Have the conversation with the person that's holding you back. The reason most people who are listening right now

不，其實我父母很支持我

are not doing that thing is they're worried about the opinion of somebody

那你在擔心什麼？

Am so devastated that you actually let your grandma's point of view your mom your dad your sister your aunt

失敗嗎？

You still let somebody else dictate based on their opinion?

不是失敗，而是...

Every action you do and it's your life

當我的朋友都往前進了，我卻還在原地踏步

The reason I'm super happy is nobody can tell me nothing my wife mom and daughter could walk into my room right now

大錯特錯

Tell me on a piece of crap and I would be 100% unfazed that is some gangster emotional structure

你想要的東西和你的朋友不同

If you're not feeling it

你何必去在乎他們擁有什麼？

Find new friends. I'm being dead serious about this. This one is real big for me

人們感到不快樂的主要原因

The only way I've seen now that I'm older that you can build confidence is if you surround yourself with people that are optimistic

是因為他們在意別人的意見多過於自己的想法

Start trimming your friend group and start adding to your friend group

去和那個羈絆住你的人談一談

predicated on what you want to be. Like it's unbelievable what happened to me

正在收聽的人們不願意去這麼做的原因

when I got into the Silicon Valley world and started meeting like Mark Zuckerberg

是因為他們過度擔心別人怎麼想

And like F Williams and like Travis like it changed my life

我感到非常無力

Everybody in this room needs to cut out as much of the noise and time with people that are negative and

你願意讓你祖母的觀點

spend as much time with people that are positive. The people you spend time with are the ones that dictate your mindset

你母親、你父親、你姊姊、你阿姨

You can limit your time with your mom. You can limit your time with your best friend

你還在讓別人的意見左右你的人生

You could tell your girlfriend or husband to go fuck themselves

你的所作所為影響的可是你自己的人生

Yeah, you fucking roll up in your dad your mom your sister and say fuck you. I'm out because you're fucking toxic

我常保快樂的原因是因為沒有人能告訴我該怎麼做

I'll see you in six years. You can figure out why the fuck I left. You're accepting to be in that relationship

就算我老婆、我母親和我女兒現在走進來

If you feel motivated by this conversation or you're intrigued by it add one new winner friend

說我是塊狗屎

Like, you know what? I mean? I had one new winner friend and cut one loser friend

我百分之百不會有任何動搖

I felt like even when I give it away and I don't speak to them the chatter of them talk like that means it's like

我的精神狀態就是這麼的無所畏懼

That means you value their opinions

如果你感受不到共鳴

Yeah. I don't. Yeah

換一批新的朋友

Please let this be the video that drills through your head

我是說真的

That your life is predicated on when you get real quiet and you can't hear another

我認為這件事非常重要

fucking person's two cents that has nothing to do with you and everything to do with where there are in your life

我看到的唯一方法

are you really gonna let those eight or nine people dictate your life because you are so fearful of

到了我這年紀時

judgment from others that at the end of the day when you're 87, you will not give a fuck about

如果你想要建立自信