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  • This is for you - thank you - burger- thanks

  • And salad for you - thank you

  • How do you guys eat like that and still stay so skinny?

  • *laughs* You're kidding, right?

  • You can eat whatever you want, if you just throw it up afterwards

  • You guys do that? That's like totally unhealthy...

  • Like being overweight isn't?

  • Trust us it's fine and you should start doing it too

  • Yeah you better

  • Unless you like getting fat.

  • You're out to eat when you see a teenage girl

  • being pressured by her friends to binge and purge.

  • Do you step in to warn her about the dangers?

  • Or do you step away and let the girl handle this "weighty" issue on her own?

  • What would you do?

  • C'mon we wouldn't hurt you

  • What goes down must come up

  • I really don't know about this guys...

  • We're grabbing a bite at the Eldorado Diner

  • in Tarrytown, New York.

  • Maria and Lenique are trying to force their friend Rachel to binge and purge.

  • How will people react?

  • The day starts with this man.

  • He overhears the pressure the girls are putting on Rachel.

  • You do and it makes you feel happy.

  • But all you do is just eat and throw up and then you're fine.

  • Do you know how many people do it?

  • Do you not trust us?

  • Of course I trust you guys, it just seems like a big deal.

  • It's a big deal to be fat and that's gross.

  • Josh mentioned that he saw a little bit of your stomach.

  • When he can't listen anymore,

  • he approaches the table.

  • How are you guys doing today?

  • Good, how are you?

  • My name's Jordan

  • Do you guys mind if I sit down for one second?

  • girls: No, It's okay

  • I couldn't help but overhear your conversation,

  • and it's not really my business, but I just want to let you guys know that

  • I think you guys are all really pretty girls, okay?

  • And the binging and purging...so...

  • I'm a professional basketball coach,

  • and I have a master's degree in nutrition,

  • and that's a really unhealthy thing for you guys to do at your age because you're really

  • welcome to do whatever you would like to do...

  • -- This guy is great --

  • But I just felt like I had to let you know that

  • that's a really dangerous behavior.

  • Also, if, um, you know if you guys are

  • dating boys that are putting that kind of pressure on you,

  • I think you guys

  • can do better than that.

  • I'm sorry for interrupting your guys' breakfast...

  • We interrupt the conversation so we can talk to him.

  • A lot of these young girls try to take the easy way out.

  • They want it now, so when you hear these girls say there's nothing wrong with it,

  • yeah for me it was really concerning I mean I'm married I have a daughter and

  • I've got sisters and so to just hear these girls talking about that kind of

  • stuff really kind of concerned me and I felt terrible coming and interrupting their

  • conversation but I just felt like I had to say something.

  • Join us, or be fat. Your choice.

  • This group says something once Rachel is alone at the table.

  • Don't worry.

  • Thank you.

  • Don't listen to them.

  • It's not real friends that'll treat you that way.

  • They said they're not going to be my friend anymore unless i do it.

  • No, you have a good head.

  • Don't do it. Don't do it.

  • It's gonna make you ill.

  • That's ill. That's sick.

  • Guys don't want girls who do that, anyway.

  • You're a beautiful girl.

  • Thank you.

  • Don't fall for peer pressure.

  • Yeah peer pressure is no good.

  • Thank you.

  • I have two daughters that are in their 30's now. They never did it.

  • They're coming back I don't know what to do.

  • Don't worry about it.

  • You ready?

  • What are you doing? Let's do it.

  • It's your turn.

  • Wait why did you go sit there?

  • Because they were just talking to me.

  • We asked her to come over to talk to us.

  • We're just trying to help her... we want her to look better like us.

  • What, you think you look good?

  • Who said that?

  • *laughs*

  • All the other guys at school...

  • Good. Doesn't make you look good.

  • Okay, Rach, c'mon

  • She has her own head.

  • Let's go, girl

  • Leave her alone.

  • She needs to lose weight!

  • She will lose it the way she wants to,

  • not the way you want her to!

  • Rachel, come on.

  • We talked to the trio.

  • Oh, this is great!

  • I love this

  • I know this show!

  • You did very well!

  • What would you say to them?

  • I would say that your internal confidence, that's what matters.

  • There is a million guys out there. If she's confident inside of her,

  • She will find the right one.

  • I have two young daughters myself, you know,

  • so i just want to make sure that they're on the right path, and we understand how

  • peer pressure is so prevalent.

  • This final couple is listening in.

  • Whatever. Honestly, be fat then.

  • Maria and Lenique leave once again.

  • After a few moment pass, we tell Rachel to join them.

  • That's when Loretta and Nick Gaspari get involved.

  • *mouths* Don't do it.

  • *mouths*I don't know what to do.

  • They're not normal.

  • Those kids are not normal.

  • Don't do it.

  • Rachel: They said that they're helping...

  • Loretta:I know they're your friends, but that's pretty disgusting

  • what they're doing.

  • I mean, and then to make an announcement?

  • That's pretty sick.

  • Don't get involved with something like that.

  • You don't need them for friends because they're really screwed up.

  • Rachel: They said they won't hang out with me unless I do it with them.

  • Well, screw them!

  • All you're gonna do is get yourself hurt.

  • It's not good for you, honey.

  • Well they said I need to do it.

  • You're a pretty young girl,

  • and you look like you're very healthy.

  • So take care of yourself.

  • Okay but they're waiting for me.

  • Let them wait.

  • What are they gonna do?

  • I mean, they're sick. There's something wrong with them.

  • They're mentally disturbed.

  • Why didn't you come? We were waiting for you...

  • Are you ready?

  • Why don't you leave her alone? Let her make her own decisions.

  • I mean what's wrong with you girls?

  • It's not good for you, honey.

  • It's not.

  • You're gonna wind up hurting yourself.

  • Alright. Let's go.

  • Loretta: So you're gonna bring her to the bathroom? Wait! What's wrong with you?

  • You're gonna hurt her.

  • We're not hurting her, she's our friend.

  • You spend a fortune on food, and then you go throw it up?

  • Come on, get outta here.

  • It's none of your business.

  • Don't be a smart ass, little lady.

  • Yeah, look at you!

  • Look at what you're doing to your friend, you've got her crying.

  • We have to talk to these "new friends" and advocates for Rachel.

  • Wow, you were upset.

  • Yes, I was!

  • Nick: She was good!

  • Loretta: Because I know people that have done that.That is horrible.

  • That is so horrible.

  • You know people who have done this? Young girls?

  • Yes, as a matter of fact, my daughter.

  • I mean I had...when they were teenagers one of them,

  • but then they were fine.

  • You know, after that, so, I mean so I know what it's like.

  • But you don't know that young girl...

  • No, no, I don't know her.

  • So why get involved?

  • I just couldn't help it. It bothered me.

  • Those kids got me mad!

  • You gotta do the right thing.

  • It gets...you know, she's a young kid.

  • You just can't leave her...you know, God knows where they could go with this.

  • I know.

  • You know, it it drugs next time? Peer pressure's tough.

This is for you - thank you - burger- thanks

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