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  • Why would you go to your ex-girlfriend's birthday party?

  • It seemed like a good idea. You two ended months ago, and on good terms

  • She even told you about her new boyfriend!

  • But still, you didn't think it would sting this much

  • Look at him. Home owner, entrepreneur,

  • food connoisseur, all the '-eurs'!

  • He's a self-made man! He even made you this drink, something de fleur?

  • Ugh, another '-eur'

  • Even you have to admit

  • What a catch!

  • He's got his life together, like a real adult

  • My god!

  • Is that a simple human trash can?

  • Those things are like super fancy

  • Charlie might as well be the personification of a simple human trashcan

  • Elegant,

  • classy,

  • stainless-steel

  • And what are you?

  • Oh my god, what is that?

  • That can't be your trashcan!

  • You've been using the same one ever since you moved into college but you never realized it got this bad

  • Was that stain always there?

  • Was that stain always there? Your place is a mess; no your life is a mess

  • You're late on rent

  • Your voicemail is full

  • Your food's expired

  • Your style's expired

  • Who knew holding on to all this stuff would actually show how much you let yourself go?

  • Maybe that's why I should let you go

  • And who could blame her? There's no one to blame but yourself, you've been living like a twenty-one-year-old for nine years

  • Time to grow the fuck up

  • First things first,

  • Finances. Rent, utilities, insurance

  • What the hell is credit, and why is everyone telling me it's so low?

  • Hey, hundred is perfect.

  • Not when it's out of 850

  • Oh god.

  • You need to get your money in check. Hell, your checks aren't even in check. Learn how to budget and stick with it

  • Because if you spend more then you need to earn more. You want to earn more

  • you need a better job

  • But wait, as you sift through job listing after job listing

  • you realize all this effort you're putting in is toward a position you don't even care about

  • That's when it hits you: you don't just need a job, you need to start your...

  • career

  • For the first time since your dorm spicy wing challenge in college, you're building yourself toward a single goal

  • Sure that might mean starting off at the bottom rung, but at least it's on a ladder you want to climb

  • Assuming someone hires you.

  • "They'll see you now, are you ready?"

  • Are you?

  • You think you are

  • You've updated your very short resume, cleaned yourself up, put on a tie

  • But, you have no interview skills and that's okay you'll do better...

  • ...next time

  • ...and the next time

  • ...and the next time

  • and then, one sticks!

  • "See you Monday"

  • Congratulations!

  • You're employed!

  • You finally convinced someone to give you a chance

  • They liked you on paper and now it's time to play the part

  • You should probably look the part too

  • "I am so sorry, oh sh..."

  • Don't worry, you won't be needing that shirt anymore

  • It's true!

  • The clothes don't make the man, the man makes the clothes

  • But it doesn't hurt to update your wardrobe to this decade, and your haircut!

  • Read a fashion article here and there, learn the basics

  • "My belt and dress shoes have to match?"

  • Yep!

  • What else do you not know?

  • The proper way to squat

  • The difference between a dumbbell and a kettlebell

  • The fact that getting that sexy bod isn't just about exercise but also about...

  • ...your diet!

  • You can't rely solely on your metabolism to take care of that 4 a.m.

  • breakfast burrito anymore

  • And let's face it, five years of pizza rolls and dino nuggets has taken its toll on you

  • But eating healthy can still taste good and it'll even save you money

  • You might actually start enjoying vegetables!

  • Guess your mom was always right

  • But now that you're cooking,

  • working out,

  • and starting a new job,

  • time becomes more valuable so you start setting a schedule and sticking to it

  • No more flaking, you make time for work, your friends and most importantly...

  • ...your family

  • Don't worry, you can also set aside time, to do nothing

  • Ultimately, you start to see how important it is to plan things out

  • "Hey, Drew!"

  • "Hey!"

  • "What are you doing here man?"

  • "What's up Carl, hey Jen!

  • Just hanging out, what about you?"

  • "My friend wanted to try this cafe, this is Nancy"

  • "Hi I'm-"

  • "Drew!"

  • "Yeah, we actually used to work on the same floor!"

  • "Really?"

  • "Wait, are you...?"

  • "Yep!"

  • "I spilled coffee on this guy the day he got hired."

  • "Wow, small world!"

  • And that some things, you never see coming

  • But first...

  • ...you gotta learn car maintenance

  • "Cars have gaskets?"

  • and...

  • ...house maintenance

  • "Sinks have gaskets?"

  • You're independent in so many other aspects of your life

  • You should be able to fix a sink!

  • "Uh-oh."

  • Or at least know who to call to do it right

  • The trained professional tells you that it's better

  • to buy a more expensive gasket, than replacing a cheap one three times

  • Quality has meaning now

  • So you start looking around your apartment!

  • What else should you invest in?

  • Better furniture,

  • better cookware,

  • better...

  • You can't help but chuckle

  • With all the upgrades you've made in your life, and all the adulting you've done

  • there's one thing you almost forgot about!

  • It's the same one Charlie had

  • You almost forgot about him and all his '-eurs'

  • You almost forgot about the build statements,

  • countless interviews,

  • number of squats,

  • and faulty faucets that led you here

  • Because you realize becoming an adult...

  • isn't about eating kale or making a lot of money or buying new clothes

  • Becoming an adult is about taking control of your life

  • and living up to your full potential

  • "Hey! Ready to go hun?"

  • "Oh, uh... yeah!"

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