having a conversation with somebody you're not looking at their arms or leg most of the

time. Most of the time you're paying direct attention to the face and for the most part

there's a lot of different signs of attraction in the face.

One of the most useful things without a doubt is going to be smiles, so smiles and laughter.

You tend to see that when someone's attracted to somebody you tend to see a significant

amount of smiles. Like when you're on a date and no one smiles once, not a good date.

The more smiles the better and typically you want genuine smiles. Genuine smiles are indicated

by the crows feet to the left and right to the eyes and wrinkles below the eyelids. Those

are the indications of a genuine smile.

Essentially there are five points to a smile. One is the upward turning of the lips creating

that smile face. The second is the raising of the cheeks. The third is the opening of

the mouth. Most people can make that fake kind of smile. Most people can activate the

fourth and fifth criteria for a genuine smile or an zygotic smile or a smile which essentially

is the crows feet. So there's wrinkles to the left and right of the eyes and there's

slight wrinkles below the eye.

So most people when they can just nail that and look at you and give you that genuine

smile it's an indication that they really like you so it's something that you're looking

for.

You're looking for smiles, you're also looking for laughter. So laughter is definitely correlated

with date success. You'll look for blushing, that helps.

What's really cool, is you'll look for the maintenance or preparation of the face. One

of the things people tend to do is if they like you they want to look good. Right? So

you'll tend to see that during the date for example, they may constantly fix something

or constantly gesture something about their face or constantly change some sort of aspect

of their face to make themselves essentially look better.

So one of the things you'll see before people kiss is that they lick their lips a lot or

apply lip gloss. So what you can do is sit there across from somebody and they haven't

applied lip gloss once and then all of a sudden in the last 10 to 15 minutes of the date you

tend to see them apply lip gloss like three times. Why? Why are you applying lip gloss?

The reason is because you intend to be kissed.

People check their breath, people will lick their lips a lot. I see it all. I've observed

so many people do this. It makes sense. We're about to kiss somebody we want our lips to

be prepared. It's one of those things we tend to do to attracted somebody.