she says: Hi Angela I've been at a job for four years that I absolutely hate.

I'm only there because I have bills to pay. Do you have any good ideas

for me to get through every day going to work?

Hi Gileaha, I honestly don't have enough

information to give you rock solid answer.

Do this - do that! I don't know why it is you don't like your job.

So, when you come to a question

that you don't have all the information for, you can always play the "what if" game -

goes like this: "what if tomorrow I can wake up

and I could go to a new job that pays better money,

has a better boss, better coworkers that don't bully me -

the rules and regulations of the company are to my satisfaction,

or whatever they are. When you start figuring out those

"what if's" a lot of times you will uncover

the real problem of why it is you don't like to go to work.

Now keep going. "What if...

I had to stay at my job for another four years?

What could I do differently that I'm not doing now

that would make my time there more enjoyable?

What if I could change the rules and regulations what would they be?"

"What if I still had to work with so-and-so at work that we don't get along with?"

Would I work through that relationship so that we can get along better?

I don't know, well once you play the "what if" game you'll starting uncovering a whole lot more of

the reasons why your job isn't working and what you might be able to do

to fix it, because if you can go and find a better job that meets

all those regulations- PRESTO! Go do that.

But if you can't, and you have to stay in your current job,

What can you personally do that's a little bit different

that will make your journey easier? "What if"

I'm telling ya, it's a good idea.

it's a good idea