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  • Dan, I have a question for you.

  • How does one as a person developed that ability to not be touchy feely In social situations?

  • You're pleaser.

  • You want to be liked.

  • You want everybody to like you.

  • You want to get everybody's approval forgetting man.

  • Forget that shit.

  • I don't know the surefire way to success By sure know the surefire way to failure.

  • And let's try to please everybody.

  • It is your sure fire way to failure.

  • One of things out.

  • Learning life is this.

  • You could care about other people without caring what they think you could care about the people without caring.

  • What do you think?

  • How they see you, how they perceive you, how they ve view you, has got not a thing to do with you.

  • It's none of your business.

  • He has to do more with them than to do with you.

  • Just like on social media.

  • I see comments how people see me.

  • How people view means none of my business I cannot control.

  • That has nothing to do with me because of human being.

  • We all walk around with a filter Anyway, you see what you want to see.

  • You don't actually see the reality.

  • None of us see.

  • The reality would just see what we want to see, whatever that people think of you and how they think of you.

  • That's their filters that are doing the thinking anyway.

  • So exactly the same thing, exactly the same thing that say right for one person who could say what that is The most profound thing I've ever heard for to another personal I told you, disagree with them got nothing to do with what I said.

  • It has to do with the upbringing, the background that believes right, So there's no point to argue with them, and it's stupid to think that you could change them.

  • It's a fucking waste of time when you know that.

  • What is there to be touchy feely about?

  • There's nothing to change.

  • It is a waste of time to charge and change.

  • People don't bother, right?

  • Mind your own business.

  • However you care about people without caring what you think.

  • You know what?

  • Your belt.

  • You know your values, right?

  • You know what you stand for, how they say, how they feel, how they view it.

  • None of that matters when you understand that any Sochaux setting.

  • You'll be calm.

  • You'll be cool and you don't give a shit.

  • It's OK.

  • It's OK.

  • I love that.

  • Me.

  • It matters that much anyway, right?

  • If you live life according to people, expectations of you I mean, that's a sad way to live.

  • Life is too short.

  • Life is too short.

  • That's what I believe.

  • You know what to do, by the way.

  • Comment below.

  • If you have questions for me, right doesn't have to be business.

  • I love getting questions that off more about what you're going through in life.

  • This is not just always about money and business.

  • I mean, if I could help you with some of these questions, I'll be more than happy to do that.

  • Such as, like questions like these.

  • Okay, so coming below.

  • Next time I'll pick some of the best questions.

  • Answer it.

Dan, I have a question for you.

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