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  • In this video, I'm gonna show you the specific way

  • that you can use the 5 Second Rule to stop procrastinating.

  • And look, we all procrastinate.

  • We avoid the things that we know that we need to do,

  • and then we spend the rest of the day beating ourselves up.

  • It's amazing.

  • Actually, it sucks, doesn't it?

  • So how do you stop procrastinating?

  • Oh,

  • simple.

  • Just nail yourself to a chair.

  • That's what you do.

  • You tell yourself, no booze until you get it done.

  • That works.

  • No, it doesn't.

  • The reason why these things don't work

  • is because most of us don't even

  • understand what procrastination is.

  • I know I certainly didn't.

  • The reason why you procrastinate is not why you think.

  • Procrastination has nothing to do with work.

  • Procrastination is a stress reliever.

  • That's right.

  • It's a tool that you use to give yourself relief

  • from stress that you feel,

  • and the stress that you may be feeling right now.

  • Might be stressed about money,

  • you might be stressed about your health.

  • Maybe your stressed about something going on at work,

  • or about a relationship that you're in.

  • And the way that this relates to procrastination

  • is you're stressed out,

  • you got work you know you need to do,

  • but instead of doing it, you go online,

  • or you watch the highlights of last night's game,

  • or you waste an hour looking at Facebook.

  • And when you do that, when you avoid work,

  • makes you feel good,

  • but just for a minute.

  • See, this is where we get procrastination all wrong.

  • A lot of people think procrastination is about will power,

  • it means that you're lazy.

  • Has nothing to do with that.

  • It's all about your stress.

  • That's why your work ethic, or discipline,

  • that's not gonna solve this either.

  • The key to stopping procrastination,

  • number one, is understanding what it is,

  • it's a way that you deal with stress.

  • And number two, it's about five second decisions

  • that stop the cycle of procrastinating.

  • Because when you change your decisions,

  • you're gonna change everything.

  • And here's how you're gonna use the 5 Second Rule to do it.

  • When you catch yourself procrastinating,

  • or you feel yourself starting to avoid what you need to do,

  • use the rule.

  • Five, four, three, two, one,

  • activate your prefrontal cortex, and then acknowledge.

  • Acknowledge that you feel stressed out.

  • That's the first piece.

  • Then you're gonna use the 5 Second Rule to just get started.

  • That's it, for five minutes.

  • That's all I'm askin'.

  • Force yourself, I'm stressed out, I get it,

  • but I'm gonna work for five minutes.

  • Five, four, three, two, one, sit down and get started.

  • After you've worked for five minutes,

  • give yourself a break.

  • Watch all the cat videos you want, I don't really care.

  • The point here is that this is a way

  • that you can use the 5 Second Rule

  • in combination with research about beating procrastination

  • that puts you in control of your decisions.

  • Stacy found that when she used the 5 Second Rule

  • to improve her relationship with herself,

  • there was an amazing result, she stopped procrastinating.

  • In her words, "Your rule has helped me grow in ways

  • "I never thought possible.

  • "I no longer procrastinate on anything."

  • And the same is gonna be true for you.

  • Because when you understand that procrastination

  • is something that you do when you're stressed,

  • and you also understand that the secret

  • to beating procrastination, which is a habit,

  • is to just get started,

  • now you can use the 5 Second Rule

  • to leverage all the research

  • that will help you end the habit

  • of procrastinating once and for all.

  • To learn more about the science behind why this works,

  • why just getting started is the key,

  • and all of the science behind it,

  • I want you to read Chapter 11 of The 5 Second Rule book.

  • And it's available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble,

  • and at your local bookstore.

  • - [Man] Cool.

In this video, I'm gonna show you the specific way

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