Is five days a week too much?

一週五天是否太多？

Five days.

五天

It's not too much.

不會太多。

My piece is gonna be hurting.

我的作品會受傷的

Hi.

你好。

Hey.

嘿。

My name is Randy.

我叫蘭迪

I'm Tasia.

我叫塔西婭

I'm Kira Hillman.

我是基拉-希爾曼

And I am Sean Johner.

我是肖恩-約翰納。

How long have you been together?

你們在一起多久了？

About two months.

大約兩個月

We've been talking for about three months and we made official about a few weeks ago.

我們已經談了三個月，幾周前我們正式開始交往。

It's so brand new.

它是如此嶄新。

What do you call each other?

你們怎麼稱呼對方？

Are you like, this is my boo?

你是說，這是我的噓噓？

Bebe.

貝貝

Strawberry Skittle.

草莓脆片

Snack.

小吃

Yeah.

是啊

Do you two love each other?

你們相愛嗎？

Yes.

是的。

Madly in love.

瘋狂的愛

Madly.

瘋狂地

Love is a big word.

愛是一個很大的詞。

I think we're trying to get there.

我認為我們正在努力實現這一目標。

But we really like each other now.

但我們現在真的很喜歡對方。

Yeah.

是啊

We're not having sex because we are just not ready.

我們不做愛是因為我們還沒準備好。

I've had a lot of traumatic experience with like, getting naked before.

我有過很多裸體的痛苦經歷。

And I've never had sex.

而且我從沒做過愛。

Are you a virgin?

你是處女嗎？

Yes.

是的。

Are you also a virgin?

你也是處女嗎？

Yes, I'm a virgin as well.

是的，我也是處女。

Yeah.

是啊

And yeah, I know.

是的，我知道。

I get to teach him everything.

我可以教他一切。

We literally are doing it for God, I would say.

我想說，我們真的是在為上帝而做。

I think we're waiting because we want to have a real connection with each other.

我想我們之所以在等待，是因為我們想彼此建立真正的聯繫。

We don't want it to be based off of like, lust.

我們不希望它建立在慾望的基礎上。

Is it wedding day?

今天是結婚日嗎？

That's when it's possible?

這才有可能？

Or could it happen before?

還是以前就發生過？

I think we're trying to wait for that.

我認為我們正在努力等待。

Yeah, we're trying.

是的，我們正在努力。

We'll probably do it before we're married.

我們可能會在結婚前做這件事。

Probably.

也許吧

Probably.

也許吧

Probably.

也許吧

Oh my goodness, they're getting straight into it.

哦，我的天哪，他們直接進入狀態了。

What's the closest we've come to having sex?

我們最接近做愛的時候是什麼時候？

We definitely kissed a lot.

我們肯定經常接吻。

And just like sleepovers and stuff.

還有過夜之類的。

We just had a sleepover like once or twice a week.

我們只是每週過夜一兩次。

Probably one time in the car.

大概有一次是在車裡。

Yes.

是的。

When we were just like, oh my god, I love you so much.

我們就像在說，天哪，我太愛你了。

Yeah, no, that was absurdly close.

是啊，不，差得太遠了。

We were trauma bonding, honestly.

老實說，我們是外傷結合。

And we were just talking about our bad experiences with other people, realizing that we would never want to hurt each other.

我們只是在談論與其他人相處的糟糕經歷，意識到我們永遠不會想傷害對方。

Yes.

是的。

It was just a major moment of connection.

這只是一個重要的聯繫時刻。

And he was like, oh my gosh, I know we don't want to do it in the car for the first time.

他說，天哪，我知道我們不想第一次就在車裡做。

Definitely had to really hold each other accountable, I would say.

可以說，我們必須真正做到相互負責。

You gotta wait.

你得等等。

Who's usually the one that stops it?

通常由誰來阻止？

Me.

我

I feel like a man's supposed to leave.

我覺得男人應該離開。

Yeah, he says that.

是的，他是這麼說的。

I remember I was crying a lot.

我記得我哭了很多次。

She was not.

她沒有。

And then at one point, we were just holding each other close.

有一次，我們緊緊擁抱在一起。

And then I just gave her a kiss.

然後我就親了她一下。

And then I was like, wow, this is great.

然後我就想，哇，這太棒了。

Did you get a boner?

你勃起了嗎？

I don't remember, maybe.

我不記得了，也許吧。

I mean, I'm pretty sure you did.

我的意思是，我敢肯定你做了。

I might have.

我可能有。

I mean, it makes sense if I did.

我的意思是，如果我這麼做了，那就說得通了。

I don't quite remember all the boners I get.

我不太記得我勃起過多少次了。

What's the most sexual thing we can do that doesn't count as sex on the chart?

我們能做的最性感的事情是什麼？

I'm not gonna answer it.

我不會回答的。

I don't know, actually.

其實我也不知道。

Oh, you're so easy.

哦，你真好說話。

Oh, can I answer it?

哦，我能回答嗎？

Probably it would be him sliding his between my thighs.

可能是他把他的滑到我的大腿之間。

Why'd you call it?

你為什麼要打電話？

It's like Christian sex.

這就像基督教的性愛。

Oh, it's not going in.

哦，不會進去的。

Yeah.

是啊

Well, yeah.

是啊

What's your kink?

你有什麼怪癖？

Kink?

變態？

Yes.

是的。

I don't really have one yet.

我還真沒有。

Maybe one day you'll find out.

也許有一天你會發現。

Yeah.

是啊

I like being dominated.

我喜歡被支配。

Like, I want you to tie up my hands and tell me to be a good girl.

比如，我要你把我的手綁起來，告訴我做個好女孩。

I like being thrown up against the wall because it shows me like, you just can't hold back anymore.

我喜歡被扔到牆上，因為這讓我知道，你再也不能忍耐了。

Oh my gosh.

我的天啊

How do you feel about that?

你對此有何感想？

Yes.

是的。

Yeah.

是啊

Have you had sex before?

你以前有過性生活嗎？

Yeah, I've been in a relationship before.

是啊，我以前談過戀愛。

I feel like that's why.

我覺得這就是原因。

A big reason why I want to wait is because I feel like I want to make a better connection based off of that.

我想等待的一個重要原因是，我覺得我想在此基礎上建立更好的聯繫。

Some people would be like, well, you've already had sex.

有些人會說，你已經做過愛了。

Why wait with the next person?

為什麼要等下一個人呢？

As Christians, we can do better.

作為基督徒，我們可以做得更好。

And I think that's why we want to wait.

我想這就是我們要等待的原因。

You think I've had sex before?

你以為我以前做過愛嗎？

Yeah, I know you have.

是的，我知道你有。

I know you haven't had sex before, but what other things have you done like that?

我知道你以前沒有做過愛，但你還做過什麼類似的事情？

Yeah, I've made out in a few cars.

是啊，我在幾輛車裡親熱過。

I have had my yes zone touched before.

我的 "是 "區以前也被碰過。

Most of the time it just hurts though.

但大多數時候，它只是傷害。

Ouch.

哎喲

Yeah.

是啊

I don't think it'll be like that when we do it though.

不過我覺得我們做的時候不會是這樣的。

Okay.

好的

Yeah, no.

是啊，沒有。

Because I can just tell you what to do.

因為我可以直接告訴你該怎麼做。

Absolutely.

當然。

I mean, it's so nice working with a blank canvas.

我的意思是，在空白的畫布上工作感覺真好。

Like, I can just draw whatever I want.

比如，我想畫什麼就畫什麼。

He's my little picture.

他是我的小畫像

I mean, besides like an area like that, that just sounds like it hurt.

我的意思是，除了像那樣的地方，聽起來好像很疼。

Yeah.

是啊

You gotta be gentle.

你得溫柔點

Absolutely.

當然。

Yeah.

是啊

How often do you touch yourself?

你經常撫摸自己嗎？

Oh, fun.

哦，好玩。

Well, oh boy.

哦，天哪

I just don't.

我就是不知道。

What?

什麼？

You want like an average?

你想要平均值嗎？

Yeah, like an average.

是的，就像平均數。

Oh gosh.

哦，天哪。

Three, four times a week, I guess.

一週三四次吧。

Yeah.

是啊

How often do you do that?

你經常這樣做嗎？

Since we've been fooling around, never unless it's with you.

自從我們鬼混以來，除非是和你，否則從來沒有過。

Oh wow.

哦，哇

The thing on my end as well is that like, I'm just toning that down a little bit.

我這邊的情況也是一樣，我只是把它淡化了一些。

You know, like I know, like, um.

你知道，就像我知道，就像，嗯。

He wants to be hard for like longer.

他想硬得更久一些。

Yeah.

是啊

Yeah.

是啊

That's a thing.

這是一件事。

Yeah.

是啊

Uh-huh.

嗯哼

What's off limit the first time?

第一次有什麼限制？

I'm about to take a shot with him.

我正準備和他來一發。

He said nothing's off limit.

他說沒有什麼是不可以的。

What's off limits?

什麼是禁區？

Don't peck me.

別啄我

Uh, what about for you though?

那你呢

Don't choke me.

別掐我

That's scary.

太可怕了

It is scary.

這是可怕的。

I don't know how some guys are into that.

我不知道有些人怎麼會喜歡這個。

Like, just go like, oh yeah, you like that?

比如說，你喜歡嗎？

You're just like, I want to make sure she can still breathe.

你只是想，我要確保她還能呼吸。

How often will we be doing it once we finally do it?

一旦我們最終做到了，我們會多久做一次？

Is five days a week too much?

一週五天是否太多？

Five days a week.

每週五天。

Gotta prove it's not too much.

必須證明這並不過分。

My piece is going to be hurting.

我的作品會受到傷害。

What would be the consequences of us having sex now?

我們現在做愛會有什麼後果？

You've had your own trauma with all that and I wouldn't want to have you go through all that again.

你自己也經歷過這些創傷，我不想讓你再經歷一次。

We could have a kid when we're not ready to have a kid.

我們可以在還沒準備好要孩子的時候要孩子。

God could punish us and not give us like the strongest relationship that we want to have.

上帝可能會懲罰我們，不給我們想要的最牢固的關係。

We just wouldn't be as like emotionally like connected as we want to be.

我們的情感就不會像我們想要的那樣緊密相連。

We would want to make sure that we're like, we really like each other for who each other is and not just because like we have that like physical like connection.

我們要確保，我們真的喜歡對方，因為對方是誰，而不僅僅是因為我們有那種身體上的聯繫。

So those are three big consequences and that's why I don't want to do it.

是以，這就是三大後果，也是我不想這麼做的原因。

What would we do if we got pregnant?

如果懷孕了，我們該怎麼辦？

I'm really not ready for a kid yet.

我真的還沒準備好要孩子。

Yeah.

是啊

I wouldn't want to go through childbirth to give it up for adoption.

我可不想生完孩子就把它送人領養。

So if I found out like really early, I would probably just take the pill that like deletes that.

所以，如果我很早就發現了，我可能就會吃藥把它去掉。

That's understandably what we'd have to do.

我們必須這樣做，這是可以理解的。

That's okay.

沒關係。

If I got pregnant, what would we do?

如果我懷孕了，我們該怎麼辦？

I don't know what you would do.

我不知道你會怎麼做。

We've talked about it.

我們已經談過了。

I would, if I'm man enough to be inside of you, I'm man enough to, you know, take care of the child as well too.

我會的，如果我是個男人，我可以和你在一起，我也可以照顧孩子。

Yeah.

是啊

I feel like if it happened, like I would keep my baby.

我覺得如果真的發生了，我就會保住我的孩子。

So right as of now, we would try to be together and take care of it and figure it out.

所以，從現在開始，我們會試著在一起，把事情處理好，想辦法解決。

Last one.

最後一個

All right.

好吧

Got this.

找到了

Do you think I'm the one?

你覺得我是那個人嗎？

Yes.

是的。

Yes.

是的。

Yes.

是的。

I think you're the one too.

我也覺得是你。

Undoubtedly.

毫無疑問。

Like who else am I going to do Legos with or make up fake gossip with?

比如，我還能和誰一起玩樂高積木或編造假八卦？

Absolutely.

當然。

He's my best friend.

他是我最好的朋友

Do you think I'm the one?

你覺得我是那個人嗎？

Yes.

是的。

I think that you have all the qualities that I've been looking for.

我認為你具備我一直在尋找的所有品質。

So I'm excited to see what the future holds for him.

是以，我很期待看到他的未來。

Do you think I'm the one?

你覺得我是那個人嗎？

I do think.

我是這麼認為的。

If you were to put a timeline on it, when do you think it would happen?

如果給它定個時間表，你認為什麼時候會發生？

Maybe like a year, probably after you're moved out.

可能要等一年，大概是在你搬出去之後。

Cause I would prefer not to do it in your childhood bed.

因為我不想在你小時候的床上做。

Yeah.

是啊

I would prefer not to do that with a Wario watching us.

我可不想在瓦里奧監視我們的情況下這樣做。

Thank you.

謝謝。

Yeah.

是啊

Yeah.

是啊

He's got a Wario poster.

他有一張 Wario 的海報。

I do.

我是這麼想的。

That's why you turn the lights off, isn't it?

這就是你關燈的原因，不是嗎？

I mean, yeah, a little bit.

我的意思是，是的，有一點。