It's allaboutcreating a balancebetweenyourwayofshowingloveandtheirlevelofcomfort.
Remember, catsaremastersofsubtlety.
Even a slightlyswishingtailordilatedpupilscanbesignsofdiscomfort, beingawareofthesesmallcuescandrasticallyimproveyourrelationshipwithyourfelinecompanion.
Didyouknowthatcatsoftendemonstrate a preferenceforonepersonaboveothers?