In this lesson we’ll learn how to use ‘either’ and ‘neither’ in a conversation without getting confused.

People often get confused with ‘either’ and ‘neither’ while speaking in English.

The first thing is to know the basic difference between the two for better understanding.

That’s right, June. Basically, ‘either’ is used to offer a choice between two possibilities.

Whereas, ‘neither’ is similar to ‘not’ or ‘nor’. It excludes an idea or option.

That’s absolutely correct, Troy. For example: ‘We should bring either coffee or tea.’

Here the speaker is making a choice between coffee and tea.

Here’s an example of neither: ‘He speaks neither English nor French.’

This denotes that the speaker is talking about a third person who cannot speak English or French.

That’s right. ‘Either’ can also be used to denote possibilities.

For example: I don't think either Mike or Lisa will be there.

‘Neither’ can also be used to start a sentence or answer a question. For example: Neither one of them is ready.

You must notice that ‘either’ is used when the verb is in the negative. For example: He doesn't want either of those balls.

Yes, June. Remember that ‘neither’ is used to exclude an idea, object, or opinion. For example:

If you don't do it yourself, no one will help you.

Neither would I. (I exclude myself from the list of people who will help you).

Let’s see some sample conversations.

Let’s eat out this evening.

Where do you want to go?

I’ve heard there are two new restaurants in town. We can go to either of them.

Okay. But...are you sure about the food quality?

Our neighbors told me that the food in both restaurants is equally good.

I don’t think they have been to either of the restaurants yet.

How does that matter? Let’s go and check for ourselves.

Who was the girl you were talking to in the cafeteria?

She was my classmate in school.

Is your friend British or American?

Neither. She’s Australian.

Is she new in New York?

Don't know. I neither asked nor she told me.

We should bring either coffee or tea.

He speaks neither English nor French.

I don't think either Mike or Lisa will be there.

He doesn't want either of those balls.

We can go to either of them.

I don’t think they have been to either of the restaurants yet.

I neither asked nor she told me.