women they love. Now, you may’ve been in a relationship where the person has told you

that they loved you, but you really didn’t feel it. You know, they said they loved you,

but their actions weren’t in alignment with that. They say they loved you, but they were

constantly criticizing you or demeaning you. They said they loved you, but they wouldn’t

show up to important events that really matter to you, they were there when it really mattered.

And so it can become really confusing when you’re in a relationship with someone and

their words and actions aren’t in alignment. When it comes to a relationship, actions are

the evidence of love. Actions are the evidence that someone loves you and that you love someone

else. So here are five actions or five ways of being. Here are five ways that men treat

the women they love. Number one: they’re soft on you when you

make a mistake and they’re quick to forgive. If you’re on your way out of the house,

you forget your purse back at the house, you need to flip around and go back and get it,

they don’t criticize you and beat you up over it. They’re quick to forgive and soft

on you when you make mistakes. Number two: he sees you as beautiful and worthy

and he reminds you of that often, both in his words and his actions.

Number three: he makes you a priority in his life. He spends important moments with you,

he spends prime time hours with you, weekend hours, and during important events in his

life, he wants you by his side. Now that’s not saying he doesn’t have guy time and

get his bromance on because every man needs that, but you know that you’re a priority

in his life by the time he wants to spend with you.

Number four: he honors and respects your feelings. And number five: he treats you like a best

friend, which means that he cheers you on, he’s got your back, he encourages you to

go after your dreams, and if you fail, he’s right there by your side, cheering you on,

encouraging you to get up and keep moving forward.

So those are the five ways that men treat women they love, but here’s the deal: if

you want more of that in your life, the question is how well do you practice that in your life?

Because there’s this great quote that says, “In life, we don’t get what we want. In

life, we get what we are.” So if you want to attract a man who’s loving more on you

in the relationship, the question is how can you dial up the love for yourself? So my challenge

for you is this: how can you dial up these five qualities in your own life and how you’re

loving on yourself? How can you dial up being a soft place to fall when you make a mistake

and forgiving yourself quickly? How can you dial up seeing yourself as beautiful and worthy?

How can you dial up making yourself a priority instead of giving to everyone else and putting

them first all of the time? How can dial up really honoring your feelings and respecting

your process and what you’re going through? And lastly, how can you dial up treating yourself

like a best friend and being supportive of yourself and cheering yourself on and going

after your dreams? See, most of us would never let anyone talk

to our best friends the way that we talk to ourselves. So how can you be nicer to yourself

in the privacy of your own mind? And here’s what’s cool: as you dial up the practice

of self-love in your life, you put yourself more on that channel of love, and when you’re

on that channel, in that state of love, more love flows into your life. So to help you

in dialing up the amount of self-love that you have, because we all know that we need

self-love in order to attract a great relationship, but how do we actually grow and deepen the

level of love that we have for ourselves? To help you do that, I’ve actually created

a great resource for you. It’s a self-love exercise. There’s a link in this video.

It will take you to that great free resource. You can go ahead and get that, practice that.

It will dial up the amount of self-love that you experience in your life. And I would love

to hear from you. Post a comment below. Of these five ways that men treat women they

love, which one of those could you dial up for yourself that if you practice more, it

would make a difference for you in your life? and if you enjoyed this video, please share

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to attract love and expand an amazing relationship in your life. thanks so much for watching.

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