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  • Wanna learn how to turn your ex on through text messaging?

  • Stay tuned because in just a moment, I am going to teach you just that!

  • Hi, my name’s Brad Browning, AKAThe Breakup Geek” … and I’ve been studying

  • the psychology of breakups and relationships for over 10 years now.

  • I’ve released multiple books, been featured on countless online relationship advice columns,

  • and have I have a YouTube channel with almost 12 million views.

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  • Okayso how can you turn on your ex through text messages?

  • Well, I hate to break it to you, but isn’t as simple as just sending a bunch of text

  • messages and hoping for the best.

  • If you haven’t properly primed your exthat is, if you haven’t been using some of the

  • tactics that I outline in my Ex Factor Guide program, then these text messages won’t

  • be as effective as they could be.

  • Using these text messages right after the breakup wouldn’t be a wise idea.

  • And if your ex is still mad at you or if they don’t want to talk to you, then these texts

  • will probably be make matters worse.

  • So what you have to do is make sure that your is atemotional neutralfirst before

  • sending them these text messagesbut what do I mean byemotional neutral?”

  • In order to make your ex emotionally neutral, you need to make sure your ex isn’t experiencing

  • any of the negative emotions that are common after the breakup.

  • There are a few sneaky ways to do thisand No Contact is one of the best ways to do this.

  • But the sake of brevity, I’m going to assume that you already know all of thatand I’m

  • also going to assume that youve properly primed your ex to the point that he or she

  • is open to at least chatting with you.

  • So without anymore BS, let’s jump right into it

  • Text 1 – Which I Call The Intimate Memory Text.

  • This is a powerful text that you can send to your ex that will force him or her to think

  • about a romantic moment you two shared in the past.

  • To better explain this, let me jump right into an example

  • You could say something like

  • Do you remember that room we stayed in at the Fairmont Pacific?

  • They had the most incredible bath robesand the bed there was the softest thing ever.

  • Take me back…”

  • Now, the goal here isn’t to get too sexualyou simply want your ex to start thinking

  • about the romantic moment you shared together and let his or her imagination do the rest.

  • If your ex seems receptive to your message, you can delve a little bit deeper and get

  • a little bit more explicit.

  • But again, if you force it, youre going to blow it and your ex will probably just

  • get creeped out.

  • So remember that the key here is subtly

  • Text 2 – The Clothing Text.

  • This works really well if youre femalebut it can work well if youre a guy too.

  • The key to this text is to get your ex to think about their favourite article of clothing

  • that you wore.

  • It could be a fancy, little dress that you wore out on dinner dates or even a comfy sweatshirt

  • that your ex like to steal from youbut to better explain this text, let me just jump

  • right into another example.

  • You could say something like

  • “I’m wearing that little blue dress you always liked, by the way!

  • Hope youre doing well.”

  • Or you could say something like

  • Remember that sweatshirt you always used to steal from me?

  • I’m wearing it right now!

  • And it’s ALL MINE!”

  • Of course, you can customize this to fit your breakup or your relationship.

  • And this is a great text to send if you want to be really subtle about getting your ex

  • to think about you intimately.

  • Now if things between you two are going really well and your ex is being receptive to the

  • above two texts, you can turn it up a notch by sending him or her this next example

  • Text 3 – The Winky Text.

  • Again, this one is a little bit moreforwardso make sure things are going well between

  • you and your ex.

  • This one can do wonders for you when said in the right situations.

  • You could say something like

  • You know what I miss most about our relationship? ;)” -- and you can send a little winky emoticon

  • after it.

  • Alternatively, you could say something like

  • “I miss you in that way.

  • ;)” -- again, the winky face is key!

  • I know, it sounds really, REALLY cheesy when I say it here, but trust me, when you do say

  • it in the right case, youll be able to turn your ex on in no time.

  • And this is just a handful of the texts that are proven to turn your ex onif you want

  • more information on EXACTLY how you can turn your ex on (and get him or her into your bed

  • NOW), then head over to BreakupBrad.com and watch the free video presentation

  • on my website.

  • Text 4 – The Picture Text.

  • No, get your head out of the gutter, I don’t mean you should send your ex a nudie or a

  • dick pic, but look through your photos album and try and send your ex a picture of a place

  • where you shared an intimate moment.

  • It could be the view from your hotel room in Hawaii, the cabin you shared at the lake,

  • or even a romantic dinner you shared at a fancy restaurant.

  • Send them the picture and say something like...

  • Remember this place?

  • I only have amazing memories here.”

  • Similar to the first text, the key here is to make it SUBTLE.

  • If youre being overtly sexual at the wrong time, you could blow it and your ex will go

  • running for the hills.

  • So that just about does it for this video.

  • If youre wondering WHEN to send these text messages, then take my free quiz tool at BreakupBrad.com/quiz.

  • On that page, you can take a quick 5 minute quiz that will determine how interested your

  • ex is in you.

  • Again, that URL is www.BreakupBrad.com/quiz.

  • Thanks for the likes and subscribes as always and I’ll chat with you soon!

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