someone all the tongue you got. That's great for sex, but not tongue exactly. Feelings,

you want to give them all the feelings you have. Anyway, French kissing is a little bit

about moderation and working up to a nice big frenchy frenchy tonguey kiss.

So when you first go to French kiss someone, you don't want to just shove that tongue up

in there. You want to build up to it, because like I always say the definition of pleasure

is not getting what you want right away. So you want to build up a delicious little crescendo

and then enjoy the fruits of your labor.

So ladies, let the man be in the driver's seat when you guys kiss. Don't just shove

your tongue up in there. And even if that's what he does, don't feel like you have to

like sword fight him in your mouth. You can take a more submissive approach and hopefully

he'll get the hint. Let's see.

So if you guys are wondering exactly when to introduce the tongue in the whole kissing

scenario, here's my advice: when lips meet lips, count to four, so one, two, three, four,

then open your mouth and count to another like one, two, three, four, and then move

the tongue. So it's a bunch of four counts. If you guys are dancers and you know how that

works, sort of have in your head, it doesn't have to be right on beat. This isn't who wants

to be America's Next dance, I don't know. But just sort of like count in your head so

that you don't thrust your tongue into someone's mouth too soon.

Do yourself a favor, don't count out loud. That is weird.

No.

You don't want to do like one, two, three, four.

Because it's hard to kiss and count.

Yeah.

I tried it, so many times. So we're going to demonstrate and you're going to watch my

fingers and you're going to see the actual counts of when this happens, and this is just

is just a rough guide for you guys.

See, that took quite a few four counts before we were like in frenchy territory.

Yeah, it's not about getting in there quickly. It's about slowly...

It's about the journey.

... slow...

It's about the journey.