Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles OK, so I would say Caucasians' disadvantage is self-centred Yea that's true So it's more like as Asian We care about the harmony And we like to be good to everybody so we are afraid to destroy a relationship with the other person With your friend or even if you hate this person We will still pretend we like them because we want everything to be good So I remember when I was in the the meeting with lots of my colleagues from different countries It was about other people complaining My friends - they were telling about they angry opinions and I was just being silent because I don't want anyone to hate me but Caucasians, they had told me - you should speak for yourself If you don't speak it means people will think you agree with them Yea so it was like wow I've learned a lesson So actually I would say that it's good and bad at the same time because if you put this way too far you gonna be like a douche So if we want to show it in a very easy way This is you and as an Asian I think all the people are at the same position as you You treat them the same I think You try to be polite to everyone and Caucasians are like - you are in the centre and you just do everything which is the best for you and don't care about any other that much as Asians I think Yea that's why people are like this in western countries So you can expect that for sure in here So you need to adjust yourself to see if you can accept this kind of personalities Because that's the way you've been taught I think, right? during the whole education I don't know abot this I just feel like this dobrze! Disadvantage of Asians is... ADDICTED TO INTERNET! Really, I have to say like The first thing that crushed my mind in the beginning of our relationship, lots of argues because of that is that really Internet is so popular in Taiwan that much that you have to show your private life so much So if you are not such an open person to everyone as a Caucasian - you should be prepared for the worst because she's gonna put your private life everywhere on facebook, on I don't know Instagram, Twitter I don't know I'm not even using these things except Facebook yea so that was a huge crush for me and lots of argues because of this so I really reccomend you to think twice or be prepared for this Be prepared Right now I'm super ok with that I even gain more open because of her Right now I treat it like an advantage for me because I'm more open You know, you need to be prepared for this I have to say, cause it's very hard for us to change this habbit I do change! a bit Another advantage Disadvantage, I'm sorry co? disadvantage! Alcoholic! nieeee! I'm not I'm not! But! We drink more Especially like we in Poland Which is like mid to eastern Europe We drink more, way more Slovakian soul probably Drink a lot! If you look at it in a big way there are lots of homeless people because they spend all the money on drinking It's like you will find a homeless person in here or even in super rich countries like Germany You will still find homeless people and they are not really like homeless looking for job or anything like that they are just wasting their life on drinking and they don't care about it and they are so destroyed so I can see that alcohol in here is like a big business and a big issue If it's about I would say Poland I don't know about any other countries I think in Asia you do this because of social stuff social meetings and so on and here in Europe you even drink with yourself sometimes All the time! Not all the time but yea it is a disadvantage yea that's true I would say it's more like a disadvantage even know I personally like it wohohohoho Another disadvantage is the food BUT! It's not about Asian food I love Asian food I even find it more interesting than Polish food But it's about spiceness! It's like I'm not up to spicy things that much as she Even if she thinks that she use just a bit of spiceness It's like a burn in my mouth all the time when I try it it's like Jesus Christ! How can she even eat that! And then I drink milk all the time Because I can't even survive it It's too spicy! It's not! because I like spicy food, I even found this spice pouder which is like very spicy! I love it! I enjoy this feeling like Oh God Dmmit it's burning my mouth I love it! and because we are making dinner together I'm adding just one, one shake Or even no shake... ok there is a shake I'm adding one shake and that's it and it's not even spicy for me but for him it's the pain in the ass yea, maybe I'm just like this I don't know Just too much for me Another one! Tadadadada So like we've mentioned You are spontaneous as an advantage but on the other hand you are pretty unorganized So it's like everything can be done in the last minute So it cost lots of troubles or let's say we are trying to organise the party So as Asians we would tell your friends like two days before Oh! What about the weekend? Let's hang out together It's more like this but as I can see polish are like last minute Especially you can see that for example we are going somewhere to the bar lets say and it's like My friends they say - today we are going to the bar and then after one hour there is a message "We will be there at 8 pm" and I'm not even replying or they are not replying to my messages and it's like we are already in the bar but not everyone is there some people arrive like two hours later or some people will just text you in the last minute telling you: "Oh not today I'm sorry" Or I'm busy or I'm sick Oh come on just find a better excuse to do this So it's like everybody is being very chillax very relaxing so they don't care, they are really unorganized Too jealous They are very loyal they care about relationship so much but it also mean that you have to expect that they gonna be very jealous about other girls What's this? Am I? Or like of course in some examples you are really looking at other girls ASS Not ass. I'm not talking about ass Yes ass, ok just we are looking at other girls of course it's pretty bad you should be concentrated about your girl But it's more like if you even say something for fun or anything like that - she's gonna be very angry Not very! I mean she's not like this but what I've heard is that actually some girls They controll guys right? Kind of In Taiwan, in Asia They might call them asking "where are you?" Or "make me a picture" I mean I do have a friend got this experience When his girlfriend asked - make me a picture to show me who are you with exactly and this sounds very creepy for me So I won't say all the girls are like this jealous that's true But you know it means they love you a lot when they are too jealous sometimes Yea Yo Yo Yo Yo MAN! Just wanted to say Yo Yo! I would say younger generation is better About Poland I would say Some people can find this like someone is staring at you Especially in smaller places Yea so there was one experience that I was with you and your friends There was actually one girl and she was speaking in Polish and said "what is that creature?" Why are you that mean? Haven't you seen Asian in your life? Sometimes I feel offended but then I realized that it's their problem They are too narrow-minded and they have never seen Asian They don't know we are one of the most powrful race in the world Right now yea So the final conclusion about this you can see lots of advantages and lots of disadvantages so it might sound like a storm for you Like it really is something complicated for the relationship but actually the thing is that because we are different so the whole relation between us is even better because you can see good things on my side and good things on her side which are basically taking over bad things of me and bad things of you so it's making a ballance Yea making the ballance It means that I'm terrible at something but she is going to help me She is terrible at something but I'm gonna help her and it's very very great and also because the whole differences of cultures you will find lots of things to talk about lots of things to share about you feel so shocked about this experience, this habbit It's amazing, your life changes completely It's really awesome AMAZING!!! 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