Is five days a week too much?

Five days.

It's not too much.

My piece is gonna be hurting.

Hi.

Hey.

My name is Randy.

I'm Tasia.

I'm Kira Hillman.

And I am Sean Johner.

How long have you been together?

About two months.

We've been talking for about three months and we made official about a few weeks ago.

It's so brand new.

What do you call each other?

Are you like, this is my boo?

Bebe.

Strawberry Skittle.

Snack.

Yeah.

Do you two love each other?

Yes.

Madly in love.

Madly.

Love is a big word.

I think we're trying to get there.

But we really like each other now.

Yeah.

We're not having sex because we are just not ready.

I've had a lot of traumatic experience with like, getting naked before.

And I've never had sex.

Are you a virgin?

Yes.

Are you also a virgin?

Yes, I'm a virgin as well.

Yeah.

And yeah, I know.

I get to teach him everything.

We literally are doing it for God, I would say.

I think we're waiting because we want to have a real connection with each other.

We don't want it to be based off of like, lust.

Is it wedding day?

That's when it's possible?

Or could it happen before?

I think we're trying to wait for that.

Yeah, we're trying.

We'll probably do it before we're married.

Probably.

Probably.

Probably.

Oh my goodness, they're getting straight into it.

What's the closest we've come to having sex?

We definitely kissed a lot.

And just like sleepovers and stuff.

We just had a sleepover like once or twice a week.

Probably one time in the car.

Yes.

When we were just like, oh my god, I love you so much.

Yeah, no, that was absurdly close.

We were trauma bonding, honestly.

And we were just talking about our bad experiences with other people, realizing that we would never want to hurt each other.

Yes.

It was just a major moment of connection.

And he was like, oh my gosh, I know we don't want to do it in the car for the first time.

Definitely had to really hold each other accountable, I would say.

You gotta wait.

Who's usually the one that stops it?

Me.

I feel like a man's supposed to leave.

Yeah, he says that.

I remember I was crying a lot.

She was not.

And then at one point, we were just holding each other close.

And then I just gave her a kiss.

And then I was like, wow, this is great.

Did you get a boner?

I don't remember, maybe.

I mean, I'm pretty sure you did.

I might have.

I mean, it makes sense if I did.

I don't quite remember all the boners I get.

What's the most sexual thing we can do that doesn't count as sex on the chart?

I'm not gonna answer it.

I don't know, actually.

Oh, you're so easy.

Oh, can I answer it?

Probably it would be him sliding his between my thighs.

Why'd you call it?

It's like Christian sex.

Oh, it's not going in.

Yeah.

Well, yeah.

What's your kink?

Kink?

Yes.

I don't really have one yet.

Maybe one day you'll find out.

Yeah.

I like being dominated.

Like, I want you to tie up my hands and tell me to be a good girl.

I like being thrown up against the wall because it shows me like, you just can't hold back anymore.

Oh my gosh.

How do you feel about that?

Yes.

Yeah.

Have you had sex before?

Yeah, I've been in a relationship before.

I feel like that's why.

A big reason why I want to wait is because I feel like I want to make a better connection based off of that.

Some people would be like, well, you've already had sex.

Why wait with the next person?

As Christians, we can do better.

And I think that's why we want to wait.

You think I've had sex before?

Yeah, I know you have.

I know you haven't had sex before, but what other things have you done like that?

Yeah, I've made out in a few cars.

I have had my yes zone touched before.

Most of the time it just hurts though.

Ouch.

Yeah.

I don't think it'll be like that when we do it though.

Okay.

Yeah, no.

Because I can just tell you what to do.

Absolutely.

I mean, it's so nice working with a blank canvas.

Like, I can just draw whatever I want.

He's my little picture.

I mean, besides like an area like that, that just sounds like it hurt.

Yeah.

You gotta be gentle.

Absolutely.

Yeah.

How often do you touch yourself?

Oh, fun.

Well, oh boy.

I just don't.

What?

You want like an average?

Yeah, like an average.

Oh gosh.

Three, four times a week, I guess.

Yeah.

How often do you do that?

Since we've been fooling around, never unless it's with you.

Oh wow.

The thing on my end as well is that like, I'm just toning that down a little bit.

You know, like I know, like, um.

He wants to be hard for like longer.

Yeah.

Yeah.

That's a thing.

Yeah.

Uh-huh.

What's off limit the first time?

I'm about to take a shot with him.

He said nothing's off limit.

What's off limits?

Don't peck me.

Uh, what about for you though?

Don't choke me.

That's scary.

It is scary.

I don't know how some guys are into that.

Like, just go like, oh yeah, you like that?

You're just like, I want to make sure she can still breathe.

How often will we be doing it once we finally do it?

Is five days a week too much?

Five days a week.

Gotta prove it's not too much.

My piece is going to be hurting.

What would be the consequences of us having sex now?

You've had your own trauma with all that and I wouldn't want to have you go through all that again.

We could have a kid when we're not ready to have a kid.

God could punish us and not give us like the strongest relationship that we want to have.

We just wouldn't be as like emotionally like connected as we want to be.

We would want to make sure that we're like, we really like each other for who each other is and not just because like we have that like physical like connection.

So those are three big consequences and that's why I don't want to do it.

What would we do if we got pregnant?

I'm really not ready for a kid yet.

Yeah.

I wouldn't want to go through childbirth to give it up for adoption.

So if I found out like really early, I would probably just take the pill that like deletes that.

That's understandably what we'd have to do.

That's okay.

If I got pregnant, what would we do?

I don't know what you would do.

We've talked about it.

I would, if I'm man enough to be inside of you, I'm man enough to, you know, take care of the child as well too.

Yeah.

I feel like if it happened, like I would keep my baby.

So right as of now, we would try to be together and take care of it and figure it out.

Last one.

All right.

Got this.

Do you think I'm the one?

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

I think you're the one too.

Undoubtedly.

Like who else am I going to do Legos with or make up fake gossip with?

Absolutely.

He's my best friend.

Do you think I'm the one?

Yes.

I think that you have all the qualities that I've been looking for.

So I'm excited to see what the future holds for him.

Do you think I'm the one?

I do think.

If you were to put a timeline on it, when do you think it would happen?

Maybe like a year, probably after you're moved out.

Cause I would prefer not to do it in your childhood bed.

Yeah.

I would prefer not to do that with a Wario watching us.

Thank you.

Yeah.

Yeah.

He's got a Wario poster.

I do.

That's why you turn the lights off, isn't it?

I mean, yeah, a little bit.