Now, thethingaboutCameroninstartupSiri's isthathe's a veryhungrysay, a romanticcharacter.
He's verypassionateandstufflikethat.
Sohowareyouinreallifeis, like, theonlyknowyouCameronas a character, buttheydon't knowyouasyou.
Well, theysaylifeimitatesart.
I thinkromantics a nicetermdesperateisprobably a bettertermforthe 3% ofviewerswhoarewomen.
I amsingle, youknow, um, I thinkatthebeginning, I didn't reallyknowwhatmycharacterwasgoingtobeonthestartofSiri's, andthen I justcametorealizelikemyacting's notgreat, but I couldbemyself.
I thinkyou'reactingisgreat, unlessthat's justyourself.
I am a loveabledorkandreallyright.
Likewhen I wasstrugglingdoingpushups, I wasactuallystartingtoput.
Thatwasn't acting.
Thatwasreality.
I didtellyoutodolike a shitton, butbecausewekept, wekeptlikewe'retakingthesamething.
I wasexhaustedbytheendoftheheavybreaths.
Thosethosewerereal.
There's a littlebitofreality.
There's a littlebitof a joke.
I thinkit's metotheextreme.
Sosoareyou a programmer?
Aresomethingelseinthestart?
Siri's yourprogrammer.
I'vewrittenhowlittleworldin a fewdifferentlanguagesimpressed, Butno, I'm not a programdatascientist.
Soyourdatascientist, it's nice.
Solet's talkaboutcareernow.
Soas a datascientist, firstofall, wheredidyouwork?
Uh, graduatedoutofUCBerkeleyon, andthen I workedfortenderfor a coupleofyears, andnow I amworkingonunnamedlargetechcompanyinthebay.
Well, sec, I wonderwhatthatis.
Noidea, Dio.
Theycallitlikeheadpages.
I thinkofthat.
I wonder I wonderwhatitis.
Youknowthewaysotenderwasyourfirstjob?
Yeah, thatiscrazy.
Interesting.
Soyoumightknow a lotaboutrelationshipsoratleastdating.
I'm oneofthosepeoplewhojoinedtindercause I didn't knowhowtorelationships.
I think, likemaybe I'velearnedSodidyoulearnanything?
Oh, yeah.
I learned a lot.
I wentonHowmanydateswise?
Myfirstyear.
A tender.
I wentononedate.
Itwasbad.
Well, maybeyouwerejustveryselective, right?
No, I wasright.
It's, like, constantlygetalongmatches, though.
No, no, no, no.
I hadtoputinworktogetmatches, But, youknow, thefirstyearwascloser, Roughy.
Andtheneventually I startedfiguringoutwhattodoandeverything I'm like.
No, I wasgoingondatesoneortwodates a weekbylike, mysecondyear a tenderjustcause I figuredoutwhattodowow, That's actually a lotoneortwodays a week.
I'm a firstdatemachinesecondday.
It's notsomuchyouneveroncedonekindofdeal.
I'm gonnaaskyoumorequestionsaboutthatlaterbecause I wantsometipsalso.
Oncewe'retheonlyonesthatreallycallmebackbecause I hadthemathbackgroundforit.
Sothen I wentintoanalytics a tender.
Youweredoingbiomedicalengineering.
Yeah, and, uh, andtherewere a lotofmathandthat I guessYeah.
I mean, it's like a lotofengineeringclasses I like.
I likestats.
So I did a lotofstatsclassonthesideandeverything, likethebioinitselfwasenoughtohandleanyofthemaththatyoudois a datascientist.
Yeah, thatmakessense.
Because I waswondering, withthatdegreetoday, evenlike, lookatyoubecause I feellikeitwouldfeellike, I guess, No, myteam.
There's a lotofpeoplewhoarelatebyonphysicsPeachtouselike, yeah, mydatascienceteams.
There's like a lotofpeoplewhocamefrom, like a bioengineeringbackground, actuallymorewhodothat, thencomefromlike a stats, backgroundor a mathbackground.
Likewhen I interviewedforanalystpositions, likeontheotherendoftheinterviewer.
I keptonseeingresumesthatwerejust, like, packedwitheveryprogramminglanguagepossibleand, like I usuallytrashthembecausetherealityisthat, likeallthesepeoplehavetheexactsameresume, likeit's literallytemplateID.
NotlikeDoc, exactly.
Wordforword, but, like, objectivelythesame.
Andthenwhen I see 100 ofthose, I don't knowwhich 100 topick.
So I don't thinkanyofthemthereasonbeinglike I lookforpeoplewhohavesomedistinctinterestinthefield, andthatgivesme a bettersignallikethere's a reasonthey'reapplyingthisjobinsteadofjustslammingtheirresumeouteverywhere.
Sounds a littlebitlikedating.
Itdoessound a littlebitlikebecause, youknow, myprofilejustgeneric.
So I compliedmost.
Doyouhave a canpickupline?
No, I don't.
Actually, I justsay, Hey, yousayheyandthatworks.
No, you'relooking.
I mean, that's thething.
Likeifthey'regirls, I don't careaboutthat.
I say, Hey, becauseiftheysayheybackandtalktome, theymustreallylikeme.
So I'd bedownifsomeone's readslike, reallyintome, right?
Butifit's someonethat I thinkshe's sohotearly, whichissointeresting, then I'lltakemorelike I'lltakethetimetolikelike a profiletry, thinkof a funnylineandthendoit.
HowmanyresponsesdoyougetwhenyousayHey?
No.
When I tellyou, yeah.
Oh, yeah, I wentoutof 10.
That's actuallyprettygood.
Really, That's actuallynotbad.
So I mean, I don't getalongmatcheseither, right?
Soyou'resayingasifyouhave 10 matchesDoyouthinkisincompletesampling a smallnumbers, half a responseonfive.
I'm gonnatrynottalkingaboutthemathpartfirst, becauselike, I thinkthere's a lotofcoolmathandthere's a lotoftheoptimization, likewhat I learnedmoreaboutwaskindofthemindsetofdatingoff.
Andbythat I mean, like, youcanreallygointodatingwithtwodifferentmindsets.
Well, firstoff, youcouldjustnotdate, and I know a lotofpeopledothatandlikethey'rehappydoingthat.
Oneofthings I learned a tenderfrom, like, alloftheresearchandinterviewsideaisthat, like, thepeoplewhogointothatmindsetarejustsomuchhappierwiththeprocess.
ButButthethingis, I'm nottryingto, like, showthemreallycoolorthatit's likeaninterview, or I wanttogettoknowthatalmost.
I don't trytogettoknowthem.
E o notsurprised, butin a goodway, becauseBecause I thinkOkay, honestly, I thinkmyseconddateratiosairisprettygoodbecause I trytoentertainthemforthefirstday.
Youknow, likemybestjokesorwhatever.
I justhavefunofthem.
So I kindofwanttobreaktheiceassoonaspossible.
Andthat's how I doit.
Yeah, I learnednothingaboutthem, andtheyusuallyarenothingaboutmeeither.
I thinkthereasonwhyitgoestotheseconddatesooftenisbecauseone, foroncetheydon't feellikethatawkward, smalltalkaretryingtoforceyourselftolearnabouttheotherpersonbecausewedidn't learnabouteachother.
Youknow, itwaspurelyjustfun, right?
Well, that's how I enjoymyfirstdaysatleast.
Andthisisoneofthingsthat I mean, I learnedisthat, youknow, firstdate, youcheckofftheboxesfortheotherpersonsomewhatso, like, youdon't necessarilyaskingabouttheirdeepestpersonalsecrets, butlikeyoufindoutifthey'recompatibleReligion.
Youaskedaboutpolitics, thesethingsthatareactuallyconsideredtaboo, likeensuringthatcompatibilitylike, savesyou a lotoftime.
Especiallylikeinthebay.
Latewordpoliticsissuch a bigdealhere.
If I'm dating a girlandlike, um, she's notcoolwiththefactthat I'm libertarianandnotliberal, which a lotofgirlsherelikearen't like, youknow, I'm not.
I'm notcrazyaboutit.
Butlikeifshe's crazyaboutitendsrightthere.
LAPeopleassumethatgettingtotheseconddateislike a positivestep.
I think a lotoftimesavoidingtheseconddatecouldbe a positivestepinthat, likeyou'regettingthatsignalfastenoughthatyoufigureoutwhetherornotyouactuallyhaveinterestinthisperson, andthat's notme.
Rationalizing, cool.
I nevergoinglike, I think, youknow, Andingeneral, whenever I'vegonepasttheseconddate, it's beenwithsomeone I'veactuallybeenverycompatiblewith, and I feellikethat's beenmorevaluabletomethankindofwastingmytimeonsecondandthirddateswithpeople I'm notactuallyinterestedin.
I thinkthatmakes a lotofsensebecause, yeah, I knowmostofthetimeslikeevenif I gotosevendaystheirdates, I don't reallylikethegirlthatmuchright.
And I thinkthat's a problem, because I wasn't optimizingforlike, oh, findingsomeone, it's compatible.
Itwasme, justmaybe, justlike a Eaglething.
Tryandbelike, Oh, yeah, I gottotheseconddatekindofthinganditwas a lotlessaboutus, butmoreaboutmekindofthing.
I thinkit's reallyeasytosetupcheckpointslikeeveneveryonedoesthisontendertowrite, youcomparehowmanymatchesyouhaverightofthepeople.
It's addictive, youknow, getspeopletokeeponusingitfor a potentialgirlfriendthattherearecertaincheckboxes, right?
Butthesecheckboxesdon't reallymeananything.
Once I starttalkingthemand I justreallyenjoymyselfwiththem, I alwaysendupinthestagewhereit's like, Oh, I reallyenjoythispersonButshedoesn't havethecertaincheckboxes.
Youknow, it's it's a littlebitshallow, butfor a girlfriendoratleastlikeorlike a wife, youknow, I wanthertomakeyeah, atleastdecentmycollegeeducatedstufflikethat.
Butsometimes I meetgirlswhoare, likenotcollegeeducated, evenoreventheydosomethingthat I reallydon't careaboutyou.
But I have a lotoffunwiththem, so I continued.
Butitalwayshastoend.
Hangout.
Yeah, goon.
Theyhadsufferedthroughthem a lot, right?
Because I doenjoytheircompany.
Butthenonceitcomestolikesomethingmoreserious, thishastoendand I feellike I'vewasted a lotoftimebecauseofthem.
I think a lotofpeoplejust I don't feelcomfortablehavingphotostakenofthemlikemyself.
100% includedthere.
Sowhen I startedtender, I had a lotoflikeblurryphotos, badlighting, nogroupphotos, thatkindofstuffbecause I don't likebeinginfrontofthecamerainoneofthosepeoplewerelikemynaturalreactiontoseeingcamerastodolike a stupidfacekindofthing.
It's just I didthatallisevenas a kid, I fixed a lotofThat's like I wouldn't have a smilenormallykindofupgradingmyphotosofitthemoreyoulearntouse, likethetimer.
Oryoucouldtakeselfieswith a goodcamera.
I havefriends, Soyeah, Friends O e.
I don't thinkanyofmyphotosyourselfisGod.
I hopetheyaren't.
Youknow, myprofilepictureliketheblackandwhiteone.
Yeah, actually, mostofthem.
That's right.
That's a timer.
Right?
Sowhat?
I mean, itis a selfieas, and I tookit, butyeah, it's a timer.
Howmanytakesdidyouhavetodoforthatone?
I don't know, liketwentysomething 30.
Soeitheryouarededicated.
D'oh.
I do a lotoffaces.
Theonlybadexceptone.
That's likeOkay.
Andthenwhen I putonlikeFacebook, peoplesecretlytellmelike, Oh, bytheway, it's not a goodphoto.
Fuck, It's likeyoudon't knowwhat's a goodphotoofyourself?
Itwasoneofstereotypicalthingswherepeoplethinkitdoesn't matterthatmuch, butitboostsyourrightswhitebreadbylike a hugemargin.
Justhaving a doginyourprofile, evenifit's notyourdog.
I didn't havemydoginmyphone.
I have a dogand I had a cuterdoginmyphotosinstead.
Butdogsnolonger a puppysideDefythisotherpuppyandputhimin E.
I don't loveyou.
Absolutelylovemydog.
I'm sorry.
Static.
Verygoodboy.
So I guesswe'retoremaininthetimewejusttalkaboutlikeyouas a personbecause, youknow, peoplewanttogettoknowyou.
I thinkatleastlikethepeopleinthissquaredyouonlyfivepeoplewhoareinterestedget 10 viewsonthisbadboy.
So, whatdoyoudoforfun?
So I was a competitivegamerincollege.
Um, legallegends.
Fuckingnoidea.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Nevertoldyouaboutthis.
Howmuch I played.
I'vebeenplayingsinceseasonone.
I gotuptolikeHighMasterwasreallyclose.
Challengerbackintheday.
So I usedtoplay a lot, justendupon, like, prostreamsjusttogetrecognized.
Thatwaslike a bigmotivatorforme.
A simpleenough I'm notreally, isgood.
But, likejustthefactthatpeopleknewmynamewassosatisfyingtome, eveniftheydidn't think I was a goodplayerformyrating, youknow, forbeingoneoftheworstplayers.
Thatwasalready a piece.
Oh, I knowsoknowwhatdid.
So, Yeah, youknowmetoo.
HolyShed.
Itwasfun.
Itwas a timesync.
Um, I stillplaythat I dobartriviabar.
Shit.
Yeah, I wasequitablenerdinhighschool.
Weightwas a tributeforanything.
WhichshowsareIt's a lotofpopculture, a lotofpopculture.
I'm a sportsbuff, mostly e fancyfootball, and I watch a lotofhockey.
I'llgotomaybefiveorsixSharksgames a year, beginningintocoupleweirdthingsRecently, I'm gettingnotweird, reallyweirdforme.
Begettingintomeditation.
Oh, that's good.
That's beentriedgettingintoit.
Yeah, I wasokayfor a while, butthen I suddenlystoppedtryingtowait, butwhydoyoulikemeditating?
I recognizedoutit's likegettingstressedjustoff.
Andso, like, itwasoneofthosethingswhere I waslike I needtocontrolthis.
Theyuseheadspace.
Yeah, that's bass.
That's a G.
Whatlevelareyou, bro?
I mean, I'veonlybeendoingnowfor, like, a fewweeks.
Yeah, amateurhourhere.
Butit's beenhelpingsofar.
I thinkit's importanttogetthat, like I'm goingtomake a boldstatement.
I don't knowifit's true.
I thinkanxietyanddepressionareprettycommonintheBayAreaduetotheamountofstressthatworkputsonyouhere.
Like, I definitelyfeltmorestressedherethan I didwhen I waslivingoutinTexas, and I thinkthat's true.
Forlike a lotofotherpeople, it's beenonething.
Theotherone.
I havestartedtolearnMandarinso I canhitonChinesecoworkers.
I'm startingtolearn, likebasicsentences, understandthetones, thatkindofstuff, oneofthingswhere I feellikeit's actuallyusefultoknowhere, giventhat, likesomanyofmycoworkers, reallynativeMandarinspeakers, wheneverhavelearnedthelanguageinthepast, youhitthatpointwhereyoustartspeakingitwithpeopleandthen, like I didn't haveanyonetospeakanythingwith.
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