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  • PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS USUALLY LEADS TO POSITIVE THINGS

  • FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE HOT.

  • BUT THERE IS ONE MASSIVE DOWNSIDE

  • BASED ON A MASSIVE STUDY THAT

  • WAS DONE BY VARIOUS UNIVERSITIES WHICH INCLUDE HARVARD,

  • UNIVERSITY OF LUVERNE, AND SANTA CLARA.

  • THEY WANTED TO SEE HOW

  • BEING PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE

  • IMPACTS RELATIONSHIPS WHETHER IT BE REGULAR LOVE INTERESTS OR

  • MARRIAGES.

  • THEY FOUND A HUGE DOWNSIDE TO BEING HOT.

  • >>THAT'S REALLY INTERESTING.

  • >>THEY DID ABOUT FOUR DIFFERENT STUDIES TO COME UP WITH THESE

  • CONCLUSIONS.

  • HERE IS WHAT THEY FOUND.

  • >> I'M NOT SURE I WOULD'VE BEEN IN THAT CATEGORY SO I FEEL A

  • LITTLE GOOD ABOUT THOSE

  • STUDENTS.

  • AT LEAST MY MARRIAGE IS GOING TO LAST LONGER.

  • TAKE THAT.

  • >>THEN THEY LOOKED AT THE IMDB PROFILES OF VARIOUS CELEBRITIES

  • AND THEY HAD PEOPLE RATE THE ATTRACTIVENESS, AND THEN LOOKED

  • INTO THEIR RELATIONSHIP HISTORY.

  • HERE IS WHAT THEY FOUND.

  • LET'S LOOK AT THE FINAL EXPERIMENT

  • WHICH I THOUGHT WAS INTERESTING.

  • >> DING, DING, DING, WE HAVE A WINNER.

  • >> I'M SURPRISED HARVARD DID THE STUDY BUT WHATEVER.

  • I THINK IT

  • IS OBVIOUS.

  • CHEATING RELIES SOLELY ON WHAT YOUR

  • OPPORTUNITIES ARE.

  • YOU CAN BE THE STRONGEST PERSON EVER, BUT

  • THERE IS GOING TO BE A LOW IN

  • YOUR RELATIONSHIP AT SOME POINT.

  • IF SOMEBODY IS TRYING TO RUB UP

  • AGAINST YOU, WHAT ARE YOU GOING

  • TO DO SAY NO?

  • YOU SHOULD, BUT A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T.

  • >> IT IS THE OLDEST ADAGE THERE IS.

  • HOW LIKELY ARE YOU TO CHEAT?

  • DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH OPPORTUNITY YOU HAVE.

  • AND IT DEPENDS

  • STRONGLY ON IF YOU ARE A GUY OR GIRL.

  • WHAT HE THINKS CELEBRITIES

  • GET DIVORCED A LOT?

  • BECAUSE THEY HAVE ALL THE OPPORTUNITY IN THE

  • WORLD.

  • IF YOU ARE RANDOM DUDE IN

  • WICHITA, DO YOU HAVE HOT GIRLS THROWING AT YOU AT ALL TIMES?

  • PROBABLY NOT.

  • I AM A RANDOM DUDE IN THE MIDDLE OF LA.

  • EVEN NOW

  • WHEN WE HAVE A HIGHER PROFILE, NOBODY THROWS THEMSELVES AT ME.

  • THOSE HOT GUYS, AT SOME POINT THEY WILL BREAK.

  • >> THE INCREDIBLE THING ABOUT DAVID BECKHAM IS THAT HE HAS HAD

  • A LONG AND SEEMINGLY HAPPY

  • RELATIONSHIP.

  • I FEEL LIKE HE IS MORE OF AN ANOMALY WHEREAS A LOT

  • OF PEOPLE DO EXPERIENCE

  • TEMPTATION.

  • THINK IT MOSTLY HAS TO DO WITH OPPORTUNITIES AND

  • YOUR SATISFACTION IN THE

  • RELATIONSHIP.

  • PEOPLE CHEAT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS.

  • I THINK FOR

  • WOMEN THERE IS A LOT OF ISSUES WITH HOW INVOLVED YOUR PARTNER

  • IS, WHETHER OR NOT YOU FEEL EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED OR IF HE

  • IS RESPONSIVE TO YOUR NEEDS.

  • THOSE ARE THE TYPES OF THINGS

  • THAT MIGHT CONVINCE A WOMAN IS

  • WORTH CHEATING.

  • WITH MEN, DOES SHE HAVE TITS.

  • I'M BEING UNFAIR TO MEN, BUT NOT REALLY.

  • >>ONE THING THAT LEADS MEANT TO CHEAT MORE ACCORDING TO THE

  • STUDY IS IF THEIR WIFE IS GIVING THEM ENOUGH VALIDATION.

  • THAT IS

  • BOTH UNDERSTANDABLE AND SAD.

  • THAT IS COMMON WHETHER YOU ARE A

  • CELEBRITY OR NOT OR ATTRACTIVE

  • OR NOT.

  • YOU HAVE TO BE A CELEBRITY OR RICH BY THE WAY.

  • SPEAKING FROM A PROBABILITY PERSPECTIVE IF YOU ARE MORE

  • ATTRACTIVE YOU ARE MORE LIKELY TO GET MORE OPPORTUNITIES AND

  • HENCE LIKELY TO HAVE SHORTER RELATIONSHIPS AND HAVE ONES THAT

  • ARE MORE LIKELY TO BREAK UP.

  • ONE OF THE FIRST THINGS YOU

  • MENTIONED THERE, DECREASED EFFORT IN RELATIONSHIP

  • MAINTENANCE.

  • IF YOU ARE HOT YOU THINK I AM HOT I DON'T HAVE TO

  • DO ANYTHING HERE.

  • WHAT IS HE GOING TO DO BREAK UP WITH ME?

  • IT

  • TURNS OUT NO, RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE IS THE MOST

  • IMPORTANT THING.

  • >> AT LEAST WITH MARRIAGE I KNOW THAT IT TAKES WORK, CONSTANT

  • WORK TO REMAIN INVOLVED IN EACH OTHER'S LIVES AND TO KEEP THE

  • FIRE ALIVE.

  • WE ARE HUMANS AND YOU CAN ONLY COOK A STEAK SO

  • MANY TIMES OR SO MANY WAYS.

  • SOMETIMES YOU WANT SOME SHRIMP

  • OR SOMETHING DIFFERENT.

  • YOU HAVE TO KEEP CONVINCING YOURSELF THAT YOU WANT STEAK,

  • THAT IS RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE.

  • >>I'M NOT SURE THAT IS THE ONLY RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE OR THE

  • FOCUS OF THE STORY.

  • BUT I DO SEE WHAT IS GOING ON A LITTLE BIT

  • HERE.

  • >> I WILL STOP MYSELF BEFORE I GET IN TROUBLE.

  • I LOVE STEAK

  • GUYS.

  • LOVE IT.

  • >> MAYBE THERE IS A SLIGHT COUNTER EFFECT OR MAYBE IF YOUR

  • PARTNER IS HOT YOU ARE MORE

  • LIKELY TO STAY WITH THEM.

  • BUT OVERALL THE JURY IS IN, A SLIGHT

  • DOWNSIDE TO BEING ATTRACTIVE IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS MORE LIKELY

  • TO END QUICKER.

  • >> CAN WE EDIT OUT THE PART WHERE I TALKED ABOUT STEAK AND

  • LOBSTER?

  • >>NO.

  • ONE MORE STORY.

  • >>A STARTUP IN SILICON VALLEY IS OFFERING TO PAY ITS EMPLOYEES

  • $10,000 IF THEY DE-LOCATE,

  • MEANING IF THEY MOVE OUT OF SILICON VALLEY.

  • THIS IS GREAT

  • NEWS BECAUSE THE COMPANY DOES ALLOW ITS EMPLOYEES TO WORK

  • REMOTELY.

  • SINCE THEY ARE NOT REQUIRED TO LIVE THERE THEY WANT

  • TO ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TO LIVE

  • WHEREVER THEY WANT AND THEY GET A $10,000 BONUS AS A RESULT.

  • I

  • THINK THIS IS SOMETHING A LOT OF AMERICANS ARE EXPERIENCING.

  • FINANCIAL ADVISORS TELL YOU YOU SHOULDN'T SPEND MORE THAN

  • 30% OF YOUR INCOME ON YOUR LIVING.

  • BUT PEOPLE PAY MORE,

  • THAT IS CERTAINLY THE CASE IN HIGH-PRICED AREAS LIKE SILICON

  • VALLEY, LOS ANGELES, OR NEW

  • YORK.

  • I LOVE THIS BECAUSE IT ENCOURAGES PEOPLE TO MOVE AWAY

  • AND HOPEFULLY IT WILL HELP LOWER THE COST OF THE HOUSING MARKET

  • THERE IF MORE COMPANIES FOLLOW SUIT AND DO SOMETHING SIMILAR?

  • >> IT IS A WEIRD HIT THIS GUY IS TAKING ON TO GET PEOPLE TO MOVE

  • AWAY FROM HIM.

  • A LOT OF

  • COMPANIES ñ THIS COMPANY ONLY HAS 85 PEOPLE.

  • IF THEY ARE ALL

  • WORKING FROM HOME, WHAT DOES HE CARE IF THEY LIVED NEAR HIM OR 1

  • MILLION MILES FROM HIM?

  • 1 MILLION MILES DOESN'T HELP THEM ANY MORE THAN IT HURTS HIM.

  • >> I THINK THIS MIGHT BE AN EFFORT TO ATTRACT MORE TALENTED

  • ENGINEERS AND EMPLOYEES.

  • I THINK A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE DETERRED

  • FROM WORKING SILICON VALLEY JOBS IF THEY HAVE TO LIVE IN THE BAY.

  • IT IS EXPENSIVE AND WHY WOULD

  • YOU WANT TO GO THROUGH MAKING A DECENT LIVING AND NOT BEING ABLE

  • TO ENJOY IT.

  • >> THAT MAKES SENSE, AND IT WORKED FOR HIM. 50 PEOPLE SAID

  • CAN I PLEASE MOVE AWAY FROM YOU

  • AS SOON AS THEY STARTED THIS.

  • IF HE IS LOOKING TO RECRUIT BETTER,

  • MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.

  • REALLY NICE PR MOVE AND WORTH THE EXTRA

  • $10,000.

  • RANDOM PART THAT MADE ME BITTER AND JEALOUS, THE CEO IS 30

  • YEARS OLD.

  • >>I KNOW.

  • THAT IS THE CASE WITH MOST SUCCESSFUL CEOS IN SILICON

  • VALLEY.

  • THEY ARE SUPER YOUNG,

  • YOUNGER THAN US, AND THEY ARE MILLIONAIRES.

  • YEAH, IT SUCKS.

  • THAT IS LIFE.

  • >>THAT IS GOOD FOR YOU.

  • GOD BLESS.

  • WELL PLAYED ON THIS

  • EFFORT AND IT HELPS PEOPLE IN

  • SAN FRANCISCO.

  • IT IS REALLY MENTAL THAT IF YOU MAKE $700,000

  • AND YOU CAN'T AFFORD THE RENT.

  • WE HAVE GONE BEYOND THE MIDDLE

  • CLASS GETTING CRUNCHED.

  • IN PLACES LIKE SAN FRANCISCO

  • EVERYONE IS GETTING CRUNCHED.

  • >>I KNOW.

  • IT IS GETTING WORSE IN LOS ANGELES AS WELL.

  • THINK ABOUT IT.

  • >>THINK ABOUT IT.

  • I DON'T KNOW WHAT I AM THINKING ABOUT.

  • >> I MEAN I CAN'T WORK REMOTELY.

  • I CAN SKYPE IN AND DO THE SHOW.

  • >>NO.

  • I ACTUALLY WANT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING ABOUT THE PREVIOUS

  • STORY.

  • RELATED TO THIS STORY I WILL TELL YOU IN THE POST GAME

  • ABOUT THIS CRAZY THING OUR HIGH SCHOOL DID FOR THE REALLY

  • ATTRACTIVE GIRLS AND GUYS IN THE

  • CLASS.

  • WE DID A SLAVE AUCTION.

  • OH MY GOD.

  • THIS WAS BACK IN 1988

  • IN NEW JERSEY, WHEN IN THE WORLD WAS THAT SLAVE AUCTION AND WHY

  • DID WE DO IT AND WHAT WERE THE

  • RAMIFICATIONS AND DID WE THINK IT WAS A BIG DEAL OR NOT?

  • I WILL

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PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS USUALLY LEADS TO POSITIVE THINGS

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