Welcome back.

We're doing another alone but not lonely video.

Our favorites around here.

Is it episode 10?

We love being alone on here.

Basically, if you're new, I'm and I'm really excited because Abercrombie is sponsoring this video.

I'll tell you guys more about that later.

I'm getting ready right now.

I have a lot of stuff to do today because I just announced my jewelry brand coming out, which I am so excited.

I originally was gonna have it launched November 1st, because I liked like the first of the month.

It's right after Halloween, and that just felt too close.

So I decided to move it back just a few days to the sixth, which is a Wednesday.

And I'm really excited because I feel like now I can talk about more things of what I've honestly been doing.

Because I would always say like, oh, I'm going to go do some work.

And obviously part of work is social media.

That's like my number one.

But I'm working on the side on this jewelry brand.

I'm just excited to show you guys what I've been doing.

I've been working on it for over a year.

I'm just really passionate about it.

So it's been so fun.

I'm really excited for you guys to see it.

Anyways, I'm gonna go get coffee this morning.

I want to go to a different coffee spot, though, than the ones I've been going to because I want to just branch out.

There's so many around here.

And it's kind of lame that I keep going to the same one.

So guess what?

What?

Guess who DMs me?

Oh, yes.

Do I know him?

Yes.

Personally?

No.

Anthony Edwards.

Yes.

He has like five kids.

Oh.

But what'd he say?

He just said hey with two Y's.

Did you DM him first?

No.

Tell me you're lying.

I was bored.

So I called my friend and did that.

I was calling him for something else.

And then as the phone was ringing, I was like, wait, I want to prank him right now.

I don't want to be normal today.

I want to be weird.

Anyways, we're gonna go get some coffee, walk around a little.

I like to get some steps in in the morning because I try to get to 10,000 every day.

Something I think about a lot is how I used to not drink coffee, which is crazy to me because now it's just such a big part of my routine.

If you've watched me for a while, you know, I used to kind of I was kind of a hater of coffee.

Honestly, I walked around for 45 minutes.

It was really nice because the weather is still it's perfect right now.

And I know it won't be like that pretty soon.

So I wanted to take advantage.

I'm gonna do some computer work.

But first, I have so many boxes that I need to bring down.

Our recycling is downstairs and I don't like going down there.

It's kind of scary.

Something smells awful.

Wow, I don't know what the heck is going on.

Something there's something going on down here.

Something happened and I need to get out.

Every time I come in this corner, it seems like I do a haul which is exactly what we're about to do.

So I'm to show you guys I could not be more excited because I'm working with one of my dream brands today Abercrombie.

I do have a really quick story time that is related to this and I just like have to share a couple weeks ago I was texting my dad he's like you need to get a Vikings shirt like Minnesota Vikings because that's our football team and I was like I know but I don't want to wear just a basic jersey.

I really want to get a cute vintage crew neck and I was looking and I was sending him options and the options were from Abercrombie and then they sent it to me.

It felt like a full circle moment.

I'm gonna stop talking about it.

I'm gonna show you guys the clothes.

You guys know I've been really trying to work on my style.

If you've watched my channel, I've been posting so many videos about that and Abercrombie really fits the vibe that I go for on my Pinterest boards.

Abercrombie is my fall outfit board brought to life.

Like that acro on Pinterest that you see, Abercrombie really has the best pieces.

First thing I got technically is this what I'm wearing right now.

I love it.

It's exactly what I wanted.

I was going to buy it myself.

Next up I got this.

This is a button-down sweater.

What I love about it are these gold buttons.

It really caught my eye on the website because these almost look like earrings actually and it's so soft.

Next I got this.

I've been saving a lot of that black and white dual color tone.

I love the stark combination of the two where you have this white neckline.

It's a maxi dress and the bottom also has the white peeking out.

I think this would be really beautiful for a date night.

Oh I love this It has a zipper down the middle and it ruches in on the sides so I think it's gonna look really flattering and sexy and then the top has this collar to it.

I have a really hard time with jeans fitting me and I was telling one of my friends this a couple years ago and she was like Abercrombie's jeans are the best and then ever since then all my jeans have been from there so I was so excited because now I get even more of the jeans that I wear.

My favorite style from them are the high rise the 90s relaxed.

I have a few pairs of these already but I decided to get some in black because I love mine so much and I wear my other ones all the time.

I wanted to try out a few different jean styles that they had too so I got these low rise the baggy jeans.

They are the perfect everyday wash.

I also got that same style the baggy low rise in this dark gray almost black color.

I also wanted to grab a simple sweater.

I think you can't go wrong with having one for the fall season so I got this cable knit gray one.

Lastly I think what I'm most excited for this is their long wool trench coat.

It gets cold here in New York and I'm honestly a wimp ever since I left Minnesota.

I forgot that it's not warm everywhere like it is in California so I knew I needed a new jacket and this one is just perfect.

It's exactly what I wanted something simple but sophisticated and chic.

This I can already tell is going to keep me very warm because it's very heavy duty.

That's everything in my haul.

I was gonna say little haul this was definitely not little.

It really felt like Christmas for me to open all of this.

What I love about Abercrombie is their pieces are really staples that I keep in my closet for a really long time so you can dress them up dress them down.

I've been wearing Abercrombie since I was in middle school which is crazy.

Abercrombie's iconic to me so I'm really excited to be working with them.

I'll make sure to find links for each of these and put them in the description box for you guys.

I think this is gonna be a two-day vlog.

I'm making some french toast.

I also feel like I have so much to tell you guys because there's just so many updates.

I'll tell you guys that maybe once I'm actually eating because I need to start making this.

French toast is one of my favorite things ever and it's weird because I never make it and I always crave it so I was like you know what I'm just gonna make it tonight because I have everything.

You know.

Dinner is made.

Some people are gonna hate on me.

This isn't technically dinner but sometimes I have breakfast for dinner.

Is that like not a normal thing?

I grew up having that like on special occasions having breakfast for dinner and it was my favorite thing.

I hope it's good you guys.

I don't know why I fear.

I fear it's not.

I definitely used the wrong type of bread because it's all I had.

I was scared because I didn't refrigerate my maple syrup after opening.

I like googled it if I can still use it and people on Reddit said yes so let's hope they're right.

Anyways my update that I wanted to share with you guys.

I think I found an apartment.

I've been touring just so many apartments randomly the past month or so.

Of course I didn't think to film this one when I was touring it probably because I just liked it so much that I like wasn't even thinking about filming it.

The area is really really good and it's a lot quieter which are two big things that I was looking for and it's also a one bed and it's bigger which is definitely something I was also looking for because being in a studio I've talked about this a little bit before but it's just mentally kind of confusing when you wake up in the same room that you eat in and that you cook in.

Obviously it's such a first world problem because I have everything I need but in order to create that one bedroom and my kitchen because I don't know if you guys have noticed this but I don't have an oven which I didn't think would be that big of a deal but then I went a year without having an oven and I realized that I would love to have an oven.

It limits me from making a lot of things not that I cook that much but and it has really good lighting.

My bathroom's not going to be as nice that's the one thing like my bathroom here is the nicest bathroom I've ever been in and it's gorgeous so that's the one thing but obviously like it's not a big deal.

So yeah that's kind of my update I'm really excited I think I'm gonna sign the lease hopefully in the next couple days they just approved my application so I went in today and I dropped off a check I had to do a security deposit and then first month's rent I think it'll probably be in the next month that I move so I'll keep you guys updated and that's about it and I hope I don't get sick from this maple syrup I'm scared.

Good morning guys I was just getting ready and I was watching as I was getting ready I got dressed I'm obviously wearing my Abercrombie sweater and jeans I'm wearing the low-rise jeans and the sweater is so perfect I love my outfit it's so fall I'm getting ready to go to a coffee shop I hope this doesn't seem redundant I feel like sometimes my life is very repetitive which that's very normal I love my routine but I really just go to coffee shops basically every day when I work because I don't like to work in my apartment I told you guys before I just I'm not as productive in my apartment and I like to get out time flew by so fast it always flies by though when you have a lot of stuff you're doing and a big to-do list I find I got a lot done though for the website my brand is launching November 6th at so strange because it gets dark so early now and it really throws me off the first thing I'm going to do is clean my apartment by the way I actually have another update guys I did get approved for my new apartment which I'm really excited about so moving vlogs are going to be coming really soon I'm moving in less than a month that took me so long I feel so much better I'm always in 10 times of a better mood after I finished cleaning my bathroom looks amazing I cleaned my table kitchen as you guys saw well my very small kitchen if you even consider this a kitchen and now I'm gonna have a cozy girls night in girls not plural though one girl the girl is me I'm gonna make some tea maybe read and then I want to put on a little movie because I've been using my projector if you guys remember for my summer vlog I got it from LG and I love it so I'm gonna put it on my wall area over here it's kind of hard because I don't have a clear wall but it still works before I start my movie you guys know I really like to do little advice segments and you guys also seem to really like it doing the same thing again I always go on my Instagram so if you want to DM me anything that you want advice on just DM my Instagram account I'll put it right here how do you deal with post grad I graduated last spring and to be honest this has been the worst year for me meeting people making friends is so hard my corporate job just seems to be a daily cycle and I wake up and go to bed and do the same thing all over again the next day if you have any advice on how to make post grad easier please let me know love you wow I'm actually really sorry to hear that that's like really heartbreaking post grad is really tough like I'm not gonna sit here and say that it's a breeze after graduating college you're starting over completely a whole new chapter I think the first step at least for me and I'm definitely not a pro at this there are times when I miss college because I did love it I think for me what's helped is just accepting that that chapter is over I had the best time and I'm happy it happened but I'm just super focused on the now I think some people can really get stuck in the past with college and mentally just not be able to move on and enjoy their present moment accepting that this is your life now and just trying to make the best of it along with that I think accepting kind of comes putting yourself out there and just realizing that this is going to be a new chapter there are going to be changes and change is inevitable this one quote that I really like is that change is the only constant in life a lot of people don't like change for me I've learned to like change because I've tried to embrace it instead of resent it the corporate life I know can get really monotonous you don't want to be stuck in a cycle where you're really unhappy and feeling like every day is just the same miserable day just adding things to your routine like even if in the morning before work a couple days a week you want to go to a new workout class or after work you plan in advance to meet up with a friend and go to a movie or something keeping yourself busy I think is what makes me the other day I was with my friend and I told her this also is going to be probably very bad advice but being busy leaves me no time to be sad you definitely need to be able to sit with your thoughts and accept things and be at peace so don't do that but it is true sometimes once you've done all of your ruminating you do just need to get up and go and do things and plan things with friends and try to make your week a bit busier so you're not just home after work all the time and just trying to be a little bit spontaneous too joining clubs that you like really putting yourself out there I think is the main thing after college I've had to do that in New York really put myself out there more than in college because in college your friends kind of come to you obviously everyone in school is there living right next to you but after that you kind of have to go out of your way a little bit to meet people so I guess that would be my advice and also just know that you're not alone in that feeling and it's normal to have a few months years even more of an adjustment period and it will get better anyways I'm going to start my movie um what should I watch so I'm watching Hannah Montana I do watch things other than Disney by the way guys I promise I do it probably looks like I don't I enjoy some educational content and documentaries I am going to go to bed I'm really tired as you can probably tell I'm remembering to do an outro because the last vlog I forgot and this happens often for me so I'm just happy I remembered but I love you guys so much and I'll see you guys in my next vlog bye guys