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  • Today we examine the astonishing parallel lives of separated twins.

  • Let's talk about that.

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  • Good Mythical Morning!

  • - In our high school, there were-- - (yelling) Harnett Central!

  • a set of identical twins, Josh and Joey Smith. Friends of ours.

  • I always felt bad for them when it came to playing soccer.

  • We were on the same soccer team. When we were sophomores,

  • we all sat on the bench, and at certain points,

  • - Coach Brandle would put us in. - I remember.

  • He would put the Smith Twins in as a unit every time.

  • - He would say, "Smithereens!" - Mmhmm.

  • And then they would both stand up and they would go into

  • left fullback and right fullback.

  • And then he would take them out of the game-- "Smithereens!"--

  • - at the same time. - But they got a cool nickname.

  • Like superheroes.

  • But they were never treated as individuals.

  • - That's a problem. - So I felt bad.

  • You know, I always think, I'm pretty sure twins want to be treated as individuals.

  • - You can safely say that. - But my question is, if twins

  • were individuals, let's say they didn't know that the other one ever existed,

  • Oh, intriguing.

  • Would they actually have expressed individualism,

  • or lead weird parallel lives of anti-individualism?

  • I think I'm gonna say both, because we've got some evidence of that, Link.

  • We're gonna be exploring some twins that met later in life as adults and had

  • - some incredible, incredible parallels. - Okay.

  • I don't think it means that they weren't individuals, just so you know.

  • I just think it means it's pretty crazy, when you're the same genetically,

  • what ends up happening.

  • Genetic clones.

  • Let's start with Paula Bernstein and Elyse Schein.

  • (Link) Okay.

  • They didn't meet until they were 35 years old

  • and through a certain set of circumstances they learned that they had actually been

  • the subjects of an experiment where they were separated at birth

  • - for scientific purposes. - What?

  • This seems like sci-fi,

  • but there was actually a study that was later basically covered up.

  • Yeah, that can't... that doesn't sound right. That can't be legal.

  • Well, I think what happened was...

  • I don't know the specifics of the circumstance, but there was probably

  • an adoptive mother that was giving up kids and they were like, "Hey, let's go and

  • talk to these adoption agencies and let's track these kids and see...

  • They're not gonna know about each other.

  • But it seems like there's some ethical questions involved.

  • Clearly. And that's the reason why this was never found until 35 years later.

  • It was actually stashed away in a Yale University archive, but it was found.

  • The guys who did the study were ashamed of it.

  • They didn't want to release it because they knew they'd be criticized.

  • But when they finally met, they found out some incredible things, like

  • they both had edited their high school newspaper,

  • they both had studied film in college, they both became writers,

  • and then they wrote a book together called "Identical Strangers."

  • But they wrote the book together after being reunited.

  • They weren't both independently writing.

  • They both started independently writing a book called-- No, that didn't happen.

  • Once they met each other, they had so many amazing parallels they said,

  • "Hey, let's write a book together. We're both authors, let's do it!"

  • I don't know that you need to be perpetuating

  • the facts of their parallelism, given the way that the whole thing started.

  • - I think we should move on. (laughs) - (laughs) Okay. Not a problem.

  • All right, I got Emilie Falk and Lin Backman.

  • Twin sisters born in Indonesia, separated at birth.

  • Here's the first weird thing: They were both adopted by families in Sweden.

  • Those Swedish people love adoption. I've always said that.

  • They were both taken back to Sweden. At almost the age of 30,

  • they were reunited thanks to Facebook and some other cross-referencing.

  • Here's a thing that they found out: They lived their 30 years of life

  • Within 25 miles / 40 kilometers of each other in the southern part of Sweden.

  • They probably shopped at the same Walmart, whatever the Swedish Walmart is.

  • Crossed paths. Just think about crossing paths shopping. You think you're going

  • - in front of a mirror, but it-- - Yeah. Ikea.

  • - but wearing a different outfit. - That's me at Ikea, but it's not me-ah.

  • They also were both teachers; they got married on the same day.

  • - Naw. - One year apart.

  • - Still pretty awesome. - But! One year apart, same day,

  • they danced to the same wedding song, "You and Me" by Lifehouse.

  • (singing) You and me and all of the twins who don't know they exist

  • - and can't take their eyes off of you... - Okay, that's enough. (laughs)

  • Funny thing was, that was my wedding song as well.

  • - Yeah! And mine and we're not even twins. - And yours.

  • Yep, everybody's.

  • Okay, those are pretty interesting, but they're not exactly shocking

  • like Barbara Herbert and Daphne Goodship.

  • They were twins of a Finnish student.

  • If it was Herbert Barbara, that'd be a man.

  • Yeah, Herbert Barbara. It's not, though, thankfully. It's two women.

  • - Typically Barbara is a woman. - It's a Barbara Herbert.

  • They were born in Finland. They were both adopted by different families in London.

  • They didn't meet until 40 years later when Barbara convinced adoption officials

  • - to basically release these records - Okay.

  • so she could meet her sister. They showed up at a train station to meet

  • and they were both wearing a beige dress and a brown velvet jacket.

  • Wow.

  • That's a pretty specific outfit to show up in, but it gets weirder from there.

  • They discovered that they both fell down stairs at 15 years old

  • and weakened their ankles. So they didn't just fall down, but they both

  • weakened their ankles. "Yeah, I remember my ankle getting weakened from that fall."

  • - Okay. - They met their future husbands at age 16

  • at town dances. They both had a miscarriage in the same year,

  • followed by 2 boys and then a girl in that order.

  • So their reproductive tracts were in sync.

  • Exactly. They both drank their coffee cold, and they also cooked the same meal

  • from the same recipe book on the same day without knowing it.

  • I don't know how they discovered that. But finally, the most amazing thing:

  • They had a habit of pushing up their nose with the palm of their hands

  • and they independently said that this was called "squidging."

  • Well first of all, who pushes up their nose with the palm of their hand at all,

  • Barbara and Daphne do!

  • And then who, when they do that, calls it "squidging?"

  • Barbara and Daphne do, Link! They're squidgers!

  • - Squidge! Squidge! - You've never squidged?

  • - No! - That's the new thing, man.

  • We gotta-- Squidge! Squidge! -- bring it back.

  • Sometimes I push on the side--

  • Listen, I'll push on the side and my nose will pop. (nose pops)

  • - Did you hear that? - What do you call that?

  • - Squidging. - (laughs) You call that squidging?

  • - I do! I do! - Me too!

  • All right, I got one more. This is my favorite, guys.

  • James Edward Lewis and his long-lost identical twin brother,

  • - James Arthur Springer. - Same name.

  • - Both put up, put up (stutters) - (mimicking Link)

  • ... put up for adoption in Ohio. They were each told that they were a twin,

  • - but that the other twin was dead. - That's mean.

  • Then they were both named the same thing by their parents: James.

  • - James. - But they found out 39 years later

  • that the other one existed. These are the amazing parallels that they discovered:

  • They both chain smoke, both like beer,

  • both have woodworking shops in their garage. Both drive Chevys.

  • This is just men at this point. "We're men."

  • (laughs) Both have high blood pressure, that's genetic, obviously.

  • - Both had undergone vasectomies. - That's genetic too.

  • Both suffered from migraine headaches while undergoing vasectomies, I dunno...

  • - (laughs) - Both had actually vacationed on

  • the same beach in the Florida Gulf Coast. Again, what if they were, like,

  • in their speedos, like, "Hey! It's me! No it's not! It's what? Huh?"

  • "Hey, what's your name? Jim? My name? Am I mirror? What's happening?"

  • - Yeah, mirror. - All right, they were both married twice.

  • - Okay. - First they were married to Linda.

  • - The same lady? - No, a different Linda, but both Lindas.

  • They were both married to a Linda.

  • Yeah, and then they divorced their Lindas and they both got married to Bettys.

  • - Okay, and this happened before they met. - Yes. (laughs)

  • It wasn't like they met and said, "Let's get with a Linda and then a Betty!"

  • - Yes. - "'Cause I heard that's fun!"

  • They both had children, including sons named James Alan.

  • - They both named their sons James Alan. - This is weird.

  • - They both owned dogs... - That's phenomenal!

  • - ... named Toy. - Toy?

  • - They both named their dog Toy. - I've never known a dog named Toy,

  • let alone two independently named twin dogs.

  • - Squidge it! - That's squidging crazy!

  • (laughs) And this will blow your mind: They both worked in the sheriff's office

  • - as sheriff's deputies. - In the K-9 department. With... no.

  • It is interesting. You think about the teachers, sheriff's deputies,

  • both want to be writers... You know, there's certain things

  • that you can understand, you got high blood pressure,

  • but wanting to have the same career path, that's a little astonishing.

  • And then nicknaming things the same thing.

  • It just goes to show you, not to get scientific here, but when your genetics

  • are exactly the same, the expression of those genetics, in some cases,

  • will be strikingly similar. Down to naming a dog Toy?

  • Who even does that, besides James and James?

  • If you're a long-lost twin, let us know in the comments what you think.

  • And I would recommend reading the psychologytoday.com article

  • where we read a lot of these things. A very fascinating article which explores

  • a lot more of the questions associated with this nature/nurture thing

  • if you're into it. Link in the description.

  • - Thanks for liking and commenting. - You know what time it is.

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  • Click through to Good Mythical More where we explain our awkward interactions

  • over the years with identical twins and the trouble that ensues.

  • (Rhett) Flying but can't figure out how to stop.

  • (wind sounds)

  • You know, I'm having a great time with you.

  • - Yeah, amazing. (wind sounds) - But there's a problem.

  • - What, what, what? (wind sounds) - I don't know how we stop.

  • - Me neither. - Where's the off switch?

  • - I don't know, man. - (laughs)

  • Maybe if you stopped flapping your wings and I just...

  • Nope, now I'm just gliding. Now I'm just gliding 'cause we hit an air pocket.

  • What do you call it? A thermal. Because we're birds.

  • [Captioned by Caitrin: GMM Captioning Team]

Today we examine the astonishing parallel lives of separated twins.

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