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Love Is Authentic Only When it Gives Freedom

真誠的愛在於給予自由

Love is authentic only

真誠的愛在於給予

when it gives freedom.

自由。

Let this be the criterion.

以此奉為規臬

Love is

愛是

true only

真實的

when it does not interfere in the privacy of the other person.

只有在它不干預他人的私領域時才算.

It respects

它是去尊重

his individuality,

他的個別性

his privacy.

他的隱私

But the lovers that you see around the world,

但你放眼看見世間的愛人們

their whole effort is

他們所有的努力在於

that nothing should be private;

無所隱私

all secrets should be told to them.

所有的秘密都要被公開

They are afraid

他們深恐

of individuality;

所謂的個別化

they destroy each other's individuality,

他們踐蹋彼此的個別性

and they hope

而他們期望

that by destroying each other,

經由踐踏彼此

their lives will become

他們的生命得以變成

a contentment, a fulfillment.

一種滿足感，成就感.

They simply become more and more miserable.

他們只會變得越來越痛苦.

Be loving,

此愛,

and remember: anything real

並銘記於心: 任何真實的事物

is always changing.

永遠都在變化.

You have been given wrong notions

你們都被灌輸了錯誤的觀念

that

那就是

a true love

真愛

remains forever.

永遠長存.

A true rose flower does not remain forever.

一朵真的玫瑰花兒不會永遠長存

A living being himself

一個活生生的人自己

has to die one day.

有一天不得不死.

Existence is

存在就是

a constant change.

一個永續的變化

But the notion,

但一般的,

the idea

觀念，想法

that love should be permanent if it is true...

卻是如果是真愛就應該是永恆的...

and if love disappears one day,

而如果有一天愛消逝無蹤了,

then the natural corollary is that it was not true.

那麼自然的推演就說這不是真愛.

I want you to know;

我要你們明白

love came suddenly;

愛來得突然；

it was not because of any effort on your part.

不是因為你任何的努力而來的.

It came as a gift of nature.

它像是天上掉下來的禮物.

At that time you would not have accepted it

在當下你不會去接受它

if you had been worried

如果你曾擔憂

about its going suddenly one day.

有一天它會突然地離去.

The way it comes, it goes.

愛怎麼來, 就會怎麼離去.

But there is no need to be worried,

但無需擔憂,

because if one flower has faded,

因為如果一朵花兒凋零了,

other flowers will be coming.

其它的花兒就會來到.

Flowers are

花兒們

going to come

永遠都會

forever,

到來，

but don't cling

但是不要執著於

to one flower.

一朵花兒

Otherwise soon you will be clinging to a dead flower,

不然, 很快地你就會緊抓著一朵凋零的花,

and that's what

然而

the reality is:

真相是:

people are clinging

世人緊抓著

to a dead love

一份逝去的愛

that once was alive.

它雖曾經是鮮活的.

Now it is only a memory

現在它只是一段回憶

and a pain

和一個痛

and you are stuck

而你卻被卡住

because of respectability,

由於責任感

because of law.

由於法律規定.

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