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  • >> In early 2011

  • Zach Wahls stood up for marriage equality in Iowa

  • when he delivered a powerful speech

  • in front of the legislature.

  • >> For the next two hours

  • I'm sure we're going to hear

  • plenty of testimony about how damaging

  • having gay parents is on kids,

  • but in my nineteen years, not once

  • have I ever been confronted by an individual

  • who realized independently

  • that I was raised by a gay couple.

  • And do you know why?

  • Because the sexual orientation of my parents

  • has had zero effect

  • on the content of my character.

  • Thank you very much.

  • >> His testimony went viral

  • with millions of hits

  • and landed him in the media spotlight.

  • >> To find myself kind of

  • at the center of all this attention

  • was a very...

  • It was a little unnerving, um, at first,

  • but after I calmed down

  • I was immediately aware

  • of the power, really, of the story.

  • >> To further the impact of his story,

  • Zach is now releasing a book about

  • growing up with lesbian parents called

  • My Two Moms: Lessons of Love, Strength, and What Makes a Family

  • >> I write very intimately

  • about some of the struggles

  • that my family went through,

  • the challenges my moms faced,

  • and how we all grew from that.

  • My parents may have been gay,

  • but they weren't 'my gay moms'.

  • They were my moms.

  • My hope for the book above all else

  • is to really show people,

  • that this is just a portrait of another American family

  • that's just as valid as any other American family.

  • We eat dinner around a table.

  • We watch NFL games

  • and cheer for the Packers.

  • And so this, you know, notion

  • that there's something radical

  • or scary, or dangerous about gay people raising kids is...

  • You know it's really laughable

  • if you sit down and you think about it.

  • It turns out that the operative word in

  • 'gay parents' is not 'gay' but 'parents'.

  • What's important when you're raising kids

  • is whether or not your parent or parents

  • are willing to put in the blood, sweat, toil and tears

  • or the time and the resources

  • and the effort that it takes

  • to shape these little hellions

  • into well-adjusted young adults.

  • My hope with the book is

  • to paint a portrait of a family

  • led by a gay couple

  • and to really try to examine what that looks like.

  • People who are, maybe,

  • on the other side might be surprised

  • by what they see.

  • Love makes a family.

>> In early 2011

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