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  • Well, hello everyone!

  • My name is Tyler Oakley,

  • and today, I am doing another Q & A,

  • but this day has a twist because I'm going to start doing

  • a lot more Q & As that are subject or theme-oriented.

  • Today's theme is college and universities.

  • So, I went to university a couple of years ago

  • at Michigan State University.

  • And it was an amazing experience,

  • so I felt like I should tell y'all about it.

  • So, let's dig into your questions!

  • Shall we?

  • Connor would like to know,

  • "Was it weird being a YouTuber in college?"

  • Kind of yes, sometimes,

  • when my residents when I was an RA knew about it,

  • that was weird.

  • But, a lot of the times it was really great.

  • I got to meet a lot of people.

  • I got a lot of internships from it.

  • I got some jobs from it.

  • Sometimes, like I said, it was a little awkward

  • when people knew where I lived in the dorms,

  • that was strange.

  • But a lot of it honestly was an uphill battle

  • because at the time nobody knew what YouTube was.

  • There were not that many people

  • that were doing what I was doing.

  • It was brand new.

  • YouTube wasn't really a thing yet.

  • And so, I had to explain it a lot of times.

  • But, I remember one time in specific, that was really cool,

  • and I actually have it with me.

  • I'm such a dork that I still have this.

  • But, my school newspaper at Michigan State

  • did an entire article about me,

  • and they put me right on the front.

  • "Communication sophomore Tyler Oakley video-blogs,

  • also known as vlogging on youtube.com.

  • It was just cool because it was the first time

  • that there was a publication

  • that recognized what I was doing

  • and was curious about it and wanted to know more,

  • but was not judgmental.

  • So, that was awesome!

  • Thank you to The State News for believing in me

  • back in the day when I had nobody believing in me.

  • Another really interesting moment was

  • when I was at a football game,

  • and I heard that there were 75,000 people there.

  • It was completely sold out,

  • and I had just passed 75,000 people

  • that were subscribed to me, so that was insane to me

  • that I could reach all these people

  • and that could fill this entire football stadium.

  • Trinity would like to know was I a nerd or a jock.

  • What do you think (laughs), Trinity?

  • Honestly!

  • The jockiest thing that I did that me and my girlfriend,

  • not my girlfriend, but my girlfriend.

  • We would go over to the gym,

  • and we would stay and do the elliptical right above

  • where all the weights were,

  • and we would just check out guys while we were ellipticaling

  • and doing nothing with our lives (laughs)

  • and just checking out boys.

  • So, that's about as sporty as I got.

  • Christina says, "You've said you have paid

  • "for college all by yourself.

  • "How did you manage that?

  • "And did you take out loans."

  • Yes, I took out loans.

  • I took out a lot of loans,

  • but I also saved up in high school.

  • I had multiple jobs on campus while I was at university.

  • I was a telemarketer.

  • Was an RA, which deducts a lot of costs

  • when it comes to living and food.

  • But yes, I did have to take out loans.

  • And there's nothing wrong about taking out loans,

  • but it just kind of sucks.

  • You can also live from home,

  • or you can also go to community college.

  • A lot of the courses that you need to take for university

  • are going to be so much more cheap at a community college,

  • so you can do that.

  • Or even taking time off

  • between high school and college to save up.

  • There's so much you can do to save money

  • if you don't want to take out loans,

  • but I chose to go straight from high school to college

  • and just work my butt off to make it happen.

  • Maheen would like to know,

  • "Do you recommend buying books brand new

  • "or buying them used?"

  • So, a lot of professors are going to tell you

  • you have to buy books brand new.

  • Usually, you do not.

  • If there's a new edition,

  • it's probably because they changed

  • literally probably a chapter or a page.

  • So, that's usually $150 per book.

  • There's usually three per class.

  • You're usually taking five classes a semester-ish,

  • and you have eight semesters,

  • so you do the math on how much that is going to cost you.

  • It's a lot of money.

  • So, back when I was in college,

  • I would use SlugBooks,

  • and it's basically you get your syllabus,

  • you see the list of books,

  • and it'll show you

  • where you can get those books for the cheapest.

  • So, sometimes it's Amazon, sometimes it's Chegg,

  • sometimes it's..

  • Wherever it will be,

  • it'll show you where you can get those for the cheapest,

  • and that's how I saved so much money.

  • Tuition is bad, but it's the day-to-day books

  • that you have to buy that just eat you alive.

  • There were times when I had $100 in my bank account,

  • and I didn't have the money to go and get the books,

  • so slugbooks.com really helped.

  • Marissa would like to know,

  • "What should a high school student expect

  • "when they're going off to college?"

  • Expect costs.

  • Expect amazing experiences if you let yourself have them.

  • Expect amazing new friends

  • if you let yourself go and meet them.

  • Expect to gain weight.

  • Expect to be poor.

  • Expect to date and hook up

  • and get in trouble for a lot of things

  • that you can possibly do on campus.

  • Expect to put yourself outside of your comfort zone.

  • Breno would like to know,

  • "Tell us about a college sweetheart, if you had one."

  • (laughs) So, oh god...

  • My first boyfriend, I will tell you about,

  • because I just spent New Year's with him.

  • We dated when we were 18, so we were just babies then.

  • It took some time in between us dating

  • for us to finally become friends again.

  • But of course, he's a special person in my heart.

  • So, I went to Chicago for New Year's.

  • I spent some time with him and his new boyfriend,

  • and I don't know what you want me to say.

  • I put up a video on my second channel,

  • youtube.com/extratyler, all about my New Year's,

  • and he's in it.

  • So, you can go check that out,

  • but I'm not going to talk about it here.

  • Taylor would like to know,

  • "What did your dorm room look like?"

  • Most of my videos from when I was in college

  • are still live and public,

  • so if you want to go see what my life was like then,

  • you can go check that out

  • if that's what you wanna do with your night. (laughs)

  • Marissa wants to know,

  • "Was it hard to stay away from food in the Freshman 15?"

  • Yes, but the big culprit is gonna be alcohol.

  • You will gain weight because of alcohol

  • because you're drinking,

  • and that is a lot of calories

  • and you don't think about that

  • when you're consuming a lot of alcohol.

  • I gained some weight.

  • Still working it off.

  • It's fine.

  • Courtney wants to know,

  • what was my "favorite memory as an RA?"

  • So, I was an RA,

  • which is basically you babysit your entire floor.

  • You're in charge of your floor.

  • I was an RA for three years, and all in the same building.

  • I had a co-ed floor every year.

  • And I was the cool RA.

  • I was fun.

  • I was stern.

  • I would write people up,

  • but I was pretty easy-going, go with the flow.

  • I didn't care much about the little things.

  • One of my favorite memories of being an RA,

  • I was on duty, which means you go through the halls

  • and make sure everybody is alive

  • and nobody is crazy or dying or drunk or whatever.

  • Once, we saw a couple of residents

  • with a hamster in the room.

  • And you're not allowed to animals in the dorms.

  • And usually you just say,

  • "Okay, have somebody come pick up your animal

  • "and you're good to go.

  • "You won't get written up."

  • But I was going to mess with these kids (laughs) that night,

  • and I told them, "I'm so sorry about your hamster,

  • "but we have to take it

  • "and throw it down the garbage chute."

  • Just to fuck with them

  • because that's the type of person I am. (laughs)

  • And then, they started crying,

  • so I had to calm the situation before I got in trouble

  • for lying to a resident,

  • but clearly I didn't throw it down the garbage chute.

  • But how funny would that have been?

  • Honestly, I thought it was so funny.

  • Vinny would like to know,

  • "Were you a good boy in college?"

  • (laughs loudly)

  • What do you think?

  • Larsen would like to know,

  • "What was your major in college?"

  • I majored in communication

  • with a specialization in interpersonal communication,

  • focuses in marketing and PR.

  • I also taught, as a TA, public speaking,

  • which was a great opportunity.

  • I got credits for that,

  • and I got to work on my own public speaking skills,

  • which I use all the time now.

  • I go to universities and I talk.

  • I ended up using my degree a lot.

  • I took jobs in social media as soon as I left college.

  • And now, that is my life.

  • Casey wants to know,

  • "What was your first college party like?"

  • Uhh (chuckles), I don't remember.

  • If anything tells you what it was like, I think that's it.

  • Isabelle wants to know,

  • "Did a lot of people judge you in college?"

  • No, yes and no.

  • There's always going to be people that are assholes,

  • but I remember once somebody wrote faggot

  • on my door to my dorm room in Sharpie.

  • That was not a good moment.

  • Hailey wants to know,

  • "What is the best prank you pulled in college?"

  • I did some stuff. (cackles)

  • I was dating this guy once,

  • and we once wrapped every single thing

  • in his room in wrapping paper.

  • And that was funny, literally everything.

  • Every single article of clothing,

  • every single thing on his desk, wrapping paper.

  • So he gets back,

  • and it's a whole shrine of wrapping paper laden things.

  • Alex wants to know,

  • "What was my drunkest memory in college?"

  • One night, my freshman year,

  • I remember my last memory of that night

  • was taking a shot of Popov, which is vodka,

  • disgusting, $4 a liter

  • and then chasing it with Cherry Smirnoff.

  • And that was not a good experience

  • because I woke up the next day with Sharpie all over my face

  • and puke all over my shirt.

  • And I had to walk all the way across campus

  • all the way back (laughs) to my dorm room.

  • So, that was probably the drunkest I've ever been.

  • I don't advise you to do anything like that.

  • Learn from my mistake, kids.

  • Kaitlynn wants to know,

  • "What were my favorite and least favorite subjects?"

  • My least favorite was probably philosophy.

  • I was so bad, I even had to get a tutor,

  • which I kind of exaggerated how bad I was at

  • because my tutor was really cute.

  • And it was very like Mean Girls.

  • Aaron Samuels's at the library,

  • and I was acting dumber than I was.

  • I'd be, "Oh, can you explain that again?"

  • Just so I could spend more time with him.

  • My favorite subjects, I don't know.

  • I remember I loved Hebrew.

  • I had to take a semester of language,

  • so I just randomly took Hebrew, and that was really fun.

  • My last class of university that my graduation depended on

  • was wine tasting, of all things.

  • And it was an online class. (giggles)

  • So, you had to play at home as you were studying,

  • so it was a good time.

  • I almost didn't pass.

  • I was not good at that.

  • My friend, Advil would like to know,

  • "What was my most awkward romantic or sexual

  • "or relationship thing that happened to me in college?"

  • So, I had two major boyfriends.

  • One was my freshman year.

  • And then, the other was my junior/senior year.

  • So, during my sophomore year, I did a lot of dating

  • for better or for worse.

  • I learned a lot about myself and about gays.

  • But there was one guy, I feel bad talking crap about him

  • because he meant well.

  • He picked me up for a date,

  • and he gave me a rose from his mom's garden.

  • And it was the first date, and he told me that,

  • and I was just like...

  • "Thank you."

  • So, like I said, there's nothing wrong with that

  • if you're watching,

  • and that's you or if it actually was you,

  • I'm sure you'll find the perfect man

  • who will just leap out of his skin for that,

  • but it was not me and good luck to you. (laughs)

  • I'm so sorry.

  • Nicola would like to know,

  • "What is the best advice you can give somebody

  • "who doesn't necessarily know what they want to do?"

  • You can go to college still and be undecided.

  • That is probably one of the biggest misconceptions

  • about leaving high school and going to college

  • is that you have to pick your major.

  • You can spend the first year, year and a half, two years,

  • taking all of the general classes that everybody has to take

  • and be undecided, that's a thing.

  • Alix wants to know,

  • "Did I like my roommate and was I nervous to meet him?"

  • Yes, I loved him.

  • His name was David.

  • I got the letter that said his name and where he was from.

  • And I was a little nervous because Texas,

  • and I'm clearly very gay.

  • And so, it was a little intimidating.

  • So, we friended each other on Facebook,

  • and I remember talking to him online.

  • And he was telling me, I remember, that for fun,

  • him and his friends would drive close

  • to the road after a big storm

  • and ski attached to a truck

  • on the mud next to the road.

  • And I was just thinking,

  • "Oh my gosh, what (laughs) am I getting myself into?"

  • But, it was a great experience.

  • I couldn't have asked for anybody better.

  • We got along perfectly.

  • We were not best friends,

  • but we got along and we worked.

  • It worked out.

  • I think the best thing you can possibly do is to go in blind

  • if you're going to go live in the dorms.

  • If you go into university

  • with somebody that you already know,

  • and you're going to spend all of your time with them,

  • and you're never going to meet anybody else.

  • You're never going to go out of your comfort zone.

  • And so, when I went it blind,

  • even though it was a little bit terrifying,

  • I really stepped out of who I was

  • and got to meet 10 times more many people.

  • So, that is all I have for your guys in this Q & A video.

  • If you have any other questions, tweet them to me,

  • message me on Tumblr, put it on my Facebook wall.

  • Let's connect, I will help you out.

  • And like I said, college or university is not for everybody.

  • It was for me.

  • I really liked it.

  • So, hopefully, this Q & A helped you out.

  • If it did, give it a thumbs up

  • because it lets me know if you liked it.

  • And if I answered any of the questions that you have

  • about the experiences, let me know by pushing the thumbs up.

  • And if there's any more Q & A themes or subjects

  • that you want me to do,

  • let me know in the comments below.

  • And I think that's all I have for your guys today.

  • Have a good life, and I will see you guys next time.

  • And until then, later.

Well, hello everyone!

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