IT WAS WRITTEN BY THE NEW YORK POST A SOLO COURSE TAKE IT

WITH A GRAIN OF SALT BUT IT WAS A PROFILE OF SOME NEW

YORKERS AND THEIR DATING HABITS AND THOUGHT IT WAS TITLED

WHY I WON'T SAY HOT WOMEN ANYMORE.

I WAS CURIOUS ABOUT IT I PROCEEDED TO READ AND I'M

GLAD THAT I DID BECAUSE SOME OF THE QUOTES IN THIS ARTICLE

WERE INSUFFERABLE.

LET ME GIVE YOU SOME EXAMPLES THAT IT STARTS OFF WITH A

40-YEAR-OLD GENTLEMAN BY THE NAME OF DANIEL ROSHKIND.

HE IS A SUCCESSFUL GUY AND I WOULD SAY OF AVERAGE LOOKS

AND THE ONLY REASON I SAY THAT IS BECAUSE IT IS RELEVANT

TO THE STORY.

LET ME SAY WHAT HE FEELS ABOUT HIMSELF AND WHAT HE FEELS ABOUT

WHO HE IS STATED IN THE PAST AND WHO HE PREFERS TO DATE NOW.

HE SAYS I COULD HAVE DATED ANYONE.

HE'S NOW 40 AND AN UPPER WEST SIDE OR WITH A MUSCULAR

BUILD IN A FULL HEAD OF HAIR.

THAT'S HOW HE WAS DESCRIBED THAT I MET SOME NICE PEOPLE BUT

REALISTICALLY I WENT FOR THE HOTTEST OR YOU COULD FIND.

DAN ROSHKIND USED TO DATE MODELS, BUT HE'S HAPPIER NOW

THAT HE'S ENGAGED TO A MERELY BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, CARLY SPINDLE.

WHAT IS MERELY BEAUTIFUL?

WHAT IS THAT MEAN?

WHAT?

WHO SAYS YOU KNOW WHAT?

THIS IS A GREAT ARTICLE TO BE A PART OF.

I'M GONNA GO AHEAD AND THROW MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER

UNDER THE BUS AND MAKE HER THINK SHE IS NOT ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH

OR AT LEAST NOT AS ATTRACTIVE AS THE WOMEN I USED TO DATE THAT

I'M GONNA SETTLE FOR HER BECAUSE SHE IS A GOOD PERSONALITY.

YOU LOOK THEM UP BECAUSE HE IS MEDIOCRE AT BEST.

I REALLY HATE COMMENTING ON PEOPLE'S LOOKS BUT IT IS

JUST THE WAY THE HE REFERS TO HIMSELF, YOU WOULD THINK

THEY HE IS A GOD AND IT IS THE MOST ABSURD STORY.

I CAN'T EVEN BELIEVE THIS.

ANYWAY.

I DON'T LIKE THAT PICTURE BECAUSE THAT PICTURE MAKES

HER LOOK LIKE A LITTLE CRAZY BUT THAT IS NOT THE BEST

PICTURE FOR HER BECAUSE I KNOW THAT SHE IS FINE.

SHE'S BEAUTIFUL.

YOU CAN SEE THE DEFINITION IN THE SHOULDER, PECTORALS.

SHE'S FINE.

THEY GOT THE PICTURE WHERE SHE LOOKS

A LITTLE OFF TO SUPPORT THIS WHOLE NARRATIVE.

SHE'S GOT MICHELLE BACHMANN ON THE COVER OF NEWSWEEK EYES.

LET ME BE CLEAR ABOUT SOMETHING AND I AM BEING GENUINE AND WHAT

I'M SAYING AND I DON'T KNOW, MAYBE YOU DISAGREE WITH ME.

SHE IS NOT THE ONE WHO WON IN THIS SCENARIO, YOU ARE THE

WINNER.

SHE IS GORGEOUS AND ANYWAY, LET ME CONTINUE.

HE SAYS

BEAUTIFUL WOMEN WHO GET A FAIR AMOUNT OF ATTENTION GET

FULL OF THEMSELVES.

BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT, YOU'RE VERY HUMBLE GENTLEMAN THAT

THEY SHOULD BE SO LUCKY AS TO HAVE MY ATTENTION.

I HAVE A FULL HEAD OF HAIR.

BY THE WAY, THERE ARE INSEPARABLE WOMEN LATER ON

IN THIS ARTICLE AS WELL.

BEAUTIFUL WOMEN TO GET A FAIR AMOUNT OF ATTENTION GET

FULL OF THEMSELVES.

EVENTUALLY, I WAS DREADING GETTING DINNER WITH THEM

BECAUSE THEY COULDN'T CARRY CONVERSATION.

SO THE STEREOTYPE THAT IF YOU ARE AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN,

YOU CANíT CARRY CONVERSATION.

YOU KNOW, HE'S

GOD'S GIFT TO HUMANITY AND HE UNFORTUNATELY HAD TO SUFFER

AND SETTLE FOR SOMEONE WHO'S NOT AS ATTRACTIVE AS WHAT HE

WOULD'VE PREFERRED BUT AT LEAST SHE CAN CARRY A CONVERSATION.

HERE'S WHAT HE SAYS THAT I CAN'T TAKE IT.

IT CONTINUES.

WEíRE LOSING ANNA.

SOMEONE TIE HER DOWN.

HERE'S WHAT HE SAYS ABOUT HIS FIANC…E, HE IS ENGAGED TO HER.

SHE IS A SOFTER BEAUTY, SOMEONE YOU CAN TAKE HOME AND

CUDDLE WITH, AND SHE'S VERY ELEGANT.

SHE'S 5í2î, SO SHE CANíT BE A RUNWAY MODEL,

WHAT A DICK.

BUT I THINK SHE'S REALLY BEAUTIFUL AND IS PRETTIER

THAN ANYONE I'VE DATED THAT SO TRIES TO SAVE HIMSELF IN

THE END BUT STILL, WHAT?

WOW.

I DO BELIEVE SHE'S PRETTIER THAN ANYONE HE'S EVER

DATED, BUT WHEN I LISTEN TO WHAT HE SAID OR WHEN I READ IT,

I WAS LIKE OBVIOUSLY HE DOESN'T KNOW THE LAWS OF ATTRACTION.

HE IS SHALLOW, SUPERFICIAL, SO COURSES GONNA ATTRACTIVE

SORTS OF PEOPLE.

KNOW, BUT HE'S GROWN-UP AND HE'S DECIDED YOU KNOW,

COST-BENEFIT ANALYSIS.

ALL GO FOR THE LESS ATTRACTIVE PERSON, AND HIS EYES LESS

ATTRACTIVE PERSON.

I CAN'T DEAL WITH THIS GUY.

NOW LET'S GO TO BENEDICT BACKFIELD, A BROOKLYN

WRITER AND HERE'S WHAT HE HAD TO SAY.

MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, PEOPLE WHO ARE BETTER LOOKING ARE LESS

LIKELY TO PURSUE ADVANCED DEGREES, OR PLAY AN INSTRUMENT

OR LEARN OTHER LANGUAGES, SAYS BENEDICT GOLD,

37-YEAR-OLD BROOKLYN WRITER WITH A DOCTORATE IN PHILOSOPHY

AND THE BODY OF AN ADONIS.

HE DOESN'T.

BUT HE'S QUICK TO NOTE THAT HE'S NOT JUST A GREAT SET

OF ABS, HE ALSO PLAYS THE VIOLIN AND SPEAKS SEVEN LINKAGES.

40 TALKING ABOUT?

IF YOU'RE AN ATTRACTIVE PERSON AND YOU HAVE THESE TALENTS

WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE'S

ATTRACTIVE, THEY SHOULD IMMEDIATELY BE STEREOTYPE

TO SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T KNOW THE LANGUAGE OR HAS ANY TALENT.

THIS IS CRAZY.

I WONDER IF HE CAN SAY DOUCHE BAG AND ALL OF THOSE LANGUAGES.

AND SPEAKS SEVEN LANGUAGES.

IT'S DOUCHE BAG, DOUCHE BAG, ETC.

GO TO A WOMAN BECAUSE AS I MENTIONED, THERE WERE WOMEN

IN THIS ARTICLE THAT WERE JUST AS BAD.

MEGAN YOUNG IS ONE OF THEM.

SHE SAYS IS A PERSON WHO HAS ALWAYS BEEN COMPLIMENTED ON

MY STUNNING BEAUTY, I'VE BEEN SEARCHING FOR A HOT GUY TO

MATCH THAT LABEL THAT I'D ALWAYS BEEN GIVEN.

BUT AFTER DATA OR TWO, THOUGH HAVE PROBLEMS HANGING OUT

WITH YOU AND THEN WE'LL GHOST.

HERE'S A PICTURE OF THE GUY SHE IS WITH NOW AND SHE JUST

KIND OF TALKS ABOUT HIM LIKE HE IS NOT GOOD-LOOKING.

HE SUPER GOOD-LOOKING.

AND THAT PICTURE OF HER SHE LOOKS LIKE ONE OF THOSE

MOMS FROM THE SHOWS WERE THE DAUGHTERS OF DANCERS.

THE DANCE MOM SHOWED THAT

WATCHES STEP HERE, I LOVE THAT SHOWED THAT

YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?

YOU'RE RIGHT THAT

ABOUT GOOD-LOOKING, BUT THIS NOTION.

THE WAY SHE'S DESCRIBING HER RELATIONSHIP, SHE MAKES IT

SEEM LIKE SHE'S A SUPERMODEL AND THAT HE IS THE MOST AVERAGE

LOOKING GUY THAT YOU GUYS ARE COMPARABLE ATTRACTIVENESS.

WHAT'S GOING ON?

THIS IS WHAT SHE SAYS ABOUT HIM THAT HE'S NOT A MODEL, BUT

HE SO MUCH MORE ATTRACTIVE IN WHO HE IS AS A PERSON.

IT MAKES UP FOR HIS STUPID FACE.

HIS TERRIBLE GROSS UGLY FACE.

I'LL SHARE THIS STORY AND I FEEL VERY VULNERABLE WHEN I TELL

BECAUSE IT'S THE TRUTH I WENT TO KOREA AND PEOPLE KEPT

STARING AT ME AND I FELT A LITTLE WEIRD.

I ASKED ONE OF THE WOMEN I WAS WITH HER TO WORK, WHY DO

PEOPLE KEEP STARING AT ME?

AND SHE WAS LIKE A NEBULOUS WITH THE?

BECAUSE IN KOREA, YOU'RE CONSIDERED UGLY.

YOUR TALL AND YOUR DARK INTO THEM, THAT'S AN ATROCITY.

YOUR LIKE KING KONG OR GODZILLA.

I REALLY JOKE ABOUT IT.

SO I WENT TO ISRAEL LAST YEAR AND THE MEN WOULD KEEP

TALKING TO ME AND SAYING OH MY GOD, YOU'RE SO BEAUTIFUL.

MY POINT IS IT'S ALL RELATIVE.

IT DEPENDS ñ THE FACT THAT YOU THINK YOU ARE A GLOBAL BEAUTY

AND THAT YOU ARE THE STANDARD OF BEAUTY IS THE REASON WHY WE HAVE

SO MANY YOUNG WOMEN WHO HAVE EATING DISORDERS AND ARE TRYING

TO DISTORT THEIR FACES BECAUSE THE STANDARD OF BEAUTY THAT

KEEPS BEING PUSHED ON PEOPLE AND THEIR CRAZY.

NOT CRAZY, SICK.

NARCISSISM IS AN ILLNESS THAT NORMAL PEOPLE DON'T WALK

AROUND THINKING STUFF LIKE THIS.

WE DID A STORY ON POP TRIGGER ABOUT THIS AND THERE WAS A

WHOLE LIST OF THE IDEAL COUNTRY TO COUNTRY AROUND THE WORLD

AND IT WAS SO VERY DIFFERENT.

I JUST THINK THAT ASIDE FROM WHETHER YOU CAN GO BACK HOME TO

YOUR WIFE AT THE END OF THIS, YOUR FIANC…

OR WHATEVER AND SHE

CAN LET YOU SLEEP IN THE BED TONIGHT, PEOPLE IN THIS ARTICLE,

EVERYTHING YOU'RE SAYING JUST SOUNDS SO COMPLAINING THAT YOU

HAVE THIS THING AND YOU WOULD RATHER BLAME ANYONE ELSE IN THE

WORLD FOR YOUR FEELINGS IN THE ROMANTIC ARENA EXCEPT FOR YOU.

EXCEPT THAT'S A GOOD POINT THAT

IS NOT ME, IT'S BECAUSE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ARE TERRIBLE.

NO, JUST FIND SOMEONE WHO YOU THINK IS HOT, WHATEVER THAT

MEANS, AND JUST DATE THEM.

ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE IN GENERAL, BASED ON WHATEVER WE CONSIDER

ATTRACTIVE, WE GIVE THEM THE LABEL OF NOT BEING INTELLIGENT

WHICH IS A LIE.

YOU WATCH THIS SHOW DAILY, YOU SEE THESE

ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE AND THEY ARE INTELLIGENT AND WELL SPOKEN.

IíM BEING REAL HERE.

WE CAN JUST BE HONEST ABOUT IT.

YOU HEAR IN COMEDY ALL

THE TIME THAT THE MORE ATTRACTIVE THE COMEDIAN IS,

THE LESS LIKELY THEY ARE TO BE FUNNY BECAUSE ATTRACTIVE

PEOPLE DON'T HAVE STRUGGLES IN LIFE.

THEY DON'T HAVE PROBLEMS.

LISTEN, IT TAKES ALL KINDS.

I WOULD SAY IN BASKETBALL, OR ANY SPORT, THERE'S PEOPLE

WHO HAVE MORE PHYSICAL TALENT.

IN MY SEVEN AND EIGHT-YEAR-OLD BASKETBALL LEAGUE THERE WERE

PEOPLE WHO WERE JUST FASTER BUT THEN THERE ARE THE ONES WHO ARE

FASTER AND WORK AT IT AND PEOPLE WHO ARE FASTER AND DIDNíT.

I DO

BELIEVE THAT IF YOU ARE CONSIDERED ATTRACTIVE, YOU HAVE

AN OPPORTUNITY TO EITHER JUST REST ON THAT

AND SOME PEOPLE DO.

OR DEVELOP WHATEVER OTHER SKILLS OR PERSONALITY THAT

YOU WANT TO DO.

I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO THINK THAT I'M THE SELF-RIGHTEOUS

PERSON WHO NEVER STEREOTYPES.

I STEREOTYPED THE HELL OUT OF MY HUSBAND WHEN I MET HIM.

HE WAS A PROFESSIONAL BASEBALL PLAYER.

HE'S HOT.

HE IS HOT.

I FOLLOW HIM ON INSTAGRAM.

I ASKED HIM, ONE OF THE FIRST QUESTIONS WAS ARE YOU

INTERESTED IN NEWS AND POLITICS?

HE SAID NO AND I SAID WHAT ARE YOU INTERESTED IN?

HE SAID SPORTS.

I IMMEDIATELY ASSUMED HE WAS DUMB.

THAT WAS THE

MOST UNFAIR STEREOTYPE THAT I COULD GIVE HIM BECAUSE HE ENDED

UP BEING SO CREDIBLY SMART AND CHARMING AND LOVING.

AND OR CHEMISTRY THAT IF I HAD JUST FOLLOWED THAT RIDICULOUS

STEREOTYPE I HAD MY HEAD THAT I WOULDN'T HAVE ENDED UP WITH

HIM AND I WOULD'VE BEEN ASHAMED THAT WE ALL FALL VICTIM TO THAT.

TRY NOT TO DO IT.

TRY TO COURSE CORRECT AND GIVE THAT PERSON AN OPPORTUNITY

TO PROVE THEMSELVES.

BUT DON'T YOU THINK IF SOMEONE WENT THERE SOMETHING

ROUGH AND CAME OUT THE OTHER SIDE OF IT, I DO FEEL LIKE IF

SOMEONE WENT THROUGH A CHARMED LIFE AND A CHARMED EXISTENCE AND

NEVER WAS CHALLENGED BY ANYTHING.

I DO FEEL LIKE THAT PERSON HAS

THE SCARS GIVE CHARACTER.

AT THE SAME, BEING LIKE OH,

PEOPLE WHO DON'T HAVE OR NEVER GO THROUGH ANYTHING

NEGATIVE ARE BY DEFINITION WORSE BY THE ONES WHO WENT

THROUGH HARDSHIP AND CAME OUT ON THE OTHER SIDE?

MY GIRLFRIEND WAS IN BAND.

I FEEL LIKE THAT WAS ENOUGH TO MAKE HER A NERD AND HAVE TO

BATTLE THROUGH.

I THINK EVERYONE DOES THEIR CHALLENGES.

I DONíT THINK

ANYONE HAS A CHARMED LIFE EVEN IF IT APPEARS TO BE SO.

EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN STRUGGLES TYPING SOCIAL MEDIA KIND OF

DISTORTS WHAT THE REALITY IS FOR THE MAJORITY PEOPLE.

THE VAST MAJORITY OF PEOPLE ARE NOT GOING TO SHARE THE

STRUGGLES ONLINE.

THEY ONLY SHOW THE ONES THAT THEY WANT TO BRAG ABOUT

THAT THE THINGS THEY HAVE SUCCEEDED INSIDE GREAT THINGS

THAT ARE HELPING AND THEIR FAMILIES THAT WHATEVER IT IS.

NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT MY PARENTS ARE DIVORCING.