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  • Dan.

  • I don't have time to socialize, and that makes me feel empty.

  • What should I do?

  • That is the price off success that you have to pay.

  • If you need the emotional support, that validation, chances are you will make it because it is very lonely when you're pursuing a path when you are building a business, when you're doing something a little bit different, when you're going a different path compared to most people in the 1st 5 years of my career, when I was building in my twenties for its 1st 5 years, I didn't take a single day off, was working every single day 1st 5 years, not a single day off, and I didn't socialize at all.

  • I was just working and putting my head down and just worked my face off right.

  • I paid the price when all my friends were socialising doing a lot of things, but I didn't have time for that.

  • Even now I don't I don't hang out.

  • I don't hang right chill.

  • I don't that's not what I do.

  • That's what most people do doesn't mean you have to be a workaholic, but it doesn't mean the beginning.

  • You have to make choices because in life, every single thing that you choose, there are consequences.

  • It's given take.

  • You give up something to get something you cannot say.

  • I want to have darlings.

  • But forget that shit, right?

  • I want to.

  • I want to be able to socialize with my friends and hang on Chill and still be very successful doesn't work that way.

  • There's a reason why people are successful and why they need to make those sacrifices.

  • If you're not willing, then don't bother.

  • And if you need the emotional support where I knew a few little bit empty that emotional baseline out of people to support me, I forget it.

  • But we expect out of people support.

  • It is lonely, And this is why most some entrepreneurs that depressed that can take the heat, and they can't deal with the pressure, and they cannot deal with the loneliness.

  • It is lonely at the top.

  • I can tell you that it is lonely at the time.

  • It gets lonelier when you are at the spear, so the more successful you become because first of all, you'll have time and second, you don't really want to have a very shallow surface level conversation with people because you feel like other people just come right.

  • If your dad is a waste of time, you feel like you have nothing in common when you're focusing on solving pick up problems.

  • They're focusing on what game it's playing on TV for on Saturday night.

  • You know what I mean?

  • It's a different level of conversation.

  • No, right or wrong, it's just a different path, just a way that is.

  • So if you have what it takes, you need to learn to be alone without being lonely.

  • You need to learn how to find some new friends.

  • So when you socialize with people, you're actually growing that you're not just wasting your time.

  • I think that's a shift at a lot of people have to make.

  • And it's one of the most difficult things that people have to do when they have to get rid of some of the old friends that they have some of negative energy trainers and negativity, you know, just negative people around in their lives.

  • That's not easy does not easy.

  • So no emotional baseline.

  • Show me your friends and I'll show you your future.

  • That's just effect.

Dan.

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