>> YES.

>> James: AND HAVING CHILDREN WITH HIM.

WHEN DID IT MOVE FROM THE FRIEND ZONE TO THE END

>> IT IS SO WEIRD.

LL GET SO NERVOUS TALKI NERVOUS, THIS IS A SAFE PLACE.

>> THE TRUTH IS WE BOTH DID A MOVIE AM I DID ONE CALLED

FRIENDS WITH ENABOUT FITS AND HE DID A MOVIE CALLED NO STRINGS

ATTACHED.

AND IF WE HAD PAID ATTENTION WE WOULD KNOW THAT WE CAN'T GET

INTO A RELATIONSHIP THIS WAY.

AND YET WE DID EXACTLY AS BOTH THOSE MOVIE FORE TOLD.

LIKE WE LITERALLY SHOOK HANDS.

WE'RE GOING TO HAVE FUN BECAUSE WE'RE BOTH SINGLE AND YOUNG,

THREE MONTHS LATER WE'RE LIVING TOGETHER, SIX MONTHS LATER WE'RE

MARRIED AND HAD A KID LITTLE RALLY WEIDN'T WATCH THE

END OF EITHER ONE OF OUR MOVIES.

>> JamHEN DOES IT CHANGE FROM, LOOK,

THERE IS THAT GUY SUDDENLY OH, HANG ON.

>> I KNOW, RIGHT.

>> Jam HAIRCUT OR SOMETHING?

>> KIND OF.

SO I NEVER-- THIS IS-- OKAY, SO RTED '70SAND EVERYBODY WAS MUCH.

LIKE ASHTON DID MY CHEMISTRY HOMEWORK FOR ME.

HE WAS NOT THE GUY, OH, YOU ARE SO HOT.

>> IT WOULD HAVE BEEN INAPPROPRIATE, TOTES

INAPPROPRIATE.

>> IT WASN'T EVEN-- YEAH, ON ALL LEVELS.

THEN WE WENT OUR SEPARATE WAYS.

AND IN OUR 20ST WE KEPT IN TOUCH ON, YOU KNOW AOL EYE CHAT.

HEY, HOW IS IT GOING, HOW IS LIFE.

BUT WE BOTH HAD INDEPENDENT RELATIONSHIPS, A WHOLE SEPARATE

LIFE.

I RAN INTO HIM AT AN AWARD SHOW AND AT FIRST I WAS LIKE WOW,

THAT GUY IS REALLY TALL.

THAT IS WHAT I THOUGHT.

TURNED AROUND AND I WENT-- AND THEN THAT MOMENT

YOU HEAR OR SEE MOVIES WHERE YOUR HEART SKIPS A BEAT AND IT

HAPPENED WITH ASHTON.

AND I WAS LIKE STOP IT, I WAS LIKE NO, IT WAS THE WEIRDEST

THING,ISN'T REALLY SO HERE IS WHERE IT BECOMES

FUNNY, OH MY GOD, I HAVEN'T SEEN NEW SO LONG, YH, OKAY.

AND THEN HE'S LIKE WHYYOU COME OVER TO MY HOUSE FOR

HOUSEWARMING PARTY.

>> James: OH YEAH!

T TO GET PUNKED.>> KIND OF, YES.

SO BEFORE THE PUNKING HAP I FOUND OUT LATER IN LIFE THAT

MY HUSBAND WAS TRYING TO SET ME UP ON A BLIND DATE WITH ONE OF

HIS BEST FRIENDS THAT NIGHT.

SO HE WAS LIKE COME OVER.

AND HE HAD A FRIEND THAT HE WANTED TO SET ME UP WITH.

AND THAT DIDN'T HAPPEN.

YEAH.

WHO WAS THE FRIEND?

NOUGH THAT FRIENDOMEBODY THAT MY HUSBAND WENT ON A DATE WITH

LATER.

IT'S ALL VERY SO MEANT TO BE, NO, IT'S ALL GOOD, A GOOD THING.

>> James: MEANT TO BE.

I LOVE THIS.

>> YEAH.

>> James: I LOVE IT.

IT'S BEAUTIFUL.