questions all about UK based stuff and one of the questions we get with

regards to moving to London or living in London is how do you get a date? Yeah and

a lot of people ask are we dating, we get that question quite a lot which we're gonna get into in the video

stay tuned! It's complicated, we'll reveal everything! Are they married? So many people assume, they jump straight to marriage I get

texts being like oh I love you and your wife and I'm like ... texts?! Oh not texts, DMs, yeah messages on

Instagram. Slide into my DMs. I'm like you didn't even go for girlfriend you just went straight

for wife so before we get down and dirty

okay so before we get to the action so before we get to the juicy bits so before we get

to the juicy bits I need to tell you that this video is actually being

sponsored by Wingman. Wingman are an app that help your best friend play

matchmaker to find you a date so I'm here teaming up with Wingman to help

find Joel the perfect date because I love him this isn't about me it's about

my best mate. It's all about me! *sings* not too much.

so Joel give us a little rundown so far of your London life and your dating

existence in London okay cuz a lot of people want to know a lot of people want to know. And this is the video you have ALL

been waiting for. Watch to the end to find out how you can win a date with me

basically I hate dating I hate romance I hate love I don't

really like until recently I don't want anyone in my life like I don't need

anyone to complete me I'm very much like a lone wolf whatever so I

think in my life I've been on two dates no you've been on more than that, okay maybe when I was a teenager but

that was like doesn't really count - like friend zoned. Since being an adult

since being an adult I've been on two dates so I'm gonna help you Joel I have

downloaded this app you might have already seen we did a little post on our

Instagram about the people I've been swiping left or right for Joel and the

reason I'm doing this for him is because Joel doesn't like dating he's too lazy

to go on the app no you're not that lazy and also you're probably - you read into

things too much yeah I'm scared a bit I think because I don't like- I have

downloaded some apps before and I just get fed up with them because I'm just

like I swiped because I liked you and you haven't matched with me so you obviously

don't like me back well the trick is to just forget about all these things, so I'm handling all the swiping. That's the thing so then I won't even know because you're

handling it all so I won't know if someone's swipe no to me exactly. For anyone who

isn't familiar with the dating app it goes like this

people's faces appear on the screen who are also single and looking for a date

and usually the person who's looking would swipe right for yes and left for

no but with Wingman your best friend does that for you I'm filtering out

people who I absolutely know won't be right for my amazing best friend and I

am selling him on the app by writing his profile for him you are the kindest guy

anyone is ever gonna meet I've said not to be messed around with the person you

meet needs to have a bit of banter yeah if they were Plain Jane they're just not

gonna get further than five minutes. What if they're vanilla oh there's nothing worse

than someone vanilla. Vanilla is an insult. Have you ever been on a date

though because you've used apps in the past have you ever been on a date where

it's just bombed oh yeah 100% oh really and you've been like you've got no

personality I'm scared to talk about it because I know they watch the channel, so now you've just given it away

It's YOU. If you're watching... it's you. Yeah, you know,

sometimes you turn up and they're very vanilla or the chemistry's

just not there so really this is actually more scary for you because if I turn up

on a date and they're vanilla then I've got you to blame, oh don't put it on me, Joel, I am an incredible Wingwoman

I am basically I love playing cupid in life, I've already set up

people that are getting married next year that was me I set that up I was

born for this job it's never been more right and who

better yeah to sell than you oh it's true because also whoever it is that I end up

with in the future has got to get along with you like

you're a huge part of my life so it might as well go through you in the first

place. They're gunna have to deal with me. And they're gunna have to not get jelly.

like "you're spending way too much time with Lia" no I'm not okay business partner, yeah business/best friend

Exactly, I've got a lot of work to do and you know you can just enjoy the rewards

Yeah I will, I'm excited to see who you match for me, oh it's a very specific type

yeah it's not all about image either, it's about what they say

about them so if they've not written any bio straight away gone yeah wasn't Harry

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle set up by a mutual friend

and they said that in an interview and everyone was thinking my god I wish I

was that mutual friend. Imagine the responsibility being like, I set up

these two people that the world are going crazy over crazy about showbiz meets

royalty. What friend was that?

Who knew, Meghan Markle and Prince Harry, like who are they? Who have they got in their phonebook?

That's amazing and I can't say it was me. Do you know any Royals? No I know people who are like ancestors. That you can set me up with?

no no one worthy of you. okay, thanks. so this

isn't about me but I love that I'm involved, you LOVE it! I love it so much and I think what I

really want to help you get out of this yeah is for you to not have

the nerves of going on a date with someone and for you to not resent just getting

yourself out there a bit, yeah I think that will take away some of the nerves is

thinking that you're on it you're sorting out there's no pressure for me

to like be on my phone like twice a day just to check like just start swiping

like that bits done for me then they arrive to me and they've been

filtered. It's so celeb isn't it? I just get my matches sorted out for me. You love anything

that's celeb. Any service that suggests an element of celebrity is

so up your street. It's not even necessarily about it being celeb I just like no faff

I just like giving the faff to other people and being like you deal with this

yeah just come back to me once there's like something solid. If you've got a best friend who's

willing to take on a bit of admin fun admin not boring admin, then I can't think of anything

more perfect than this match making app. also it will keep me accountable to you

because you'll be like have you spoken to that person like that you've matched

with because you know that this happened so yeah there's

no escape you can't lie and say oh no I've not had any matches because you know. I'm filtering that.

yeah we're not gonna give away too much guys but Joel has got a couple of

dates lined up he's going red he's had a lot of interest on the app but who knows

maybe if you sign up for the app you might find yourself on a date with Joel. It will be

so weird to like turn up one day and have someone be like oh I watch your YouTube

videos because also that's so awkward yeah I just don't like the fact that

someone could recognise you. yeah I just find it really cringe yeah already I'm

like when I talk to people I'm like I just make YouTube videos. Yeah I said that you were in the

entertainment business so on your profile entertainment. media and

entertainment which is true it is true. they don't need to know that

you're a vlogger no and that's not lying that's just protecting your privacy it's

true so guys for anyone who's watched this and learnt a lot about our dating

lives or Joel's dating life because this isn't about me yeah you keep saying that but you

keep linking it back to yourself. I love it Joel, I love it. I Love it! I hope that this video's been entertaining, we constantly get questions about us yeah

and so you have the answer, we're not together. Someone even asked

the other day they were like... because we've said no it'd be weird if we dated they're

like is it weird because you haven't dated. We're like no, that makes no sense!

we're not siblings we're not together we're not cousins we're not married

we're best friends it's possible for a boy and a girl to be really really

close friends and not want to bang

despite sitting on a bed, we sit on a bed every week but it doesn't mean anything! It's just completely platonic. This is the 21st century guys, get with it.

Get with it, get online, get matching get with it yeah online get your best friend to

get online yeah download Wingman if you're in a big city like London then

get yourself on the app even if you're in the states, if you're in a big city

yeah I would highly recommend Wingman oh definitely me too it's a load of fun it

makes things a lot less scary on my behalf and it's fun to involve your

friend and like have that sort of thing to talk about because so often it's done

in private oh and it can be a very lonely experience, we've not spoken about how depressing it

can be oh yeah but this is like make it you and your friend, there's

something to talk about you're not sitting there whilst I'm looking at the

menu and you're swiping and I'm not at all part of your world it's all secret

and it's yeah why should it be a secret exactly

exactly it shouldn't be it shouldn't be and it's not anymore and it isn't. Coz I know all your names, Sandra, Zoe, Hayley great well we'll

keep you guys updated thanks Wingman for sponsoring this hopefully we'll find the

one. See you next time. if you want to follow our instagram its @joelandlia on all the platforms i'm

still waving. I'll see ya later