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Episode number three!
Hey, what's poppin' everybody?
What's going on everybody?
It's me, Enrique Concor!
And it's me, Tyler!
Why did you take your time?
I like to take my time, like I like to take, you know, like my coffee.
Bro, I- This is so weird, you know, this dude finishes coffee in one sitting.
No, but because the point is, in that moment, you drink your coffee, not like you bring your coffee to White Tide, like you bring your coffee to your office, and the whole day you are with your cup of coffee.
No, this is bullshit.
But that's the thing, if you order like, you know, extra large, how are you gonna- how is it possible to- Why are you ordering extra large?
Because you want to, you know, like have more!
No, if you want to drink coffee in this moment, go buy one coffee, like a medium that just you need, that's just what you need.
I feel like that's, you know, like, because as Taiwanese, you drink a lot of beverages, you know, like boba tea, green tea, those kind of- Yeah, it's part of the culture, because even in Taiwan, it's the first time that I saw you have one, like a pocket, or one, like small things you can bring your coffee inside.
It's like you have one special thing that you put inside the coffee.
I don't know, how is the name?
I don't know, it's not necessarily- I don't even know what's it called in Chinese.
Okay, everybody, if you are Taiwanese, you can comment what is the name.
Yeah, what is it called?
You know, Dai?
I don't know!
Ask us out that question.
If you don't know, then rethink whether you're Taiwanese or not.
Welcome, everybody, this is the episode number three, and this is...
Bro's Ball!
How are you doing?
Good, good, good, but honestly, you know, like, it kind of...
It's a very interesting thing that I feel like nowadays, when people ask you, how are you?
What's up, bro?
How's it going?
They're not really looking for, like, a genuine answer.
You know, like, people are just like, ah, good, good, good.
It's more like a greeting.
Never you are going to tell, like, how real, how are you.
Yeah, it's like, oh, I'm actually having a shitty day.
I've had better days, you know, something like that.
It's like nobody...
People really...
But this is a problem of the society.
Yeah, it's not a problem of the communication, because the communication, the word is simple.
The how are you?
I'm good, I'm not good, I'm bad, I'm terrible.
So I think we need to start one trending, you know, one trending.
So we need to change the real society in the real life.
So if somebody asks you, how are you?
You say, yeah, like a piece of shit.
Yeah, like a piece of shit.
Yeah.
Today, my wife is cheating with his boss.
No, it's like a piece of shit.
Wait, what?
Your wife is cheating with...
OK, so here's a...
It's a true story.
I remember there was a professor and he looked at me and he was like, how are you doing?
And I said, oh, yeah, great.
You know, kind of like the facade, like the mask, you know, like you have to put on when you, you know, like face people.
And he looked at me again and he said, nah, how are you truly doing?
Oh, yo, that hit different.
That hit different.
And I kind of just...
You started to cry like a little girl.
But I was I was really, you know, not in not in the best shape of my life at that point.
So I kind of I didn't cry, but I kind of had a mental meltdown in front of my professor.
And he was like, it's all right, bro.
It's all right.
That's when I realized that, oh, this is really different when people ask you how you're doing as greeting versus when they really ask you with when they genuinely want to know how you're actually doing.
So how are you actually doing?
I'm drunk.
That's the thing that no wonder you're wearing, you know, sunglasses.
We're indoor, man.
No, it's my it's my outfit, bro.
Oh, OK.
Sunglasses is not because I'm drunk.
It's your fashion statement?
Exactly.
How much did you have?
Drunk?
Yeah.
I'm not really, really drunk.
I am.
It's because I'm older.
So yesterday I was wrong.
Bro, you're 25.
You're saying you're older.
People are going to get offended.
That's offensive.
I'm 25.
I'm getting older.
But bro, my meaning is I'm off practice.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, you're off practice?
Yeah.
I'm off training.
Like, yeah, I'm I'm off.
I'm older.
You're off season.
Yeah.
Off season.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So I was really happy.
And that's why I called you like a 1am.
Oh, yeah.
You are like you went like drunk calling because I know your ex, but you're like, yo, papi, how's it going?
And I was like, yo, dude, what the fuck is 1am?
But yeah, what's up?
And you're like, you know what?
I'm like, I have this big vision, this dream.
We're going to we're going to we're going to get there, bro.
You're kind of like this.
You're like, yeah, I was like, this dude is either high as fuck or drunk as fuck.
Welcome back to the stories.
How was your first time you'd be drunk?
When I get drunk, I get extremely polite.
Polite.
Yeah.
Polite.
That was like the very first time and the last time I got drunk.
Yeah.
Because I also threw up.
Yeah.
But not on myself.
Like in the toilet.
But you don't have you don't have a control with that.
You just say, yeah, yeah, yeah.
But you know, like I threw up at that bar and I was, you know, like people were like, oh, it's OK, we're going to clean it up.
It's a no more reason to worry.
And I was like, you know, like the famous, the golden Taiwanese, right?
I was like, sorry, sorry.
Yeah, I'm very sorry.
I'm very sorry.
Sorry, sorry.
I'll come back tomorrow to clean it up.
Sorry, sorry.
I'm going to clean it up tomorrow.
I'm very sorry.
Sorry, sorry.
Bro, I have a one friend more polite than you.
Oh, really?
He throw up in my bedroom.
We make a one party.
Yeah.
He throw up in my bedroom.
He closed the door of the bedroom.
He closed the door of the bedroom.
And we was like, bro, are you OK?
Are you OK?
Because he closed the door and I said, I'm OK, I'm OK.
And we just listen.
I'm OK.
We waited like for 40 minutes, one hour.
We're waiting.
He opened the door and the bathroom was fucking cleaning.
Whoa.
What happened?
He clean after.
He clean the bathroom.
OK, that's the guy I want to drink with.
But I think here's the thing.
You know, like feeling a bit tipsy is like, oh, I'm getting there and feeling completely wasted is that it's another thing.
So you personally prefer when you drink.
You would just go like, let me just get drunk.
Oh, you prefer to get to the point.
I a little bit tipsy.
But you feel like all of your sensory are heightened.
But that's all.
I'm going with that way, bro.
I'm going to go away.
I'm going away.
I'm going to if I start with this and then the process I can be done.
Yeah, I'm going with that way.
The life is only one, bro.
Life is only one.
And of course, I don't know.
Like the Taiwanese people, the Taiwanese people love to sit down and drink.
But a Peruvian guy loves to stand up and dancing.
So it's like you're doing exercise.
Yes, yes, yes.
So it's a little more difficult to get drunk.
Right, right, right.
So did you cheat in a gear when you was drunk?
What do you mean?
You I don't know.
You you was you was wrong.
And you cheated in one gear.
No, but I witnessed the whole thing happening.
And right in front of me, I'm like first roll.
Yeah, I was the audience.
He had a girlfriend.
And then we were like a bunch of friends.
Right.
And the people are getting drunk.
That was the only time that I got drunk.
And I was also like, so like, I was like doing this.
I was like, yeah.
You look like a fucking psycho, bro.
Yeah.
And one of my friend, like it's a she.
And then, you know, she got so wasted.
And she was like, I'm Snow White.
I'm Snow White.
You want to be my dwarf or something like that?
And I'm like, what the fuck?
And then he just looked at you and say, do you have a big equipment?
I'm like, what?
Like she would literally ask everyone is like, do you have a big equipment?
Because I'm Snow White.
And I really need you to, you know, use your pipe to fix me.
And so I think I was like, what?
And look, mind you, when she is when she's, you know, like clear, when she is herself, she never talks like that.
She found them.
I don't know.
Like I've never really seen that.
So you know, you know, when you was drunk and you was.
I was really drunk.
Oh, you want to do when a girl or you was like, you know, I was just like extremely polite.
I was just like, no, boys, boys, excuse me, excuse me.
That's like kind of who I am.
I tend to be more crazy than when I was drunk.
I saw a really like a beautiful, like a good girl in the disco.
And a good girl.
Define good girl.
You mean like big boobs?
It was when you were single, right?
Yeah.
When I was single, when I was single, of course, I'm a fucking monster.
But yeah, no judgment, no judgment.
Yeah.
Don't judge me, please.
When you are single, you have the all, you have the all authority to do whatever you want with your life.
You're a freelancer.
But when you are married or you are going to get married, you have a one relationship.
You have to be committed.
Respect the relationship.
This is the most important part.
Respect your relationship.
Yes.
But we return with a part.
So I was in the disco.
Yeah.
And I have a friend.
You.
Oh, I really like where this is going.
This gear was dancing with another gear.
OK.
Basically, the technique, how you can dance with these gears is like you go with your friends and with your friend.
You go next to this gear and ask, oh, sorry, can can I dance with you?
And your your friend can dance with my friend.
This is a normal.
Yes.
And I saw two guys, a little really handsome.
Yeah.
They go to this gear and they say no.
And that's it with my and that's it with my friend.
Yeah.
So I was thinking, fuck, how can I be more intelligent to this girl?
Yeah.
How can I successfully get her attention and get her to say yes.
In that day, I went to the disco with my friends and one of my friends was gay.
OK.
And I told to my friends, gay.
You exploit your gay friend, right?
I told, bro, suppose you are.
We are gay.
OK, we are going to dance next to this gear because we are going to like, OK, we are going to support the four friends gear.
Yes.
Yeah.
Four friends gear.
So when they feel confident up with you, they are going to dance with you.
Right.
You're right.
True.
So we was next to this girl dancing and we was dancing really crazy, really good with a really good view.
So the gear, obviously, they notice us and the gear just turn and start to dancing with me.
Oh, OK.
After that, she told me, how long you are gay?
And I was for four years.
I'm going to be like a her friend.
Like, oh, I have problems with my boyfriend.
And I was like, hey, I give you a women, a women recommendation, women advice, like I was freaking gay.
If I can give you a women recommendation, I feel like, you know, with your boyfriend, you need to go with your boyfriend.
And she said, oh, you are so sweet, you are so sweet.
And she was like a her friend.
But I was like, oh, yeah, I have the best.
I had the most beautiful.
She was getting intimate with you, getting physical with you because she thought that, well, you're gay.
You're like my sister.
And you know, you know, sometimes the gears kiss another gears and it's not going to happen.
Yeah.
Yeah.
The gears kiss gay.
And it's the most natural things.
Yes.
So in that moment, she kissed me because she thought you were gay.
Yeah, but I know.
So I was win, win, win, win, win, win.
After that, she gave me her number and the next day she text me.
Yes.
And I text her, sorry, I'm not gay.
But what was her reaction, though?
When you tell her we we lost the contact.
So she just like you fake gay.
But the problem was not this.
The big problem of that night was with my friend gay because my friend gay was really strong and we live really close and we was walking to our house.
Yes.
And in the process, he told me, you don't want to sit down with me.
And I was, yes, you want to see it?
Yeah, we can tell you if you want to see it.
And he told me and he started to be a little more close.
He said, hey, but you are gay.
And I say, no, I'm not gay, bro.
I told you it's for the gear.
And you say, but how you don't know?
And I was like I don't you want to explore with?
Yeah, he told me that he told me that.
Aren't you curious?
Yeah.
He told me how you don't know you like if you didn't try.
Yeah, that was fun.
Oh, OK.
Now I think of one.
But I wasn't drunk.
My friend supposedly allegedly he was drunk.
He told me that.
Yeah.
He's not my friend anymore.
He was kind of like homophobic, you know, homophobic.
Yeah.
You or he?
He.
Yeah.
He was homophobic at the time.
He was like, oh, a girl should be with a guy, blah, blah, blah.
You know, you have to have kids and that's like not natural or something.
That's bad.
I mean, like that's his own opinion, but just like don't put it on me.
But the thing is, like, I didn't start being friends with him simply because he has the only different opinion.
So he got drunk one day and then he started to get a bit, you know, like handsy.
And I was like, yo, what the fuck, dude?
And he was like, I'm drunk.
I was like, OK, he was gay.
And it turned out that he was gay.
Oh, and he was asking me that he wanted to give it a try.
I was like, I am so in shock right now.
Like, first, you were so anti-gay and now you're secretly actually gay.
But I am not gay.
And but you want to have something with me right now.
I was like, what?
What?
Oh, but now now that I say is kind of funny.
But at the time, I felt like I was a little bit sexually harassed or maybe even almost assaulted because he was, you know, like bigger in size.
Yeah, he was bigger than me.
And at the time I was like I was like cleaning his like vomit and everything.
And then he started to, you know, like take off his pants and like underwear.
I was like, yo, dude, what the fuck?
And then he started to do something a bit.
I don't know.
He somehow a little bit molested me.
And I was like, no, you're like you're too drunk.
That's not talked about that.
No, get the fuck out of here.
And he left.
He left.
I think it was like 3 a.m. or something.
And then the next morning he texted me and is like, I am so truly very sorry.
I think I was kind of like out of my mind.
Yeah, I was not myself.
And I was like, yeah, I appreciate you.
Yeah, I was like, yeah, whatever.
And then he started to, you know, like talked about, you know, my family is like very anti-gay, very conservative, very traditional.
And I think that's why.
And I am like I am empty.
I feel hopeless.
And I started to feel like, oh, that's a bit bad.
And I feel I feel sorry for you.
And then so I decided to forgive him.
But then he did it again.
He tried to do it again.
I was like, nah, fuck it.
This is it.
Our friendship, it's done.
He was also a international student.
Right.
So the student visa, the status was really important for him.
In Taiwan?
No, no, no.
In the States.
In the States.
I was thinking.
So my friend kind of told me that you should report him.
Yeah.
You should get him deported.
You're sure of that?
But at the time, it was like her very at his very last year in that university.
But you said my professor tell me that you can report him.
We will do all the legal process if you decided to do that.
But I would also have to tell you, he is also a student.
And if you do this, he will never, ever, you know, like it pretty much like all the four years, all the money and, you know, all the credits he's earned is going to all completely goes to waste.
And I just feel like, man, I hate this person for what he did.
But all the money and, you know, like the, you know, like all the money his parents put in and all the work that he's done for his academic journey, the academic fuck up, bro.
What do you think?
That is not a fucking option.
This is how I decided to file a report, but not officially to the police or to the immigration.
Now, the school did implement something like he has to be really far away from me.
Like I will never, ever see him in the campus.
And they did that.
So I felt like it's pretty much the same.
Like he can continue whatever study.
And as long as I don't see this person in my life anymore, I'm fine.
OK, I think this is a really good, a really good, good, really good conclusion of this podcast.
I think this is an amazing story.
Thank for share for us.
And I think the really important thing is you.
If you have a one thing about the sexual things, about that sexual issue or something, probably with a sexual thing, even if he's drunk or not, that's not mean it's not a excuse.
It's not that I want to do that.
No, I was wrong.
No, this is a fuck up.
This is not an excuse.
Don't use drunkness as an excuse.
So if you are past or you are living something like this, just report that.
Don't fucking care about if he has a career, if he has a family.
If a report him, right?
Yeah, right.
It's fuck up is your integrity.
And because what happened if you don't do really strong now, maybe after five years or six years, you will be keep this feeling just fuck out, say that and please report to the police or the authorities that is looking this this this is in your country or the correct authorities.
But say that you don't keep the secret.
Don't keep anything in secret.
And also, if you've been like the victim of certain type of, you know, sexual harassment or sexual assaults, you are a survivor.
There's no shame in sharing that.
There's no shame in trying to share your story.
Or if you decided to keep that private, you it's valid.
You're entitled to do whatever you want.
And it's just, you know, like, remember, you're strong and you're going to get through it.
And yeah, don't like me.
If you see a problem reported.
Yeah.
So that is the end of this podcast.
Thank you, Tyler.
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