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  • The President: Thank you.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Thank you, President Spar, trustees, President Bollinger.

  • Hello, Class of 2012!

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Congratulations on reaching this day.

  • Thank you for the honor of being able to be a part of it.

  • There are so many people who are proud of you --

  • your parents, family, faculty, friends --

  • all who share in this achievement.

  • So please give them a big round of applause.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • To all the moms who are here today,

  • you could not ask for a better Mother's Day gift than to see

  • all of these folks graduate.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • I have to say, though, whenever I come to these things,

  • I start thinking about Malia and Sasha graduating,

  • and I start tearing up and --

  • (laughter)

  • -- it's terrible.

  • I don't know how you guys are holding it together.

  • (laughter)

  • I will begin by telling a hard truth: I'm a Columbia

  • college graduate.

  • (laughter and applause)

  • I know there can be a little bit of a sibling rivalry here.

  • (laughter)

  • But I'm honored nevertheless to be your commencement speaker

  • today -- although I've got to say,

  • you set a pretty high bar given the past three years.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Hillary Clinton, Meryl Streep --

  • (cheers and applause)

  • -- Sheryl Sandberg -- these are not easy acts to follow.

  • (applause)

  • But I will point out Hillary is doing an extraordinary job as

  • one of the finest Secretaries of State America has ever had.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • We gave Meryl the Presidential Medal of Arts and Humanities.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Sheryl is not just a good friend;

  • she's also one of our economic advisers.

  • So it's like the old saying goes --

  • keep your friends close, and your Barnard commencement

  • speakers even closer.

  • (laughter, cheers and applause)

  • There's wisdom in that.

  • (laughter)

  • Now, the year I graduated -- this area looks familiar --

  • (laughter)

  • -- the year I graduated was 1983,

  • the first year women were admitted to Columbia.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Sally Ride was the first American woman in space.

  • Music was all about Michael and the Moonwalk.

  • (laughter)

  • Audience Member: Do it!

  • The President: We had the Walkman --

  • (laughter, cheers and applause)

  • The President: No.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • No Moonwalking.

  • (laughter)

  • No Moonwalking today.

  • (laughter)

  • We had the Walkman, not iPods.

  • Some of the streets around here were not quite so inviting.

  • (laughter)

  • Times Square was not a family destination.

  • (laughter)

  • So I know this is all ancient history.

  • Nothing worse than commencement speakers droning on about

  • bygone days.

  • (laughter)

  • But for all the differences, the Class of 1983 actually had a lot

  • in common with all of you.

  • For we, too, were heading out into a world at a moment when

  • our country was still recovering from a particularly severe

  • economic recession.

  • It was a time of change.

  • It was a time of uncertainty.

  • It was a time of passionate political debates.

  • You can relate to this because just as you were starting out

  • finding your way around this campus,

  • an economic crisis struck that would claim more than 5 million

  • jobs before the end of your freshman year.

  • Since then, some of you have probably seen parents put off

  • retirement, friends struggle to find work.

  • And you may be looking toward the future with that same sense

  • of concern that my generation did when we were sitting where

  • you are now.

  • Of course, as young women, you're also going to grapple

  • with some unique challenges, like whether you'll be able to

  • earn equal pay for equal work; whether you'll be able to

  • balance the demands of your job and your family;

  • whether you'll be able to fully control decisions about

  • your own health.

  • And while opportunities for women have grown exponentially

  • over the last 30 years, as young people,

  • in many ways you have it even tougher than we did.

  • This recession has been more brutal, the job losses steeper.

  • Politics seems nastier.

  • Congress more gridlocked than ever.

  • Some folks in the financial world have not exactly been

  • model corporate citizens.

  • (laughter)

  • No wonder that faith in our institutions has never been

  • lower, particularly when good news doesn't get the same kind

  • of ratings as bad news anymore.

  • Every day you receive a steady stream of sensationalism and

  • scandal and stories with a message that suggest change

  • isn't possible; that you can't make a difference;

  • that you won't be able to close that gap between life as it is

  • and life as you want it to be.

  • My job today is to tell you don't believe it.

  • Because as tough as things have been,

  • I am convinced you are tougher.

  • I've seen your passion and I've seen your service.

  • I've seen you engage and I've seen you turn out in

  • record numbers.

  • I've heard your voices amplified by creativity and a digital

  • fluency that those of us in older generations can

  • barely comprehend.

  • I've seen a generation eager, impatient even,

  • to step into the rushing waters of history and

  • change its course.

  • And that defiant, can-do spirit is what runs through the veins

  • of American history.

  • It's the lifeblood of all our progress.

  • And it is that spirit which we need your generation to embrace

  • and rekindle right now.

  • See, the question is not whether things will get better --

  • they always do.

  • The question is not whether we've got the solutions to our

  • challenges -- we've had them within our grasp for

  • quite some time.

  • We know, for example, that this country would be better off if

  • more Americans were able to get the kind of education that

  • you've received here at Barnard --

  • (cheers and applause)

  • -- if more people could get the specific skills and training

  • that employers are looking for today.

  • We know that we'd all be better off if we invest in science and

  • technology that sparks new businesses and medical

  • breakthroughs; if we developed more clean energy so we could

  • use less foreign oil and reduce the carbon pollution that's

  • threatening our planet.

  • (applause)

  • We know that we're better off when there are rules that stop

  • big banks from making bad bets with other people's

  • money when --

  • (applause)

  • -- when insurance companies aren't allowed to drop your

  • coverage when you need it most or charge women

  • differently from men.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Indeed, we know we are better off when women are treated

  • fairly and equally in every aspect of American life --

  • whether it's the salary you earn or the health

  • decisions you make.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • We know these things to be true.

  • We know that our challenges are eminently solvable.

  • The question is whether together,

  • we can muster the will -- in our own lives,

  • in our common institutions, in our politics --

  • to bring about the changes we need.

  • And I'm convinced your generation possesses that will.

  • And I believe that the women of this generation --

  • that all of you will help lead the way.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Now, I recognize that's a cheap applause line when you're giving

  • a commencement at Barnard.

  • It's the easy thing to say.

  • But it's true.

  • It is -- in part, it is simple math.

  • Today, women are not just half this country;

  • you're half its workforce.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • More and more women are out-earning their husbands.

  • You're more than half of our college graduates,

  • and master's graduates, and PhDs.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • So you've got us outnumbered.

  • (laughter)

  • After decades of slow, steady, extraordinary progress,

  • you are now poised to make this the century where women shape

  • not only their own destiny but the destiny of this nation and

  • of this world.

  • But how far your leadership takes this country,

  • how far it takes this world -- well, that will be up to you.

  • You've got to want it.

  • It will not be handed to you.

  • And as someone who wants that future --

  • that better future -- for you, and for Malia and Sasha,

  • as somebody who's had the good fortune of being the husband and

  • the father and the son of some strong, remarkable women,

  • allow me to offer just a few pieces of advice.

  • That's obligatory.

  • (laughter)

  • Bear with me.

  • My first piece of advice is this: Don't just get involved.

  • Fight for your seat at the table.

  • Better yet, fight for a seat at the head of the table.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • It's been said that the most important role in our democracy

  • is the role of citizen.

  • And indeed, it was 225 years ago today that the Constitutional

  • Convention opened in Philadelphia, and our founders,

  • citizens all, began crafting an extraordinary document.

  • Yes, it had its flaws -- flaws that this nation has strived to

  • perfect over time.

  • Questions of race and gender were unresolved.

  • No woman's signature graced the original document --

  • although we can assume that there were founding mothers

  • whispering smarter things in the ears of the founding fathers.

  • (laughter, cheers and applause)

  • I mean, that's almost certain.

  • What made this document special was that it provided the space

  • -- the possibility -- for those who had been left out of our

  • charter to fight their way in.

  • It provided people the language to appeal to principles and

  • ideals that broadened democracy's reach.

  • It allowed for protest, and movements,

  • and the dissemination of new ideas that would repeatedly,

  • decade after decade, change the world --

  • a constant forward movement that continues to this day.

  • Our founders understood that America does not stand still;

  • we are dynamic, not static.

  • We look forward, not back.

  • And now that new doors have been opened for you,

  • you've got an obligation to seize those opportunities.

  • You need to do this not just for yourself but for those who don't

  • yet enjoy the choices that you've had,

  • the choices you will have.

  • And one reason many workplaces still have outdated policies is

  • because women only account for 3% of the CEOs at Fortune

  • 500 companies.

  • One reason we're actually refighting long-settled battles

  • over women's rights is because women occupy fewer than one in

  • five seats in Congress.

  • Now, I'm not saying that the only way to achieve success is

  • by climbing to the top of the corporate ladder or running for

  • office -- although, let's face it,

  • Congress would get a lot more done if you did.

  • (laughter and applause)

  • That I think we're sure about.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • But if you decide not to sit yourself at the table,

  • at the very least you've got to make sure you have a say

  • in who does.

  • It matters.

  • Before women like Barbara Mikulski and Olympia Snowe and

  • others got to Congress, just to take one example,

  • much of federally-funded research on diseases focused

  • solely on their effects on men.

  • It wasn't until women like Patsy Mink and Edith Green got to

  • Congress and passed Title IX, 40 years ago this year,

  • that we declared women, too, should be allowed to compete and

  • win on America's playing fields.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Until a woman named Lilly Ledbetter showed up at her

  • office and had the courage to step up and say, you know what,

  • this isn't right, women aren't being treated fairly --

  • we lacked some of the tools we needed to uphold the basic

  • principle of equal pay for equal work.

  • So don't accept somebody else's construction of the way things

  • ought to be.

  • It's up to you to right wrongs.

  • It's up to you to point out injustice.

  • It's up to you to hold the system accountable and sometimes

  • upend it entirely.

  • It's up to you to stand up and to be heard,

  • to write and to lobby, to march, to organize, to vote.

  • Don't be content to just sit back and watch.

  • Those who oppose change, those who benefit from an unjust

  • status quo, have always bet on the public's cynicism or the

  • public's complacency.

  • Throughout American history, though, they have lost that bet,

  • and I believe they will this time as well.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • But ultimately, Class of 2012, that will depend on you.

  • Don't wait for the person next to you to be the first to speak

  • up for what's right.

  • Because maybe, just maybe, they're waiting on you.

  • Which brings me to my second piece of advice:

  • Never underestimate the power of your example.

  • The very fact that you are graduating,

  • let alone that more women now graduate from college than men,

  • is only possible because earlier generations of women --

  • your mothers, your grandmothers, your aunts --

  • shattered the myth that you couldn't or shouldn't be

  • where you are.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • I think of a friend of mine who's the daughter

  • of immigrants.

  • When she was in high school, her guidance counselor told her,

  • you know what, you're just not college material.

  • You should think about becoming a secretary.

  • Well, she was stubborn, so she went to college anyway.

  • She got her master's.

  • She ran for local office, won.

  • She ran for state office, she won.

  • She ran for Congress, she won.

  • And lo and behold, Hilda Solis did end up becoming

  • a secretary --

  • (laughter)

  • -- she is America's Secretary of Labor.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • So think about what that means to a young Latina girl when she

  • sees a Cabinet secretary that looks like her.

  • Think about what it means to a young girl in Iowa when she sees

  • a presidential candidate who looks like her.

  • Think about what it means to a young girl walking in Harlem

  • right down the street when she sees a U.N. ambassador who

  • looks like her.

  • Do not underestimate the power of your example.

  • This diploma opens up new possibilities, so reach back,

  • convince a young girl to earn one, too.

  • If you earned your degree in areas where we need more women

  • -- like computer science or engineering --

  • (cheers and applause)

  • -- reach back and persuade another student to

  • study it, too.

  • If you're going into fields where we need more women,

  • like construction or computer engineering --

  • reach back, hire someone new.

  • Be a mentor.

  • Be a role model.

  • Until a girl can imagine herself,

  • can picture herself as a computer programmer,

  • or a combatant commander, she won't become one.

  • Until there are women who tell her,

  • ignore our pop culture obsession over beauty and fashion --

  • (cheers and applause)

  • -- and focus instead on studying and inventing and competing and

  • leading, she'll think those are the only things that girls are

  • supposed to care about.

  • Now, Michelle will say, nothing wrong with caring about it a

  • little bit.

  • (laughter)

  • You can be stylish and powerful, too.

  • (laughter, cheers and applause)

  • That's Michelle's advice.

  • (laughter, cheers and applause)

  • And never forget that the most important example a young girl

  • will ever follow is that of a parent.

  • Malia and Sasha are going to be outstanding women because

  • Michelle and Marian Robinson are outstanding women.

  • So understand your power, and use it wisely.

  • My last piece of advice -- this is simple,

  • but perhaps most important: Persevere.

  • Persevere.

  • Nothing worthwhile is easy.

  • No one of achievement has avoided failure --

  • sometimes catastrophic failures.

  • But they keep at it.

  • They learn from mistakes.

  • They don't quit.

  • You know, when I first arrived on this campus,

  • it was with little money, fewer options.

  • But it was here that I tried to find my place in this world.

  • I knew I wanted to make a difference,

  • but it was vague how in fact I'd go about it.

  • (laughter)

  • But I wanted to do my part to do my part to shape a better world.

  • So even as I worked after graduation in a few unfulfilling

  • jobs here in New York -- I will not list them all --

  • (laughter)

  • -- even as I went from motley apartment to motley apartment,

  • I reached out.

  • I started to write letters to community organizations all

  • across the country.

  • And one day, a small group of churches on the South Side of

  • Chicago answered, offering me work with people in

  • neighborhoods hit hard by steel mills that were shutting down

  • and communities where jobs were dying away.

  • The community had been plagued by gang violence,

  • so once I arrived, one of the first things we tried to do was

  • to mobilize a meeting with community leaders to

  • deal with gangs.

  • And I'd worked for weeks on this project.

  • We invited the police; we made phone calls;

  • we went to churches; we passed out flyers.

  • The night of the meeting we arranged rows and rows of chairs

  • in anticipation of this crowd.

  • And we waited, and we waited.

  • And finally, a group of older folks walked in to the hall and

  • they sat down.

  • And this little old lady raised her hand and asked,

  • "Is this where the bingo game is?"

  • (laughter)

  • It was a disaster.

  • Nobody showed up.

  • My first big community meeting -- nobody showed up.

  • And later, the volunteers I worked with told me, that's it;

  • we're quitting.

  • They'd been doing this for two years even before I had arrived.

  • They had nothing to show for it.

  • And I'll be honest, I felt pretty discouraged as well.

  • I didn't know what I was doing.

  • I thought about quitting.

  • And as we were talking, I looked outside and saw some young boys

  • playing in a vacant lot across the street.

  • And they were just throwing rocks up at a boarded building.

  • They had nothing better to do -- late at night,

  • just throwing rocks.

  • And I said to the volunteers, "Before you quit,

  • answer one question.

  • What will happen to those boys if you quit?

  • Who will fight for them if we don't?

  • Who will give them a fair shot if we leave?

  • And one by one, the volunteers decided not to quit.

  • We went back to those neighborhoods and we kept at it.

  • We registered new voters, and we set up after-school programs,

  • and we fought for new jobs, and helped people live lives with

  • some measure of dignity.

  • And we sustained ourselves with those small victories.

  • We didn't set the world on fire.

  • Some of those communities are still very poor.

  • There are still a lot of gangs out there.

  • But I believe that it was those small victories that helped me

  • win the bigger victories of my last three and a half years

  • as President.

  • And I wish I could say that this perseverance came from some

  • innate toughness in me.

  • But the truth is, it was learned.

  • I got it from watching the people who raised me.

  • More specifically, I got it from watching the women who

  • shaped my life.

  • I grew up as the son of a single mom who struggled to put herself

  • through school and make ends meet.

  • She had marriages that fell apart;

  • even went on food stamps at one point to help us get by.

  • But she didn't quit.

  • And she earned her degree, and made sure that through

  • scholarships and hard work, my sister and I earned ours.

  • She used to wake me up when we were living overseas --

  • wake me up before dawn to study my English lessons.

  • And when I'd complain, she'd just look at me and say,

  • "This is no picnic for me either, buster."

  • (laughter)

  • And my mom ended up dedicating herself to helping women around

  • the world access the money they needed to start their own

  • businesses -- she was an early pioneer in microfinance.

  • And that meant, though, that she was gone a lot,

  • and she had her own struggles trying to figure out balancing

  • motherhood and a career.

  • And when she was gone, my grandmother stepped up to take

  • care of me.

  • She only had a high school education.

  • She got a job at a local bank.

  • She hit the glass ceiling, and watched men she once trained

  • promoted up the ladder ahead of her.

  • But she didn't quit.

  • Rather than grow hard or angry each time she got passed over,

  • she kept doing her job as best as she knew how,

  • and ultimately ended up being vice president at the bank.

  • She didn't quit.

  • And later on, I met a woman who was assigned to advise me on my

  • first summer job at a law firm.

  • And she gave me such good advice that I married her.

  • (laughter)

  • And Michelle and I gave everything we had to balance our

  • careers and a young family.

  • But let's face it, no matter how enlightened I must have thought

  • myself to be, it often fell more on her shoulders when I was

  • traveling, when I was away.

  • I know that when she was with our girls,

  • she'd feel guilty that she wasn't giving enough time to her

  • work, and when she was at her work,

  • she'd feel guilty she wasn't giving enough time to our girls.

  • And both of us wished we had some superpower that would let

  • us be in two places at once.

  • But we persisted.

  • We made that marriage work.

  • And the reason Michelle had the strength to juggle everything,

  • and put up with me and eventually the public spotlight,

  • was because she, too, came from a family of folks who didn't

  • quit -- because she saw her dad get up and go to work every day

  • even though he never finished college,

  • even though he had crippling MS. She saw her mother,

  • even though she never finished college, in that school,

  • that urban school, every day making sure Michelle and her

  • brother were getting the education they deserved.

  • Michelle saw how her parents never quit.

  • They never indulged in self-pity,

  • no matter how stacked the odds were against them.

  • They didn't quit.

  • Those are the folks who inspire me.

  • People ask me sometimes, who inspires you, Mr. President?

  • Those quiet heroes all across this country --

  • some of your parents and grandparents who are sitting

  • here -- no fanfare, no articles written about them,

  • they just persevere.

  • They just do their jobs.

  • They meet their responsibilities.

  • They don't quit.

  • I'm only here because of them.

  • They may not have set out to change the world, but in small,

  • important ways, they did.

  • They certainly changed mine.

  • So whether it's starting a business, or running for office,

  • or raising a amazing family, remember that making your mark

  • on the world is hard.

  • It takes patience.

  • It takes commitment.

  • It comes with plenty of setbacks and it comes with plenty

  • of failures.

  • But whenever you feel that creeping cynicism,

  • whenever you hear those voices say you can't make a difference,

  • whenever somebody tells you to set your sights lower --

  • the trajectory of this country should give you hope.

  • Previous generations should give you hope.

  • What young generations have done before should give you hope.

  • Young folks who marched and mobilized and stood up and sat

  • in, from Seneca Falls to Selma to Stonewall,

  • didn't just do it for themselves;

  • they did it for other people.

  • That's how we achieved women's rights.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • That's how we achieved voting rights.

  • That's how we achieved workers' rights.

  • That's how we achieved gay rights.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • That's how we've made this Union more perfect.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • And if you're willing to do your part now,

  • if you're willing to reach up and close that gap between what

  • America is and what America should be,

  • I want you to know that I will be right there with you.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • If you are ready to fight for that brilliant,

  • radically simple idea of America that no matter who you are or

  • what you look like, no matter who you love or what God you

  • worship, you can still pursue your own happiness,

  • I will join you every step of the way.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • Now more than ever -- now more than ever,

  • America needs what you, the Class of 2012, has to offer.

  • America needs you to reach high and hope deeply.

  • And if you fight for your seat at the table,

  • and you set a better example, and you persevere in what you

  • decide to do with your life, I have every faith not only that

  • you will succeed, but that, through you,

  • our nation will continue to be a beacon of light for men and

  • women, boys and girls, in every corner of the globe.

  • So thank you.

  • Congratulations.

  • (cheers and applause)

  • God bless you.

  • God bless the United States of America.

  • (cheers and applause)

The President: Thank you.

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