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  • Think about a moment when everything seemed to go right for you.

  • Maybe you were late for the bus, but it arrived just as you reached the stop.

  • Or perhaps you found money in an old jacket you hadn't worn for years.

  • Is it luck?

  • Some people might say yes, but let's think about it differently.

  • Luck isn't always about unexpected events like finding money or winning a lottery.

  • Instead, luck can also mean noticing and appreciating good things in your life.

  • In Western culture, luck is often seen as a mix of chance and preparation.

  • Let me share a quick story.

  • Alexander Graham Bell, the inventor of the telephone, once said, When one door closes, another opens.

  • But we often look so long and regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.

  • This reminds us that luck is about being ready to see and use opportunities.

  • So the next time something good happens, ask yourself, Was it really just luck?

  • Or were you ready for it?

  • Let me ask you a question.

  • When was the last time you felt lucky?

  • Was it something big, like getting your dream job?

  • Or something small, like finding the last cookie in the jar?

  • Luck isn't always about life-changing events.

  • Often, it's hidden in the small, everyday moments that bring us joy.

  • Here is an example.

  • A study by Dr. Robert Emmons, a leading researcher on gratitude, found that people who focus on small, positive moments are happier and feel luckier than those who don't.

  • For instance, noticing a beautiful sunset, hearing your favorite song on the radio, or getting an unexpected smile from a stranger.

  • These are all small moments of luck that can brighten your day.

  • I remember a time when I was walking home after a tough day.

  • Suddenly, I heard a street musician playing a song I loved.

  • That moment felt magical.

  • Did it solve all my problems?

  • No, but it made me feel lighter, like the universe had sent me a little gift.

  • So, start noticing the small things.

  • A sunny morning, a warm cup of coffee, or a kind message from a friend.

  • These tiny bits of luck add up, making life feel richer and more meaningful.

  • Have you ever noticed how some people seem to always feel lucky?

  • They're not necessarily winning the lottery or finding gold on the street, but they seem really happy.

  • What's their secret?

  • It's gratitude.

  • Being thankful for what you have changes how you see the world.

  • When you focus on the good things in your life, you naturally start to feel luckier.

  • There's an interesting study by Dr. Martin Seligman, the father of positive psychology.

  • He asked participants to write a gratitude letter to someone who had helped them.

  • After delivering the letter, participants reported feeling happier and more optimistic, even weeks later.

  • Gratitude doesn't just make others feel good, it changes how we feel about ourselves and our lives.

  • Try this.

  • Tonight, before you go to bed, think about three things you're grateful for.

  • Maybe it's the meal you had, a funny conversation with a friend, or just the fact that you have a cozy place to sleep.

  • Over time, this habit can help you notice the good things in your life, making you feel luckier.

  • This cannot be explained by the science, but we cannot deny its positive influence on our life.

  • The phrase good luck, or knock on wood, also has a similar meaning.

  • We all know the meaning of good luck, but what about another one?

  • Knock on wood is something people say to avoid bad luck after talking about something good or hopeful.

  • They often touch or tap on a wooden object while saying it, as a way to stay lucky.

  • It is used in many countries, from Asia to Europe and so on.

  • So, why not?

  • Just try it right now.

  • Have you thought about creating your own luck?

  • Does that sound strange?

  • Isn't luck meant to be random?

  • Not always.

  • Think about athletes, musicians, or successful business people.

  • Do they get lucky, or do they work hard to create opportunities for themselves?

  • Most of the time, it's the second option.

  • They practice, prepare, and stay ready for the right moment.

  • There's a famous story about Oprah Winfrey.

  • When she was young, she wanted to work in television.

  • But her first few jobs didn't go well.

  • She even got fired from one because her bosses thought she wasn't a good fit.

  • Instead of giving up, she kept learning and improving.

  • Later, when an opportunity came to host a talk show, she was ready.

  • Her preparation turned that chance into a life-changing moment.

  • So, how can you create your own luck?

  • Start by setting goals and working toward them.

  • Learn new skills, meet new people, and keep an open mind.

  • Opportunities are everywhere, but you need to be ready to grab them.

  • We've all had bad days.

  • Maybe you missed a bus, failed an exam, or didn't get the job you wanted.

  • It's easy to think, I have such bad luck.

  • But here's the truth.

  • Bad moments happen to everyone.

  • They're a normal part of life.

  • When things go wrong, remember that bad things are also chances to grow.

  • It's like a spice in life.

  • And life must have spicy, sweet, bitter, and so on.

  • You know, a dish with only one flavor cannot be delicious.

  • Although spicy or bitter flavors may be harder to eat than sweet flavors, it will give you an interesting change in your dishes.

  • So next time, just think simple like that and find a clear solution.

  • Because being upset all the time without calming down and rethinking everything will only make you more tired.

  • If you're feeling unlucky, try to change your perspective.

  • It's the way you see things.

  • Imagine two friends walking in the rain.

  • One says, I'm wet and unhappy.

  • The other says, at least I have my umbrella and can enjoy the fresh air.

  • Who feels luckier?

  • The key is how you see things.

  • Focusing on the good can turn a bad moment into a better one.

  • Here's an example.

  • Dr. Carol Dweck at Stanford found students did better when they saw challenges as learning opportunities, not failures.

  • This way of thinking, called a growth mindset, makes people feel more confident and lucky.

  • Next time something goes wrong, look for a positive.

  • Missed your bus?

  • Maybe you'll enjoy a quiet walk or find a new cafe.

  • How you view things matters.

  • It can make tough days feel a bit lighter.

  • Instead of thinking, why is this happening to me?

  • Ask yourself, what can I learn from this?

  • Every challenge is a chance to grow stronger and wiser.

  • Let me share a story.

  • A friend of mine once lost her wallet on the way to work.

  • She was upset, thinking her day was ruined.

  • But a few hours later, she got a call.

  • A stranger had found her wallet and returned it with everything inside.

  • She felt incredibly lucky, not just because she got her wallet back, but because it reminded her that there are kind people in the world.

  • Think about your own life.

  • When have you felt lucky?

  • Maybe it was finding something you lost, meeting someone who changed your life, or even just having a great day with friends.

  • These moments remind us that luck is all around us.

  • If you have time, write down one of your lucky stories.

  • Share it with a friend or keep it as a reminder that life is full of surprises.

  • So, are you a lucky person?

  • Maybe you've realized that luck isn't just about chance.

  • It's about how you see the world, how you prepare for opportunities, and how you handle life's challenges.

  • Luck is like a small seed.

  • With care and attention it grows into something beautiful.

  • By practicing gratitude, staying positive, and working hard, you can create your own luck and make life feel more rewarding.

  • Remember, you don't have to wait for luck to find you.

  • You can make it happen.

  • Stay ready, stay hopeful, and know that even in tough times, you are luckier than you think.

  • So when you think about luck, don't just see it as something that happens by chance.

  • Think of it as a result of your actions, your mindset, and how prepared you are for life's surprises.

  • So why not grow a lucky tree of your own?

  • It will create amazing things that you may not realize right now.

  • But trust me, in the future, you will have your own answer.

  • Thank you for watching.

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