a mic. And be like, oh I really wanted to answer this question. And the question was really embarrassing. Like do you go bra shopping with your girlfriend or something? I was like what? And then I was just like all right okay. Yeah, let me just like be myself and talk some like random bullshit. I was like yeah I do. Because I make sure they get the biggest one. I like lace, 我喜歡蕾絲的, something like that. And that video went viral in China. My girlfriend always buy bra with me. Do you select the style for her? Yes. Which style do you prefer? I enjoy pink one. Is lace necessary for you? It's better to have some lace on it. Oh, okay. That video went viral in China, I got captured in meme. People saying oh, 這是蕾絲男 You need to show me that video. Yeah, I hope I can find it. Have you ever showed it to the public? No, I've never shown it. I think you should. I'll send you the link secretly. I'll send you the link and maybe you can show it. That's quite important to me. The bigger, the better. Does your ex-girlfriend has big titties? They were foreigners, so they normally have big titties. What's the biggest bra size in your past life? G. That was really embarrassing. I say something that's so embarrassing and then that video went viral. And then that producer contacted me. And be like do you want to host for us? Wow. So, I started hosting. That's pretty incredible. And I started hosting the show for them. And I got in touch in social media and I started my own YouTube channel. And then you started like asking people random questions, right? Yeah, I started okay maybe what I do best is asking questions. So, did you did he start his channel like in English? First, you saw it on Facebook. Yeah. And then Facebook didn't take so much. So, was it in Cantonese or or English when you started? It started in Cantonese first. So, why did you switch it in English? Because I actually I think I had two missions. Because I think it was so difficult for me to learn English back then. So, I want to switch to English with Chinese subtitle and English subtitles. So, when people watch it, they can also like local Hong Kong people. When they watch it they can also learn some English. From me, not that it's perfect but it's just my. Because in Hong Kong we don't have a lot of channel like that. You either go for like foreign media or local media. Yes. But no bilingual And second is I want to broader all the audience. Yes. So, it's like Taiwan maybe they don't really like to listen to Cantonese. And in Hong Kong maybe they don't. I mean in America maybe they're more used to English. So I just say, I want a border audience. Actually I watched one of his videos. He visited Africa? Yeah. It was Africa and then you were donating like money and food to people. Yeah that's why I'm saying, you know he's like a very nice guy, like a good guy by nature. I don't know how to response that. Siri doesn't agree him. throw it away throw it away This is so scary. Siri knows me way too well. What? Siri doesn't agree with you. Torres really likes to help people that he's close to. Yeah so that's why I'm saying you know his life mission very simple, is to help you know bring the value out of people. Like other people and help people be who they are. And he's like a teacher but of course he's still young. How old are you right now? 25 25, man. When he's like 35 or 40, he's going to be like a really really good teacher. Like teaching classes and courses. Thank you. He's gonna put I don't know like you're gonna do good stuff. Like to people, like charity and helping others That's busy. Actually, I think that's why I decided to make my YouTube videos like that as well. Because I think Hong Kong people they don't get to see a lot of cultural differences. Yeah, cultural differences. Not everyone is as privileged as us, being able to expose to different cultures. right? Yeah. So, a lot of Hong Kong people they don't get the chance, to travel abroad and meet different people. So, I really want to show them like this side of the world. Because especially in Hong Kong it's all about money and you do well at school. There's actually so many things the world is beautiful. And there's so many things happening. Don't just focus on the negative things around you. Exactly what we've been saying like today. Just focus on the beautiful stuff and life is abundant. But people they're all, they have like a lack mindset. So, they're always lacking this and that. And then that's actually bad in terms of manifestation. You know when you want a lot of money, right? I want money I want money but deep inside because you lack it. So, you don't really believe you have the money. So, how are you going to attract money right? Yeah. So, you have to have the abundance mindset. The last questions, what do you think like being in Hong Kong, like there's a big cultural difference for you I assume? So, do you get used to it? How long did it take you to get used to it? Yeah I mean after South Africa when I was 18, I finished high school, I immediately flew to Guangzhou and I lived in Mainland China for 1.5 years. Okay. And I think that was a massive cultural shock to me. Cultural shock. Because like the toilets are so different. The toilet smells like. Hey Clement after this show you need to see Georgia's Asian squat. After coming to Asia, her Asian squat is perfect. Asian squat. She squats like a real Asian, I was like how do you do it? I remember once I was getting the like the you know limousine. Oh yes, that's asian toilet She squats like a real Asian. The toilet bowl, right? Sometimes they have but actually I prefer the keyholes cleaner. Because the toilet bowl normally has like so much stuff all over you know. But in South Africa you don't have that. No, don't have that. So you learn to use that in Asia. In China. But it's like I remember once I was getting, you know the limousine they call it a limousine in China. Getting the limousine from like Guangzhou to Hong Kong. And i get to Lo Wu and I was carrying like all of these bags plus another bag And I needed to go to the toilet so badly. So, I quickly ran to the toilet. And I get into a cubicle and the lock doesn't lock. So, I have to like literally be squatting on the floor while holding the door. While I'm holding all my bags and like managing everything. And then someone's gonna open the door and I'm like oh my god. I did it. So, actually after living there I actually find Hong Kong. I don't find it because Hong Kong was more like, of a perfect balance between like east mixed west. The only thing maybe I find like as a cultural shock now, is like I still I'm a little bit scared of wet markets even though I go there. What market? Just like the smell and like the pigs. The pig's just lying there, it kind of like wow it's intense. Let me see, I've been to America and Australia. Yeah, there there aren't really any of these markets. But I also think sometimes it's better like that. Because over here when you see the animals being slaughtered, it kind of makes you remember oh it's an animal. Yeah. Otherwise, you go to supermarket everything is so beautifully packaged. You forget like what actually what you're consuming sometimes. But anyway I don't know why I'm talking about this. So, you think you're gonna turn vegan like sometime later in life? I just went to the wet market two days ago, so I'm a little bit traumatized. I think I just need some time. It's like just. So, what about the houses in Hong Kong? Like apartments. That's so true. Because Hong Kong apartments it's like the smallest in the world. Yeah. Georgia always dreams about having a big garden. She said she really wants dog and I told her it's so difficult. It's a luxury to have dogs or have pets or have a garden. Yeah. It's impo.. But honestly like in South Africa, it's relatively attainable to have like a four bedroom house, on a huge piece of land, the huge garden, many dogs, cats. So that's what I grew up with. So, that is still what I imagined for my life. And it's so true in Hong Kong everything is so claustrophobic and tiny. And just Torres for example you love to be inside. I think Torres feel so comfortable at home. I like to be at home. Whereas I feel most at peace like if I'm in nature. Do you, what about you? Do you feel at peace in nature or inside? Saying both actually. Really? I don't mind being in nature, I can meditate for like six hours. It's so soothing. It kind of makes you feel like an animal again you know. Yes. But some Hong Kong people say it, okay? They live worse than the animals, because you know the cage is even bigger than your home. Yeah. Being a dog is better than a man? You know the the cages in the zoo? Yeah. It's even bigger than your house like for most people. I mean I think we are quite lucky. Like our house is really really big for Hong Kong standing. Yes. But even so. Sea view. Yeah. But even sort of into Africa like it's just the space is so big you know. Yeah, it is Hong Kong too pack Yeah. Okay. So that is a cultural difference for sure. All right. You need to see us in the nature. The other day I saw a bee, I was ah ah ah ah. Georgia was like, it's just a bee. And we were camping the other day I was like we parked the car there. And we were camping, I was like what if there's a wild pig? And then I said don't worry I'll protect you. I'm Torres' South African protector, I'll like, Okay. stand away, stand back. She's your wonder woman. Yeah, she is indeed. I'm just a city boy. She's the real tough African girl. Okay, thanks Torres and Georgia sharing you know the the stories. Thank you so much for teaching us about this. I'm sure the audience they would love to hear like more about your life. Yeah.
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