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  • I'm trying to work out who this one's from,

  • cos there's a lot of mentions of Ernie in it

  • and this is sent from Banbridge, September 2nd, 1914.

  • "My dear Ernie, my heart was sore..." Oh!

  • "..when I had to come into the house.

  • "But some day we will give them all a good day when we are

  • "getting married, won't we, love?

  • "From your ever loving sweetheart."

  • Oh, hold on.

  • "Jeannie."

  • Wow!

  • Someone was very keen on Ernie!

  • That's a great letter.

  • I mean, it's just willing this to come true by writing it.

  • So this is another letter.

  • From Jeannie, again.

  • "No-one can say to you, Ernie, that you are going with a flirt..."

  • HE LAUGHS

  • She's very funny - Jeannie.

  • "No-one can say to you, Ernie, that you are going with a flirt.

  • "I love you, Ernie, with all my heart,

  • and will till death do us part."

  • Still just...

  • ..so in love with him.

  • I want to find out...

  • I want to find out what happened to all the brothers, if possible.

  • And...

  • ..I'd like to know more about him and Jeannie cos they seem sweet.

  • Um...

  • And I wonder if they ever got to marry.

  • I really hope they did, based on those letters.

  • To find out what more the letters can reveal,

  • Daniel's meeting First World War historian Jessica Meyer.

  • We've got the letter from Ernest's mother,

  • your great-great-grandmother,

  • which is what makes this collection really quite special.

  • And then the other thing we have which is really unusual,

  • these letters from Jeannie. Yeah!

  • Which are lovely. I love them. They're so passionate!

  • They really are. They're just like old...

  • What I imagine love letters to be.

  • "I love you all the time.

  • "I love you, Ernie, with a love that will never die."

  • So even in the midst of war...

  • ..life goes on. Yeah.

  • Love carries on... Yeah.

  • ..in very difficult circumstances.

  • It is amazing.

  • This is the last dated letter that we have.

  • The latest date that we have a letter from. Oh, wow, OK.

  • 28th of May, 1916.

  • "My dear mother and father,

  • "I am writing you these few lines hoping they will find you all well.

  • "From your loving son, Ernie, to my dear mother and father.

  • "Bye-bye.

  • "And tell Flo, I don't forget...

  • "Tell Flo I don't forget about the ha'penny I owe her."

  • But then, it's great that he's still, like,

  • remembering a debt to his youngest sister.

  • He's written so regularly for...

  • ..nearly two years. Erm...

  • And then they just stop. And then they just stop.

  • Oh, dear. That doesn't bode well. No.

  • Back in his family's hometown of Banbridge,

  • Daniel hopes he can discover what happened

  • to his great-great-uncle Ernie and his brothers.

  • Oh.

  • Oh, OK, This is a roll of honour.

  • "To the glory of God and in proud and loving memory of all

  • "the following men from this parish, who in response to the call

  • "of their king and country laid down their lives

  • "in the Great War 1914-1919."

  • Yeah...

  • There's Ernie.

  • Ernest McDowell.

  • So none of the other brothers are there, though.

  • So I assume that means Ernie was the only one who...

  • ..who got killed.

  • To find out more about Ernie and his brothers,

  • Daniel is meeting genealogist Fiona Fitzsimons.

  • I've learned that Ernie did in fact die during the war.

  • Do you know anything about the circumstances of his death?

  • This is a letter written by somebody who was there with Ernie,

  • at the moment that he died... Oh, wow.

  • ..and he sent it to your great-great grandmother. Oh, wow.

  • It's very old. Yeah.

  • Yeah, it says, "Mrs McDowell.

  • "As far as I can tell you the truth about your dear beloved son.

  • "We were just after arriving in the trenches, and your boy

  • "and two more chaps from Belfast were going into a dugout

  • "to take off their packs, when a shell landed..."

  • "..which killed the three of them.

  • "I'm very sorry to say none of them did live to say a word to anyone."

  • I thought that maybe he was dying in some big battle,

  • but it was just a random shell.

  • "I think I'm after telling you the very truth about all now,

  • "for which I am only too willing to give any broken-hearted mother.

  • "As I'm...

  • "As I am the only son myself,

  • and I know the way my own mother do feel.

  • "Yours etc, James O'Brien."

  • That's extraordinary.

  • He definitely seems to want to reassure Elizabeth

  • that Ernie didn't suffer.

  • Hm...

  • Some of the particularly affecting letters that I read

  • were from Ernie's girlfriend, Jeannie,

  • and I was wondering, you know,

  • she seemed pretty devoted to Ernie in all those letters... Mm-hm.

  • So do we know anything about what happened to her?

  • We do.

  • We found a record of what happened to Jeannie from the parish registers

  • of this church.

  • "Marriage solemnised at the...

  • .."Church of the Holy Trinity."

  • Oh, wow, so, yeah, they got married here.

  • Mm-hm.

  • "Ernest McDowell and Jeannie Barlow," is that? Barlow. Barlow.

  • And look at the date. February 19th? 14th. February 14th - oh!

  • February 14th! Valentine's Day! February 14th, 1915.

  • So a real sweetheart. Ha!

  • It does make me really happy that they were able

  • to have that year together.

  • And...

  • Yeah, were able to just be a young couple for a little while,

  • before he had to go back off.

  • To have made a World War I film and, you know,

  • played at being a soldier in the trenches, you know,

  • I definitely feel more connected to all those stories,

  • now that I've kind of learned what my own family went through.

  • And suddenly realising why...

  • ..out of all the brothers,

  • Ernie's name was the one that made it down to me

  • because he was the son that went and didn't come back.

  • To find Elizabeth's letters to Ernie just give...

  • ..such an insight into what it would have been like to have your children

  • leave for the war.

  • And just to, just to find out how much...

  • ..love there is in my family.

  • You know, a lot of very sad things have happened

  • to various parts of my family.

  • But I can't be sad about it because...

  • ..everyone was really loved, and, ultimately

  • ..that means that the time they had on Earth,

  • even if it ended prematurely and sadly, was,

  • you know, was worth having.

I'm trying to work out who this one's from,

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