Name: 為什麼大多數的決議都會失敗，如何成功？ (Why Most Resolutions Fail & How To Succeed)
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So in this video I want to talk about the science of why they fail

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and how to avoid that so your New Year's resolutions actually succeed

and I want to tell you about three of my New Year's resolutions for 2020.

The first one is to stop going to news websites

I find I kill a ton of time by doing that

Now don't get me wrong, I do think it's important to know what's going on in the world,

but I just don't think following the day-to-day developments of the news cycle is the way to do that

so instead I am going to get one newspaper delivered to my house every week

Research has shown it is more effective to make resolutions at new years than at any other time of the year.

In fact, one study found that people who made resolutions on January 1st

were 10 times as likely to stick with them 6 months later than people who made their resolutions at other times of the year

And January 1st 2020 is the first day of a new decade

Side note: those of you who want to argue that the first day of the decade is actually January 1st 2021,

while you may technically be correct because there was no year 0,

for all intents and purposes psychologically this January 1st is the first day of the 2020s

So the technicalities I think, are unimportant. Abd this argument should be put to bed

But now the bad news: even a resolution made at New Year's will most likely fail

which is why gyms are packed in January, but they start to clear out by March

what research has found that only around 8% of people can stick with their resolutions through the end of the year

So why is this? And, how do we avoid that trap?

I think it all starts with a misconception

Well this was going part of the video where I ran on the treadmill but the treadmill's just broken

so I think the misconception is, that people think that in order to make big changes in their lives

that they have to make some sort of really big effort

I mean let's say your goal was to run a marathon

you might plan on running ten kilometers three times a week

that seems kind of proportionate to the end goal

and you might be excited and really motivated to do it for the first few weeks

but at some point that motivation is gonna lag

and so you're gonna sort of fall back into old habits

the misconception is thinking you need to go big,

and so being over ambitious with your goals and then not being able to commit and stick to them

The truth is you're much better off if you pick small targets that you can hit consistently

that's the idea behind James Clear's book "Atomic Habits"

which is this idea that if you can get just 1% better every day at something, it will take a minimum amount of effort

but over time the effects will compound just like compound interest

and James Clear proposes the two-minute rule:

'pick something that you can do in just two minutes'

So if you want to run a marathon, start by say running two minutes a day

that is something that you can't say you don't have time for

and once that habit sticks, well then you can try to extend it into something more ambitious

the next problem with resolutions is they are too often vague

the most common resolutions that people make are to

lose weight, exercise more, and to eat better.

the problem is those things are so nondescript that it's hard to know if you're making progress

and it's really easy to regress into your old habits

so the science around this says you need to be specific

people who write down their goals are 40% more likely to achieve them

that is pretty significant just by taking that step of putting pen to paper

and I'm thinking here in this video you should put your New Year's resolutions in the comments

because at least that is taking a step towards committing yourself to a goal for the year

My second new year's resolution for 2020 is to write in a daily planner every day of this year

In fact I can be more specific than that.

Um, I will write one word in this book each day

now I know one word might seem unhelpfully ridiculously little to write in this book

but I want to commit to this idea of starting small

with the idea that if I get in the habit of making the time to at least write down one word on each one of these pages,

well then maybe some days I will write more than one word

and that will be helpful in terms of planning my day a little bit

and so hopefully I will be more productive than I would have been otherwise

and then it's really important to track your progress in an obvious and visual way

and I'm going to use the everyday calendar by Simone Giertz

Where there's a button for every day of the year

and you can push it and the light turns on

so I think this will encourage me to write down a word early in the day so that I can go and turn on the light for that day

what's great about this is it's a very visual way to track my progress

and to have it in an obvious place where I can look at it all the time

and I'll put it in the back of shot for some of my videos in 2020

so you guys can see how I'm progressing towards this goal

so the third major problem with New Year's resolutions is that people seem to think

it's about having more willpower or motivation, being able to resist temptation better

and it can be depleted that there are gonna be some bad days and that is when you're gonna relapse

so relying on willpower is not an effective strategy

and research has shown that people who have better self-control

the way they're able to do that is by structuring their environments so they don't have to exercise their willpower

I find in my kitchen it's always like the treats and snacks which are left out on the counter

but the veggies which are like tucked away in the vegetable crisper drawer

and I get it because you know that's where the veggies are meant to go to keep them crisp,

but the problem is if I don't see them, if they're not in my line of sight, I will just end up eating what's on the counter

so we need a way of changing our environments so that we make better choices

which brings me to my third and final new year's resolution for 2020:

I am deleting social media apps off of my phone

I'm getting rid of Instagram and Twitter. You are watching the exact moment that I do that

the reason for this is I find I just kill way too much time going into these apps

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