Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles Hi everybody this is Tripp from trippadvice.com and today we're talking about how to avoid the friends zone: part three. I mentioned in the previous episode how flirting and intentions will help you avoid the friends zone and now i want to talk about the consequences of being and nice guy and how to stop. One reason why men get put in the friend zone in the first place is because they have what's called "nice guy syndrome." This is where you put everyone else's needs before yours and a lot of guys suffer from this. In fact I too am a recovering nice guy. So how do you stop? Well, there's two things. First, you have to think about what you want and go after it. Literally, I want you to ask yourself what do I want? What do I want? What do I want? What do I want? If the answer is I want so-and-so girl then go for it and don't take the back road of just being her friend. If a girl is not willing to be with you and you're interested in her, do you think a friendship is gonna make this happen? No. It won't. Ever. No, I'm not telling you to be a complete asshole, not at all. I'm just telling you not to settle. Number two, it's time to start creating an edge. It's time to make your life more adventurous. The guy who gets put in the friend zone is the guy who listens to a girl and solves all of her problems and is there whenever she needs and he listens and helps and this is what he thinks will get her on a date. But he's wrong. Girls want excitement, spontaneity, romance, adventure and it's your job to bring them those things and then you'll escape the wrath of the friend zone. So let me ask you something. Have you ever been labeled the nice guy? If so, I want you to share a comment down below and share your story. And again, if you like this video then you can press like right here and you can also subscribe to my channel where you will get tons more videos just like this one. I'm also on Facebook and Twitter and if you know somebody who is in the friend zone or maybe they're labeled as a nice guy and you know it and they don't, then share this video because they will need it. All the action is happening back at trippadvice.com. Go over there and download my free e-book. I'm giving it away for free. It's called "Ten Simple and Unknown Dating Tips to Increase Attraction" And there's stuff in there that I don't talk about on my blogs or on my videos, so go there and check it out. And as always I'll see you next time.
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