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  • ARE YOU GOING TO CHEAT

  • ON YOUR PARTNER?

  • IF YOU ARE A WOMAN WHO IS FAKING ORGASMS

  • ACCORDING TO A NEW STUDY YOU ARE MORE LIKELY TO BE UNFAITHFUL.

  • THIS RESEARCH COMES FROM THE

  • HUMAN FEMALE ORGASM AS EVOLVED SIGNAL, A STUDY.

  • WHAT THEY SAY

  • IS THAT THE MORE FREQUENTLY A WOMAN FAKES ORGASMS THE MORE

  • LIKELY SHE IS TO CHEAT.

  • WHAT IS

  • GOING

  • ON HERE?

  • BUT THE GOOD NEWS IS THERE IS NO LINK BETWEEN A

  • GENUINE ORGASM AND FIDELITY.

  • AND THEY WERE ALL OF COLLEGE AGE WHICH I DO THINK IS RELEVANT

  • WHEN WE COME TO A CONCLUSION HERE.

  • >>I LIKE THAT YOU FRAME THAT IS GOOD NEWS.

  • MEN, IF YOUR PARTNER IS NOT HAVING MANY ORGASMS DON'T

  • SWEAT IT.

  • IF SHE IS BOTHERING TO FATE, WATCH OUT.

  • >>IT'S WEIRD BECAUSE YOU IF YOU GIVE ENOUGH OF A DAMN ABOUT HIM

  • AND HIS CONFIDENCE- YOU JUST DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT A

  • GENUINE INTERACTION WITH THAT PERSON.

  • YOU ARE NOT

  • COMMUNICATING WELL AND THE

  • RELATIONSHIP OR THE BEDROOM.

  • YOU'RE LIKE ALL RIGHT IT IS TOO

  • MUCH OF A PAIN IN THE ASKED TO ACTUALLY TALK TO THIS PERSON OR

  • IT IS TOO AWKWARD TO HAVE THAT

  • CONVERSATION TO SOMETHING THAT WILL LEAD TO BETTER SEX.

  • >>MY CONCLUSION IS THAT IF YOU ARE NOT PHYSICALLY CONNECTING

  • WITH SOMEONE BY WAY OF THE

  • ORGASM, THEN YOU ARE LESS LIKELY TO EMOTIONALLY CONNECT

  • WITH

  • THEM.

  • AND YOU ARE ALSO EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED AND YOU

  • ARE COMMUNICATING, THAT BOND IS JUST NOT AS STRONG WHEN THE

  • SEXUAL AND PHYSICAL CONNECTION

  • IS NOT THERE.

  • THEN THE EMOTIONAL TIE WILL ALSO NOT BE THERE.

  • THAT

  • IS WHAT I THINK IN THIS STUDY.

  • >>IT TOTALLY DEPENDS ON YOUR PERSPECTIVE.

  • AS A STRAIGHT MALE,

  • BEFORE I GOT MARRIED THE SEX AND ENJOYMENT OF IT WAS NOT AT ALL

  • CONNECTED TO MY EMOTIONAL STATUS

  • WITH THAT PERSON.

  • >> I MEANT SPECIFICALLY FOR WOMEN.

  • I THINK FOR WOMEN THE

  • EMOTIONAL TIE PLAYS A MAJOR ñ

  • IF THEY ARE PHYSICALLY CONNECTED TO SOMEONE WITH AN ORGASM THEN

  • THEY WILL BE MORE CONNECTED EMOTIONALLY AS WELL.

  • BUT I THINK IT IS DIFFERENT WITH STREET MEN.

  • >> I ALSO KNOW THAT IF IT ISTHE REVERSE, THAT MIGHT NOT BE THE

  • CASE AT ALL.

  • HE MIGHT BE A HOT

  • GUY, AND THEY ARE INTO IT.

  • >> ALSO, WHAT YOU THINK IS THE RELEVANCE THAT THESE ARE ALL

  • COLLEGE AGE HETEROSEXUAL COUPLES?

  • THAT DEMOGRAPHIC FOR ME

  • IS INTERESTING.

  • WHEN YOU'RE A COLLEGE AGE YOU ARE MORE

  • INCLINED TO WANT TO PLAY THE FIELD.

  • IT WOULD BE INTERESTING

  • IF THEY CARRIED OUT THE STUDY WITH YOUNGER PEOPLE AND THEN

  • OLDER PEOPLE AND SEE IF THERE WAS STILL THAT CORRELATION.

  • >>THERE IS A CONTROL FOR IT.

  • THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SOMEONE WHO IS FAKING AND SOMEONE WHO

  • IS NOT.

  • YEAH, SURE, MORE COLLEGE-AGE PEOPLE MIGHT BE MORE INCLINED

  • TO CHEAT, BUT THE ONES WHO ARE FAKING ORGASMS ARE MORE LIKELY

  • TO CHEAT THAN THE ONES WHO ARE NOT FAKING ORGASMS WITHIN THAT

  • GROUP.

  • >> SO, I WOULD SAY YOU ARE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR BODY WHEN

  • YOU GET OLDER.

  • >> DAUGHTER OF A PREACHER MAN THOUGHT

  • >>WAS THAT APPROPRIATE?

  • HEY DAD.

  • I THINK THAT WHEN WOMEN GET

  • OLDER AND THEY DISCOVER THEIR BODIES, BECAUSE A WOMAN'S

  • SEXUALITY AS WE MORE COMPLICATED

  • THAN A GUYS.

  • YOU HAVE TO FIGURE OUT ARE YOU CLITORAL STIMULATION

  • OR INTERNAL STIMULATION.

  • I THINK WHEN A WOMAN GETS OLDER SHE IS

  • MORE COMFORTABLE TO ASK AND COMMUNICATE WITH WHAT SHE WANTS

  • AND WHAT WORKS FOR HER.

  • SO MAYBE I WOULD WONDER IF ORGASMS ARE

  • FAKED LESS?

  • BUT WE DON'T HAVE THE NUMBERS HERE TO SEE

  • IF THAT

  • IS TRUE.

  • >> I WONDER WHAT THAT WOULD'VE BEEN IN THE STUDY FOR GUYS

  • THAT FAKED ORGASMS.

  • >>HAVE A SIMPLER THEORY.

  • THE PEOPLE THAT ARE WILLING TO FAKE

  • IT ARE THE ONES THAT MASK DECEPTION MORE.

  • HENCE THEY ARE

  • MORE LIKELY TO DECEIVE YOU AND

  • SLEEP WITH OTHER PEOPLE.

  • >> RIGHT, PEOPLE WHO LIE ARE MORE LIKELY TO LIE.

  • THAT MAKES SENSE.

  • >> LEAVE IT TO A GIRL TO OVERTHINK IT.

  • >> IS THAT YOUR IMPRESSION OF A GIRL?

  • I LOVE IT.

  • GIRL DOES

  • IMPRESSION OF GIRL.

  • LOVE IT.

ARE YOU GOING TO CHEAT

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